What do you think about when you re alone in the face of loneliness?

When a person is faced with loneliness, his thoughts are involuntary, what he can do is to make himself more lonely, the past he has experienced, like a slide, emerges in his mind one by one, memory is not a printer of facts, often people's memories will go through the story, and our hearts will add oil and vinegar to these memories to weave into an absurd story, or an interesting story, or a sour story, and in the face of loneliness, All I can remember are those sad stories.

Unconsciously, I have reached middle age, still walking alone in this strange city, I am like a bird without feet, flying in this steel jungle, I don't know when it can fall, and there is no place to settle down, renting in this rental house of more than 10 square meters, facing the bare wall, I curled up, hiding alone in the quilt and looking at the mobile phone, through this square inch to witness the wonder and beauty of others, the happier others live, the more they prove their loneliness, Thinking about it, I couldn't help but cry, I really wanted to say to myself, just let him be lonely and not belong to me, just let everyone who was drunk last night happy, but the loneliness that hit me over and over again is suffocating, I fell asleep in loneliness, and I was still lonely after waking up, waiting for me was another day of loneliness.

It's been a few years since I came to this city to work hard, I originally thought that I could break out of the world through my own efforts, but the reality is that the skinny imagination is full, this gap makes people suffer great pain, I am incompatible with this city, why is it home, where can I settle down? After 5 years of hard work, I can't even afford to buy a corner of a house, let alone have my own love, for me, I will always be an outsider in this city, a misplaced puzzle that I can't fit into.

When a person is faced with loneliness, what I am thinking about is some images that make me more lonely, we can't live in memory, but we can't live out of memory either.

When I am lonely, I will constantly reflect on my work, life, and behavior in recent times, and I will also constantly review my own inappropriateness. At the same time, I will also look forward to the future, build a grand blueprint for a better future in my mind, and of course, I will also plan to take time out to relax, or eat a big meal to relieve negative emotions.

I was thinking: Why don't I have friends? Is there something wrong with my personality? What can I do to make friends?

I wondered how I could be such a failure. I can't even find a friend, I don't know what kind of person is a real friend, I feel that I am really lonely alone, and I can't find someone to talk to.

Loneliness isn't all bad. Loneliness is subdivided into three specific manifestations: physical loneliness, mental arc independence, and physical and mental arc independence. The loneliness of the body can calm the mind, calmly face the mind alone, and even let the mind flap the wings of thinking and imagination.

This is definitely a good thing for Pi Xiang. The loneliness of the heart may be due to being in a high place, or it may be to close oneself and "wrap silk", or perhaps the surrounding people cannot tolerate it. This requires "prescribing the right medicine" and self-conditioning.

I refer to the third type of loneliness in the above column - physical and mental loneliness. To be honest, if you stay alone for too long, you will definitely feel lonely, but you are not afraid. It's okay to hold the year for a short time, such as three or two days, look at the circle of friends, read books, listen to **, and if you are bored, you can also blow the gourd silk or military horn, and then you can sing on the "national K song", and strive to sing a higher score.

If you still feel lonely after doing this, you have to look at your loved ones from afar**, or chat with nearby friends, have dinner, play cards, or walk around parks, libraries, and museums.

On the whole, this third kind of loneliness belongs to ordinary loneliness, the loneliness of mortals. This kind of loneliness cannot be left alone, because after a long time, it will be harmful to the body and mind.

Of course, you will be lonely alone, whether it is a human or a god, you can't escape loneliness, what is loneliness? It will appear when you are bored, it will appear when you have emotions, it will appear when you are free, even if you are a successful person, when you are quiet, there will be loneliness, but they will be more controllable than ordinary people, and only when you are busy, loneliness will be reduced.

What is loneliness? It can be compared with loneliness, no matter what the reason is, a person just needs to live a full life every day, people are always like this, especially contradictory, a person is lonely, choose two people to be together, two people are together and separated for various reasons, it is easy to keep each other, it is always very difficult to do! It's better to enrich yourself first, even if you are old alone, face it bravely!

Is it lonely to be alone? I think it needs to be decided according to the person's character. If a person is lively, outgoing, and sociable, it will definitely be very uncomfortable for such a person to be alone!

If you're like me, you have a quiet personality and like to be alone, read a book, and listen to ** is a kind of enjoyment. What do you think?

In fact, a person is not lonely, it is that you have been thinking about loneliness in your heart, what does this sentence mean.

Hello, according to the teacher's analysis, if the other party says such things to you, it is actually comforting you because the other party still knows you very well. I know you very well, probably because you express yourself to him that you are very lonely. Because it seems to him that you have a lot of friends.

It's just that those friends don't understand what you think in your heart, so he can understand you, and from his point of view, he will feel that you are not lonely, because with a good friend like her, you will not feel like this.

When singleness becomes a social trend, people's lifestyles and values have changed, and this change may have an impact on people's loneliness. Here are some of the factors that may influence how lonely people feel:

Social acceptance of singleness: As society's acceptance of singleness continues to increase, so does the status of singles in society. Conversely, some people may feel isolated or excluded.

People's lifestyle: Some people may feel more at ease and comfortable because they like to be alone and like to pursue comfort and independence in their personal lives. Conversely, some people may feel more lonely and depressed because of the need to socialize and interact.

Emotional attachment and interpersonal needs: For some people, it is very important to have deep emotional attachment and good relationships with others. If they don't have such a support network, they may feel lonely and uneasy.

Changes in life stresses and expectations: In some cases, people may feel lonely due to changes in life stresses and expectations. For example, they may lose some social and emotional connections, or they may feel a change in their life goals and values.

In general, while singles may feel lonely when they become the core of society, it doesn't mean that everyone feels this way. For some, an independent and free lifestyle may make them happier and more content.

Thanks for having me! Loneliness is a large group of friends, relatives and colleagues. But there is no one who can speak from the heart.

After a long night, unable to sleep, I took off the mask of the day, and wanted to get a few words of comfort from the person next to the pillow, but the other party was already snoring like thunder.

At work, the delicate relationship between colleagues is difficult to bear each other's hearts, and they can hardly enter each other's hearts.

Open the address book, hundreds of contacts, want to say what is in your heart, I don't know who to say, say my helplessness and pride, maybe one day it will become everyone's after-dinner conversation?

Slowly, I learned to say everything to myself. When you can't think about it, comfort yourself, have a good meal, buy a dress, read a book, reconcile with yourself, stay alone in your corner, and slowly recover. Gradually, getting used to loneliness became a habit, and life carved out a place for himself as the last life position.

Sometimes I think about how nice it would be if someone shared joys, sorrows, and sorrows with each other, cried with you, laughed with you, and warmed each other! But reality is always too realistic. The future is unpredictable, maybe one day, let go of all your worries, after your heart is supported by grievances, you will learn to accept another, the most comfortable day in the world.

Reconcile with her. I am a person who enjoys solitude, and I like to be alone quietly reading my favorite book and admiring the fallen leaves alone. One walks down a noisy street. When it is not satisfactory, he is unwilling to share with those close to him.

Loneliness is silence, having a bitter brain, thinking more, learning more, summing up experience, and learning lessons. It makes you remember what you remember, and how you remember, not what you encountered.

It is a responsibility and an obligation, and only by reading and learning can we be inspired and know what is going on. Seeking the means of subsistence and the need for survival. Do what you love and create a life.

When you are lonely, there are many difficulties, and you want to have someone to help you as much as possible, but you can't just bear it yourself, and do everything you can to get through it. Go ahead.