Why do some boys get bored so quickly after trying to catch up with girls?

This confirms the lyrics, those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fear. This is what these boys look like, when they don't catch up, they are dead-faced, and they want to chase you anyway. I feel that I can't love you anymore, but after I got it, it didn't take long for me to get annoyed and tired of it.

I think that's the most hateful.

When a guy is chasing a girl, maybe she doesn't like you at first, maybe she can't accept you so quickly because she is reserved, and she is afraid that you are just playing. Because once a woman accepts someone else, then she may be serious and wants to be together. So she's just testing you to see how long you can last.

When she felt that since you could chase her for so long, you should be serious, she agreed.

However, many times when a woman likes that man and starts to be nice to that man, often the plot changes, and the man changes. I don't like to talk to her anymore, I don't like to talk to her anymore, I don't like to be as kind as I used to, and I feel like it's a waste of time when I'm with her. Of course, women will also feel it, but they don't want to believe it.

At first, I thought it was just a long time, and I still wanted to try to change, but it didn't work at all.

I have a lot of friends around me who are examples of this. So when I was in adolescence, I thought it was better to fall in love less and not hurt my body so much. There was an example of this in me, but luckily I was smarter at the time and didn't fall for that at all.

The same is the man, who at first said that he liked me so much and kept chasing me. I lasted for a month or two, which seems to me to be quite long, and I can't possibly last that long to like someone who doesn't like me. Fortunately, I was determined not to fall in love at that time.

In the end, he knew that it was impossible, and there happened to be a woman who liked him, and within a few days the two of them were together. How absurd, if it were me, I wouldn't have been able to turn to like another person so quickly.

<>I have more say in this, because I really did this before, I chased it for more than 2 months but broke up in less than 1 month......Now that I think about it, I'm really a scumbag! I was wrong, I repent, beg for a light spray! Seeing the subject's question, I recalled what I thought at the time, maybe it was really unobtainable, and it was always in turmoil, and when I got it, I didn't know how to cherish it......

My ex and I were high school classmates, and I knew her in the first semester of high school, and then I felt that I liked her at the time, and now I think about it is just a good feeling, so I often chat with her, and then go out to play together, but at that time she only treated me as an ordinary friend, I must not be reconciled, so I confessed at the time, but people did not agree, I said, "It's okay, I can chase you!" Then she didn't say anything, and I kept chasing her for the next two months, and she didn't object, and then I accompanied her to school every day, and went to cram school with her on weekends, etc., in short, I felt very tired at that time, but I just liked her at the time! I chased after him, and then the two of them were together.

But after I caught it, I didn't like it that much, and I asked myself why I was like this. I also tried to treat her as well as before, but I still feel that I can't go back to before, and the image in my heart is not as good as I imagined! So the back is gone.,Now I think about it, it's too young.,Maybe not very good at falling in love.,I think myself,Boys are really cheap sometimes (although I'm also a boy), the more you treat him, the less he cares, if he has been good to him, he may feel accustomed to it, and take it for granted, so boys sometimes really need to be beaten!

(PS: I don't have masochistic tendencies, and people can be single-minded now).

The reason why a girl is disgusted with the boy after chasing a boy is that the freshness is not enough, when they first met, the two parties were full of freshness to each other, and they wanted to get close to each other, and when they got to the hand, they were together for a long time, and the freshness slowly faded, and the heat of love would fade.

Don't like a person's performance:

1. Particularly impatient.

I believe that when brothers are chatting with girls, they will encounter times when girls are in a bad mood, so many brothers will begin to comfort themselves, it may be that girls have encountered something bad, it may be that girls have recently been in the aunt period and so on.

Anyway, it's to give yourself all kinds of excuses, and then continue to talk to girls, a girl who likes you, no matter when she will not do this to you, only girls who don't like you, will be so impatient every time she chats with you, as if saying more words will kill her, in fact, in the final analysis, she is not interested in you, and she doesn't want to waste practice on you.

2. Don't reply to messages, don't take the initiative to find you.

A girl who has a good impression of you will definitely take the initiative to chat with you often, and will take the initiative to share with you what she usually encounters, but if the girl doesn't like you, she will often not reply to your messages, and will not take the initiative to chat with you.

No matter how many times you take the initiative, if she is very perfunctory to you, don't waste your efforts, she is not shy, nor reserved, she just really doesn't want to pay attention to you.

Because many times a girl is a sensual animal, her feelings are mixed with a lot of touching, and a little vanity, and then after a long time, he can't tell the difference between ** is love? Is it moving? Is it affection?

And then sometimes the boy chases more powerfully, the girl is not sober-minded, so basically slowly agree, because many times this love is not clear from the real situation, generally if it is not vigorous, it will be moved as love, and then the boy's hush and care as love, so, although I disagree at first, but with the boy's various formulas, girls will generally let down their guard and slowly accept.

Because women are sensual animals, as long as the man pursues each other with good intentions, then she will agree!

This reason can only be asked by girls, there are too many reasons to guess, it may be sincere, the gold and stone are open, the girl is moved by the boy's pursuit, or it may be that the girl can't find a better one, and the decision will be settled.

Maybe the girl didn't have a feeling for the boy at the beginning, but through the boy's pursuit, she slowly discovered the advantages of the boy, and she liked the boy.

As the contact gradually increased, I got to know the boy more and more, and I felt that he was still good, so I agreed.

After a long time, I felt that it was appropriate and had a good feeling, so I agreed.

At first, the girl hated the boy's pursuit, why did she agree to it later? It may be that the sincerity of the boy impresses the girl.

Nowadays, there is too much fast-food love, and people are too impetuous in their hearts, and most of them are difficult to calm down.

I don't want to chase the girl hard. There are many reasons for this, but not necessarily any of them. I'm also single now, and I just broke up.

After the breakup, I didn't feel like I wanted to chase girls. It may also be that you haven't touched your heartbeat, or it may be that you are tired, and you are so free by yourself. Right?

In today's society, there are more men and fewer women, and girls are like cherished animals, and boys who are not good enough will be compared to others. The eliminated boys can only beat the singles. As for girls, they think that there are few girls, so they have high requirements and high vision. So now there are a lot of single women in big cities.

I think boys don't want to chase girls hard nowadays, or maybe they don't want to be in a relationship at all. Maybe people just want to study, maybe they don't have much interest in girls right now. It may also be that you have a phobia of love and are tired and numb.

One person is used to it.

I don't think it's possible that I don't want to work hard, but it's especially difficult for girls to chase now. Even if you try your best, you will be issued a good person card by the girl. Your flirting skills are too high, and girls think you're an unreliable man.

If your flirting skills are too low, they think it's too vulgar. Low emotional intelligence. You say it's not difficult.

Will the boys go to great lengths to chase you? In the end, it's back to square one.,In short, it's still the ideas of the girls and boys themselves.。

I miss a friend of mine, for a girl who can't eat or sleep well. tried his best to please the girl, and tried his best to behave in front of the girl, but he still received a refusal. But he said he wouldn't give up, even if he was hurt.

I don't think it's at the point where I can do anything to do it. Still not enough love. When the love is deep, it will naturally be difficult to chase girls!

There are very good reasons why boys chase girls and don't want to pay.

1.didn't take his girlfriend to heart, just to kill boredom.

Some of the current views of love are a little deformed, especially Zhao Hongtong is a young man in his teens and twenties, many people regard love as just a game, and they don't care or move their true feelings, so you can understand what kind of psychology it is when you chase girls without paying.

2.Phoenix man.

In the phoenix man's heart, it is already a great honor that he is willing to take the initiative to chase you, and mortals such as me should kneel down and thank you. The phoenix man feels extremely good about himself, so it's not surprising that he doesn't want to give.

3.The family conditions are not good, and it is impossible to express emotions with money.

Now many girls feel that they love me by spending money on me, I don't deny this, but I also have to look at the proportion, there are 10 yuan for you to spend 9 yuan, that is sincere, there are 1000 for you to spend 100 I don't think there is anything to show off, so I also have to divide people.

But if you take the poor family conditions as a mantra, and the clan Tan and you have anything to do with you as a reason to let you spend money, then quickly let each other go, there is nothing to say.

One opinion, for reference.

There will always be more or less controversy or misunderstanding in getting along, and people in love are often the weakest to resist stress.

I'm a man, I won't chase it for too long anyway! If you chase it for too long, you'll be in trouble if you get caught in it.

The first never thinks it's your own reason, likes to blame others, if complaining is a woman's instinct, then you have never seen a man who will complain, this kind of man does not do things well all day long, and doing something is also half-pushed.

Because they have much more time to think than to act, it may be that they are more emotional, in short, this kind of man does not like women, and men who are willing to change themselves are suitable for finding a girlfriend, otherwise they will be disliked by their girlfriends.

Second, it is unreliable to do things, reliable boys only recruit girls to like, they will have a certain ability to make money, deal with problems will be solved very well, will often communicate with girlfriends, this boy may not have the ability to make money for the time being, but he will definitely be self-motivated, and unmotivated boys are not suitable for falling in love.

Third, boys who don't pay attention to their personal hygiene, brush their teeth, wash their faces and take a bath every day are more self-disciplined, and those who don't think personal hygiene is not important, either they are neurotic, or they are too lazy, no matter what kind of situation it is, such boys will definitely not be welcomed.

A selfish boy will only live one day at a time, and never consider the feelings of others, will you like such a boy, to be a self-disciplined man, to have a sense of ritual every day, so that life can be full, don't let freedom in life, the so-called freedom is not lazy!

The fourth person who will do things to you when you are still friends, this kind of guy will be very disrespectful to girls, saying that he likes you, but he will do things to you, thinking that he is very attractive, but in fact it is disgusting.

The fifth is not very good in appearance, but he dresses himself too much, he is very conceited, he is too confident, he thinks he is very good-looking, very good, this kind of boy is quite arrogant, everything is based on himself, because the earth revolves around him.

I think that when pursuing the person you like, you must manage yourself well, so as not to let the other party think that you are greasy, but will dislike you even more.

Girls hate to be chased by self-righteous men, such men always find themselves attractive, and all women should bow down under his sneakers, in fact, he doesn't know that he is the most annoying.

The boy who has clearly refused, he has expressed his unwillingness, and he is still chasing after him, which will make the girl very annoying.

Girls hate being chased by introverted boys, because this kind of boy has no future, and he can't speak, and his emotional intelligence is particularly low.