Your girlfriend has more blue faces than red faces, do you mind?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-23
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I would mind, and those who said they didn't mind were either disliking this woman, or they were hypocritical and embarrassed to say it.

    There is no man who doesn't mind sharing his beloved woman with others, even if she may just be talking to other men, so I think we as a man still have to be careful at this time. 3

    Some people may think that it is because of our men's machismo, but in fact, it is not, because we want to take our women for ourselves and don't want others to take a piece of the pie, so when those so-called blue-faced confidants appear, we can't do anything but fight.

    In fact, you women should be happy to see that we are jealous for you and even fight, because after all, your man still likes him very much, but sometimes he is not embarrassed to express it, so for such a situation, I can only say that women are silently snickering in secret, after all, we actually like you like you like this way.

    Finally, I'll talk about the so-called blue-faced confidant, for the concept of blue-faced confidant, I think it's completely meaningless, either a male and female couple or an ordinary friend, where to make a so-called friend closer, lovers are not full of state out, unless I think if you are both single, then it's okay to talk about it, but if you say that you have a partner, and then you are still there to say a blue-faced confidant, I think it's really strange if your boyfriend or husband doesn't jump out, so I don't think there is any so-called confidante in the blue face, and there is no so-called confidante in the same way.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A girl's feelings for Lan Yan are not enough to reach the height of lovers, but they are much higher than friends.

    Lan Yan is an emotional sustenance and spiritual sustenance for women. Generally, Lan Yan has many functions, and most women are insecure, and Lan Yan can give them a sense of security to a certain extent, many girls will comfort when they are sad and sad, and he can give you the greatest companionship and encouragement. Lan Yan gave a woman a spiritual support to a certain extent.

    Blue faces generally occupy a very important position in the hearts of girls. Many girls regard Lan Yan as more important than ordinary friends, because Lan Yan generally understands herself better than ordinary friends. Most of Lan Yan's position in a woman's heart is comparable to Lan Yan.

    For women, they sometimes completely replace their boyfriends, and many things are inconvenient to talk to their boyfriends, but they can be said to Lan Yan. But after a girl has a boyfriend, the relationship with Lan Yan will gradually fade, because her time and energy are spent on the object.

    The bottom line of the confidante is that he can only talk about his own love at most, or discuss the love and troubles of the other party, but he can't talk about his love for the other party, the confidant of the blue face emphasizes action in the world, or retains the gender consciousness of both parties, and will not regard the other party and himself as genderless, so it is impossible to treat them without discrimination, even if there is a deep trust and good feeling, it will never go beyond the thunder pool, and there is a minefield and bottom line that both parties abide by by by default.

    Lan Yan is more similar to male girlfriends, that is, the relationship is a little more than a friend and a little less than a lover, which is the fourth emotion in addition to family and friendship love, but it is often more sensitive. A confidante with blue face, also known as a toner confidant, is a male friend who is spiritually independent and equal in soul with women, and can achieve deep resonance.

    Due to the particularity of men and women, it is known as a kind of "fourth type of feeling" that is free from family, love, and friendship.

    The same aspect of a confidante and a boyfriend is that the two will not treat the woman indiscriminately in terms of gender, that is to say, they will not see each other as the same sex like their buddies, and they do not have the slightest feeling for men and women, and the confidante can also have a warm heart for the woman.

    Unlike her boyfriend, although she can have ambiguous feelings for her woman, she can't talk about her love for each other, let alone cross the bottom line and do things beyond friendship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The situation of girls for blue face confidants is actually simpler than that of boys for red faces. Girls simply think that Lan Yan is Lan Yan and a boyfriend is a boyfriend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's a very good friend.,It's the kind of relationship that is higher than lovers.,But two people don't have ambiguities.,But can comfort each other when they're sad about each other.。

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The relationship between the girl and the confidante of Lan Yan is relatively intimate, and the two of them get along together and are the same as their girlfriends of the opposite sex, they have nothing to say, nothing to talk about.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As a girl, my feelings for Lan Yan are very simple, that is, a better friend than a friend, there are no other special feelings, and my boyfriend can understand my feelings for Lan Yan.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Similar to the relationship between friends and lovers, there are many things that can't be said to friends can be said to Lan Yan, and things that boyfriends don't understand, Lan Yan can understand.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A girl's feelings for Lan Yan are like a best friend, she can say anything, and the relationship is relatively intimate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think that a girl's feelings for Lan Yan stop at lovers and transcend friend relationships, and this kind of Lan Yan relationship does not last long.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's probably ambiguous, I don't like this kind of relationship very much, I feel like I just want to find someone to rely on, but I don't want to be responsible for my feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It should be the kind of male girlfriend, if there is anything you can ask the other party to help, and if the other party has any difficulties, she will do her best to help.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a good friend who fits in three, and the relationship is better than that of ordinary friends, and they can get each other's points, but there is no love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no absolute friendship between men and women.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It can't be blue, they're blue and you're green.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This requires them to have no thoughts about each other, and I don't recommend that my girlfriend have a blue-faced friend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't mind, a girlfriend should also have her own bosom friend, this is her freedom, only she has a good grasp of proportion, I can accept it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I mind, I don't think you should have a blue face when you have a boyfriend, because it's easy to make your boyfriend feel uncomfortable.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't mind if my girlfriend has friends like Lan Yan, because I think it's normal and I'm not against it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I mind, I wish my girlfriend could distance herself from her blue face, I don't like that she has some blue face friends.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I never mind, although it's a blue-faced friend, but a friend is a friend, I still trust her in this regard, and I believe that she can handle the relationship between them with her friends.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't mind, but they have to be measured, keep a good relationship, and don't get too far along, otherwise I'll be unhappy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't mind, I think it's okay as long as my girlfriend keeps a certain distance from her blue face.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Mind, I think that when two people are together, they should keep their distance from friends of the opposite sex, and these blue faces should disappear.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The way to look at his girlfriend Lan Yan is to insist that they keep their distance and break up.

    Because of the so-called blue face, the premise is that there must be a good feeling between the two, and this good feeling is only one step away from the lover, that is, a layer of window paper.

    Therefore, I have always believed that there is no such thing as Lan Yan in the world, but the time has not yet come and fate has not yet arrived, and once the conditions are ripe, Lan Yan will instantly transform into a lover.

    So my attitude is that on this issue, your attitude must be resolute, and you must give an ultimatum to let him make a choice between you and Lan Yan, any dragging mud and water, indecision is a hidden danger for you, and it must be you who will be hurt in the end, remember!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This kind of relationship is really not good, and if you observe more, you can communicate with your girlfriend and tell her that you don't like it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    A man is a girlfriend of the opposite sex who knows that he will not be together, treats him as a girlfriend, and maintains his image in front of his boyfriend, while Lan Yan does not need to.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I have a blue face who is very good to me, we will tell each other everything, and he will try his best to help solve it, but he loves his boyfriend, cherishes and appreciates Lan Yan, and it is a very happy thing to have a blue face.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There is a difference, Lan Yan is to talk to the girl about something, so generally don't let the girl have a blue face.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Lan Yan is a friend of the opposite sex who can talk about his heart, and her boyfriend is the one who wants to get married.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Lan Yan is a spare tire. It's the same as Hongyan. Regardless of what happened before, it turned out to be a spare tire in the end.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Generally speaking, from a personal point of view, Lan Yan is actually a form of expression of shirk, from one point of view, the girl likes this boy, but she doesn't know how to express it, and hopes to maintain this relationship with the other party to achieve a psychological need, so the pronoun Lan Yan naturally arises, because it is a vaguely defined word for most people, so define it for "me" and then use it for "me" to achieve a certain goal.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Like a friend, you can say anything, and your boyfriend wants to live with you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Lan Yan is like a girlfriend and a friend, but there are many people who use Lan Yan as a spare tire.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Lan Yan is also the so-called bosom friend, and he has nothing to talk about

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