Why is it so hard to love someone, how to do it

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love, mainly depends on how you treat it, I think: plain love is true, when you fall in love with a person, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because when you do not protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long.

    Love someone: trust each other, love someone to understand each other.

    Love someone: Be tolerant and tolerant with more heart, and love someone with a big heart.

    Love someone: Respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

    Love someone: Support him or her behind his or her back, not hinder him/her.

    Love someone: When he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm good and happy.

    Love someone: Hide your inner fragility and grievances, and don't let him (her) know.

    Love someone Too much love, maybe it's hard not to do it.

    In fact, the most important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How exactly love is going to be, no one can answer you for sure. But guiding yourself to how to love is the real answer: follow your own heart, don't let yourself regret it after many years, and be at peace with yourself, even if the ending may not be happy But you have won your heart.

    Love, you should know that for him or her you can do worthy of this love. He may not know, he may not care about this love, but sometimes we have to endure this loneliness and move on with it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as you're sincere, that's it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What do you think love is?

    A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss?

    Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese and Korean dramas, and I have read too many romantic articles.

    This may be part of love, but definitely not most of it.

    The subject of love is life, living together.

    Can you accompany her to be sad for a while, but can you accompany her to withstand all the pressure?

    Can you give her body temperature, but can you give her direction in life?

    Have you ever imagined that when the enthusiasm fades, hugs no longer have any attraction to you?

    How do you go along?

    In fact, distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

    For the sake of the person you love, please make some sacrifices and keep your love, otherwise how can you talk about true love.

    You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

    Ask yourself, do you love so much?

    Are you willing to hurt both?

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    Life is not a good life for one person.

    It's how two people live well together.

    But for some objective reasons, in reality, you can't be together at the moment, are you just giving up so easily, and you are compromised?

    Can't you keep it for love?

    Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the happiness in front of you?

    Is this the end of my life?

    If it is true love, it will never give up.

    Hope you can adopt, thanks!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is not difficult or annoying, but people themselves add pressure to themselves and seek trouble. Loving someone should be a very happy thing.

    We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and you should be happy with her happiness and happiness with her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's easy to spoil someone, you can just dig it out, but it's hard to love someone, you have to understand him, you have to love him, you have to hide your inner worries, while encouraging him, stumbling all the way, you have to suppress the joy in your heart, and at the same time be strict with him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Lovers are indeed not simple, not too humble, not too indulgent, not not caring, not too lazy, not too serious, tolerant, tolerant, communication, mutual care, care for each other, have his (her) important position in the heart, trust each other, understand each other ......In short, feel it with your heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not difficult, it's just that the way you love people is wrong, you care too much about each other, the more you care about a person, the easier it is to lose, and the more you care about a person, the more you care about everything about the other person, which will bring pressure to the other person. It is so difficult to love someone, because love is responsible, as long as you accept his love, you must be responsible for it, and you must strive to make him feel happy in the future life, and do not regret the choice to love you in the first place; It's harder not to love someone, when you find that two people can't move forward together, for yourself and for the happiness of the person you love, you choose to leave rationally.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you really fall in love with someone, everything else is the background except for this person. It's that you don't care about his appearance, education level, and ability, as long as you see him, you feel that everything is good. If you can't see it for a moment, you feel worried.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you love someone, you have to love in every way! It's not a momentary love that is called love, but a lifelong promise! 100 heads to old age! This is called true love!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since we have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him or her when he (she) is happy, and comfort him (her) when he (she) is happy. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

    Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is simple, but it's hard to stay together!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What's so hard about it? Are you sure you want to love someone?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's easy to spoil someone, you can just dig it out, but it's hard to love someone, you have to understand him, you have to love him, you have to hide your inner worries, while encouraging him, stumbling all the way, you have to suppress the joy in your heart, and at the same time be strict with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not. Originally held in.

    What you have in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart. Life is a lot.

    There is a time to give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    To love someone is to give him freedom!

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