Very annoying, often have the idea of divorce.

Updated on psychology 2024-04-23
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Divorce. Hehe.

    Think about it, you don't have a job, no income, no status. You're divorced, everything has to start all over again, how tired you are. If you really can't stand it, the family will go out and look for a job on your own.

    A little bit of my own opinion. Income doesn't matter. What should a wife not do if she spends her husband's money.

    And you should persuade your husband to go out and live like a husband. That would ease the relationship. If you don't meet often, you can pretend to be happy even if you meet occasionally.

    I don't want your husband to be difficult.

    I think you're very immature. A mature woman will be very skillful in handling the relationship with her in-laws. Who told you to marry into his family? Do you want his whole family to adapt to you? Now the world is like this. Whoever has the money is the big.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you marry wrongly, you should divorce correctly.

    Marriage is for happiness, but also for men and women to reduce the pressure of life, not pain and suffering.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Marriage is not child's play, divorce is also normal, it is better to leave if you really can't adapt, before you have a child, if you have a baby and then want to leave, you have to consider more problems, and even if you can't stand it, you have to swallow your anger for the child! Remember...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Follow the local customs, learn to adapt, and slowly become relaxed.

    No matter who you marry and live with, you have to have this process.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Talk to your husband and then find a job you like, and be sure to let them know how you feel.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, in this case, it is best to communicate more with your family, and then make a decision, don't divorce easily, after all, divorce has a relatively large impact on children.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People have impulses, and when you put one thing at ease, it becomes the main thing! Calm down and think twice!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In marriage, we must learn to be tolerant, we must learn to be responsible, and the most important thing is to understand between family members, and the best way is to empathize. Everyone has been young, and they will get old. Think about it from a different angle, and if there is any problem, it will be easy to solve.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't get along, don't force it, my parents quarrel every day, and I want them to divorce.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It strongly represents that the other party has not done a good job, and if you can't change it, it's okay to give up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Got kids? Yes or no.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    For the sake of the child, if you can, you won't leave

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Communicate well and find out what is the reason? Why do you want to get a divorce?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Sometimes you don't need to be too entangled, and when you can't figure it out, you can think about it from a different angle, what will happen after the divorce, can you afford it?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After having a child, why is the idea of divorce getting stronger and stronger? Especially after giving birth to a second child.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Why do you want to get a divorce, is it really impossible to get by?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you have the idea of divorce, but you have to consider that marriage is not child's play, we need to affirm the fact that not all marriages can go smoothly to the end, even those marriages that others praise will definitely experience a thousand holes and blood, and finally present a situation of quiet years.

    Before stepping into marriage, each of us is an independent individual, and there are differences in growth environment, personal habits, life experience, etc., which will also break out in one way or another dissatisfaction due to differences in the process of running-in.

    Therefore, under these negative emotions, it is understandable that many people have the idea of divorce, and with the continuous accumulation of such thoughts, the idea of divorce is getting stronger and stronger, so some people choose to quit halfway.

    It's just that marriage is not easy to be together, it is a combination of fate, and if you lose it rashly, it will always be a pity.

    In fact, marriage is like a moving car, and in the process, it will have some problems to a greater or lesser extent.

    But some people's way of dealing with it is to directly change to a car, while some people's way of dealing with it is to choose maintenance.

    Although the former is trouble-free, when it encounters problems in the later stage, it can only be replaced one after another, while the latter is a little troublesome, but it can understand the most essential meaning of marriage.

    Therefore, in the matter of marriage, serious management is the most important thing.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    However, as a married couple, do not choose divorce easily in life, because marriage itself has a certain complexity, and if the husband and wife choose to divorce easily, they may regret it later, or even usher in pain.

    Therefore, for couples in marriage, when they are dissatisfied with each other's marriage, the first thing to do is to make every effort to maintain the marriage, rather than choosing to divorce.

    In fact, for those couples who are dissatisfied with their marriage, they should use three aspects in their lives to improve their current marital status, so that the couple's satisfaction with the marriage can be higher, and at the same time, the idea of divorce can be dispelled.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is a very normal thought, and people's sobriety is always erratic. Don't keep thinking about unpleasant things, and communicate well with the two of you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on the situation, marriage is for better, not shackles, support each other in life, but consider comprehensively.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    According to your own heart, since it has been born, it must be unbearable.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Divorce is a big deal, especially if you have children.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If so, then you will definitely choose to divorce at every turn.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Psychological rejection, the other party feels redundant to do anything, and is full of thoughts about breaking up, and this idea will become stronger and stronger once it is formed. I put all my thoughts on the issue of divorce, and this idea will become stronger and stronger. I don't know why you put your mind on divorce every day, if it is because of emotional problems, whether you have tried to solve the scum in a more positive way, or whether you can't save your broken heart by all kinds of methods, because divorce is not a one-dimensional way to solve the conflict between husband and wife.

    There will be a lot of follow-up problems, and if they have children, they will be hurt physically and mentally when they grow up, and they will be affected differently in mate selection and work when they grow up, and sometimes even affect them for the rest of their lives.

    Divorce will also cause psychological trauma to both husband and wife, and sometimes it will not be resolved for many years, such as the chain will have some long-term negative effects on future work and life. If it is not the reason why we cannot live together, the problem should be solved within the marriage, and the marriage must be respected by both parties and the husband and wife need to be cared for together. Choosing a divorce is not the best way to go, and sometimes it is not advisable.

    Therefore, it is necessary to be cautious about the issue of divorce. If there is no problem in the relationship between two people, or if there are no other external factors, it is impossible to have the idea of divorce.

    And once this kind of thought arises, it means that there are some problems between the two people and there is an estrangement, and they begin to be dissatisfied and even hate each other; It is more likely that there are other opportunities for other options before the idea of divorce arises. If you have children, you should look at the problem from the perspective of your children, think about the worst-case scenario, and consider how to bear the consequences. At the same time, we should examine whether we have fulfilled our obligations and responsibilities before having such thoughts, and whether we have worked hard to repair and improve various unsatisfactory problems; In this way, impulsiveness can be avoided.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you want to divorce every week, the thought of Min Chain often appears, indicating that you are not particularly happy in this marriage, so you want to end the relationship. may be that he is more disappointed in his marriage.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It may be because you don't love your husband and your husband is not particularly nice to you, so you have this thought.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Maybe this kind of thought is your idea for a while, and you will dispel this idea after slowly finishing up This kind of thought is better not to have two people than to divorce, everyone can be hurt If there are children, the children are even more hurt Be cautious to get along well.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Maybe there are many divorced people around me, or there are many divorces in the TV series I watched, and the reason why I think about my own people and my performance, don't think so much when I go to your house, I will have this kind of thought in my heart. The first stool shouted or.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Maybe it's because of the problem with the former rough relationship, so there will be the idea of divorce, I think you can sit down with each other, communicate with each other, solve the problem, and tolerate each other.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Or because your married life is unhappy, your other half makes you unhappy, and the idea of divorce may pop up.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because you always feel that it is not suitable for two people to be together, so there is always a thought of divorce, and you feel unhappy.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It shows that your thinking is too narrow-minded, too cowardly, one point is unhappy, one point is not good, and you think of divorce.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It may be that you have saved enough disappointments in your life, or it may be that the other party will not care about you at all in life, so you often want to divorce.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you're thinking about getting divorced every week, your relationship may have broken down and you need to think about what you're together for.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Because you need to face a lot of pressure, the two of you have a lot of problems, and you will have the idea of divorce.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    There is a thought of divorce every Sunday, how can there be such thoughts so often? That's probably because you've been under a lot of stress at work lately.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Once the idea of divorce arises, it is difficult to get rid of it, which means that you have lost hope for your other half and have lost hope for your marriage, so you will have the idea of divorce.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Yes, once there is a divorce, it is difficult to get rid of it, because it indicates that the marriage has broken down, and it will not live well with the other party, so it is difficult to get rid of it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I also think so, once the idea of divorce arises, it is really difficult to get rid of it, and this kind of thinking will be deeply rooted.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Yes, if you have such a thought, it will be ingrained in your heart and it will be very difficult to get rid of it.

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