What do you think of us who are indifferent now? Why are we becoming more and more apathetic?

<> in the past, we all said that humans were social animals, because in ancient times, people needed the strength of groups of people to hunt for food, so that they could survive in that era. Then slowly came later, with the development of the times, people no longer worry about food and clothing, every day is no longer a state of insufficient food and clothing, when people have solved the problem of survival, to pursue a higher level of spiritual things. We are demanding more and more in terms of spiritual level.

People choose to live together no longer casually, or must be the person who can talk together, from poetry and poetry to philosophy of life. We are all looking for that confidant, and only when we can communicate on the spiritual level will we choose to be friends.

Recently, I was watching "Compound Master", in which there is a character who suffers from human frigidity, which is an absolute manifestation of apathy, mainly manifested in indifference to interpersonal relationships. This has something to do with his upbringing since he was a child, saying that growing up in a family without love will have no love for himself. Why people are becoming more and more apathetic nowadays, I think it may be related to the fact that this society is becoming more and more indifferent.

If the person has never felt warmth, then how can he warm others. How cruel the real society is. Everyone living in this society has a huge pressure, and everyone has probably faced various setbacks.

When he thinks that this society is the kind of disheartened feeling, he may not have so much love to share with others, so others will think that he is more indifferent. I envy those warm people, I believe that they must have felt the warmth of this world to give so much love to others, or they must be so strong that they still treat this world well even if they have never been treated well by this world.

In fact, I think there are still a lot of heart-warming places in our society, but it may not happen around you, the reason why you feel that the people around you are so indifferent, may also be because you yourself are such an indifferent person, although I rarely meet indifferent people, but I have also heard that many people in the city are particularly cold and indifferent. It's almost the kind of non-communication, but if you're like the countryside here, it's the kind of feeling that the distance is not as good as the neighbors, so we generally have a very good relationship here, and we generally help each other, and if there is any difficulty, we will definitely help, although I went to work in the city later, I didn't feel how indifferent the people around me were, on the contrary, I met roommates who I thought were very good, and I also met a lot of lovely colleagues with great abilities, Of course, there is also a boss who has always taken care of me, so after all, I have just entered the society, but according to the current situation, I think the society is full of love, and our lives are always beautiful, so you don't want to be so discouraged, it's just that you haven't encountered heart-warming things, but this society has not become more and more indifferent because of continuous progress, just like the news I saw yesterday, isn't there a place in Hangzhou, and then there are a lot of wounded, many people need blood, I heard that everyone went to line up to donate blood in the middle of the night, hoping that those patients could use blood soon, so we can see the heart-warming actions of those people.

Because what is given back to us is indifference.

First of all, getting along with people is not one-on-one, if you are good to me, I will be good to you, pay is not high, there is a good return, in front of human nature Qi lead is vividly expressed, we are disappointed and don't want to pay.

Secondly, the party who pays too much in life has become an example of being hurt and abandoned, we are afraid of the asymmetry of feelings, afraid of being abandoned like a shoe, we all learn to put away our emotions to protect ourselves.

I will be curious if you will suppress your feelings for the rest of your search, and then think that you will be very tired, in fact, everyone has their own life and age, and there is no need to care too much about the eyes of others.

You are not apathetic, to be exact, but too quiet.

The old man fell in front of me, and my first reaction was to come forward to help, because goodness is human instinct! The old man falls, he is in danger, he can't stand idly by, he doesn't have time to think about it so much!

It is not because of individual cases that it restricts conscience and morality, is insensitive, and promotes a bad atmosphere in society! After all, the elderly are much better, don't be paralyzed by social prejudices!

After getting off the bus at a subway station, I changed the bus and found an old woman with slow legs and feet, and when she got on the bus, she was suddenly paralyzed in front of the bus, and everyone was stunned, and the driver sat in it without moving, and her mouth was round and she shouted: Help her up! ...At that time, I squatted down from behind, helped her up with the other passengers, and got into the car.

Therefore, you can't be bitten by a snake once, and you are afraid of the well rope for ten years, and the shadow of the snake in the cup bow!

The social atmosphere depends on everyone: you, me, him! Work together and positive energy depends on everyone's support!

The main reasons are:

1.The intimacy and emotional atmosphere of the family of origin is the primary environment for children to learn and experience love. Growing up in a less harmonious or less intimate environment makes it more difficult for children to develop good emotional cognition and expression from an early age, which will have an impact on the formation of close emotional relationships in the future.

2.Without the emotional attachment and encouragement of parents, a child's self-worth and sense of security can be affected. This will lead the child to focus on a sense of security and value recognition in subsequent relationships, rather than giving sincere emotions to others.

Thus affecting their ability to love others to a certain extent.

3.The emotional experience of early and middle life is crucial to a child's psychological development. Less positive experiences can make it difficult for a child to develop stable intimate relationships in terms of personality, values, and even physiology. This is also an aspect that affects the ability of his true lover.

However, the influence of the family of origin is not decisive. Other influences such as subsequent life experiences, social environment, education level, and one's own efforts also have an important impact on a person's emotional cognition and expression. It is also entirely possible for children with poor families of origin to overcome their influences and develop the ability to build good relationships.

Mainly embodied in:

1.Recognize the importance of intimacy through subsequent experiences and make an effort to learn the appropriate skills.

2.Gain a sense of security and self-worth through other channels, and reduce attachment and need for specific intimate relationships.

3.Compensation for work skills is sure to have a positive impact. Such as improving communication, managing emotions, etc.

4.Use education or psychological counseling to improve self-awareness and find a way to get along.