It s been 5 years since you graduated, are you married? Has the dream come true?

Updated on society 2024-04-23
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I am an older young man who has graduated for almost six years, seeing this topic, my heart is deeply touched, I am 29 years old, unmarried, in the countryside is considered to be older, graduated for five years, I have been working hard for my dream for five years, I studied electrical automation in college, we require a special eye for this major, and only after graduating with eight years of experience can I get the senior engineer certificate of electrical automation, so now my desire has not been tested, but that is my dream for eight years, and now five years, of course my dream is not like this, When I graduated, my goal was to find a job that suited me within one year, regardless of salary, to learn real skills, to learn a skill from the master within three years, and to be able to complete the project independently. Five years of stable work, no matter what, can ensure that their ability is needed, now five years have passed, my dream should be considered good, now I work in a private company in my hometown, I am also satisfied with the content of the work, and now I also bought a house with my own down payment, the first half of my life is okay, find a favorite girlfriend, she is not very beautiful, but quiet, filial to her parents, and I have a common language, get along for two years, plan to get married next year, he will not lose his temper inexplicably, I don't know the love of the student days, we are also not the students of us, now we are more stable, we are working together for the future, I am really satisfied with such a day, simple, now we no longer need a vigorous love, I just want a stable job, you care about me, I also have you in my heart, create a happy life together, really very satisfied. Looking back on the past five years, it has been really hard step by step, but now looking back at our harvest, there are really a lot, I have met a woman who is worth fighting for, with a stable career, although I am not married, but we have plans to get married to each other, relatives and friends are optimistic, we love each other, it is really good, I graduated and I am still satisfied with myself.

    I hope that each and every one of us can make our dreams come true and live a better life day by day. <>

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I got married, and then divorced again! The distance to the dream may be a lot closer than before!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Five years after graduating, I got married and gave birth to a lovely daughter. But my dream has not yet come true.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you think so, then you should quit your current job and realize your ideals, otherwise it is really possible to die as you said, in reality, not everyone is fighting for their ideals, many of them are trying to earn money to support themselves at the beginning of graduation, and then some people may not have any ideals at all, so he will not feel that it is painful to live like this. And people like you, now that you have come to your senses, it's not too late, continue to fight for your ideals!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After graduation, how do we strive for our dreams? My personal experience is that first of all, stick to the set goals; secondly, it is necessary to put it into practical action; At the same time, we must carry forward the spirit of Pinbo.

    1. Adhere to the "set goals".

    1. Set a "long-term goal": clarify the direction of your own struggle for your life ideals.

    2. Set a "medium-term goal": clarify your five-year plan for achieving your ideals.

    3. Formulate "short-term goals": clarify your own starting arrangements for the implementation plan.

    Second, put it into "practical action".

    1. Do it down-to-earth. Remember that "a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step"!

    2. Work hard and stand hard work. Remember, "Where there's a will, there's a way"!

    3. Be persistent. Remember, "Success is always about persevering and working hard"!

    3. Carry forward the "spirit of fighting".

    1. "Work hard and never admit defeat";

    2. To "defeat but not discouraged, victory but not arrogant";

    3. Be "inspirational and unswerving".

    Practice makes us deeply realize that only when we adhere to the set goals, put them into practical action, and carry forward the spirit of hard work, can we continue to motivate ourselves to continue to work hard and finally achieve success!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I will persevere until the moment when my dream comes true, then after I graduate I will also choose to work, at that stage I may be bored, maybe I am fulfilling the dream for others, but I understand that everything I do is paving the way for money, so I will not give up, just for that initial belief in my heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let's not forget the original dream!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I plan to start a business, but I haven't given up yet, and I'm accumulating the necessary manpower and material resources, so I don't think I should give up lightly if I have a goal.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The ideals of the past were submerged in time, and the career plan was not carried out according to the goals I set, because the man who did not appear in my life plan appeared, and then got married, conceived and had children! Then there is the obsession with money, oil and salt, etc., which completely disrupts the rhythm of life, and now it has become delusional.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ideals are always beautiful, but they are also cruel, you can use your own efforts to fight for and realize the dreams you once had in college, but this window is closed, and the other window will always be open, so entering the society is equivalent to entering another house, and the other window of the house will always open for you, as long as you are willing to see. The dream you once had will always turn into another dream. Come on!

    Any dream will be beautiful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When I used to go to university, I thought that I would take the civil service exam in the future, so that it would be guaranteed and the benefits would be better, but the civil service exam was super difficult, and it was better to have someone I knew, but I haven't achieved it yet.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The ideal level of people and people is not the same, the conditions are average, the ideals are generally a little bland, the conditions are better, the general ideal grade will be higher, if the general conditions still want a higher ideal, then it will have to pay a lot, and it may not be realized, my planning and ideals are very plain, so I have achieved it now.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I hope to have a stable job after graduating from college, with a good salary, a happy family, a well-off life, and a quarter to travel.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everyone has a beautiful fantasy about the future. I am a fantasy, reality is reality after all, and fantasy is difficult to become reality. We have to put in a lot of effort.

    Stick to the ideals in your heart. I still haven't accomplished what I wanted to accomplish in college. So don't be like me.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After graduating from university, I wanted to open a health food store, but because I did not do detailed market research and lacked brand promotion and marketing methods, I finally failed and paid the first tuition fee for my own business.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Try to do what you want to do well, of course, there is sometimes a big gap between the ideal and the reality.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is a saying that the ideal is not satisfied, and the reality is very backbone. In the middle of this, some people persevered, and some gave up halfway, of course, the ideal could not be realized.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If I want to talk about my ideals and plans after graduating from university, then I want to be a teacher, but I haven't realized it yet, because I haven't graduated from college yet.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ideals are always beautiful, people must have ideals, but the reality will be very realistic, so if you want to live an ideal appearance, you will have to work very hard!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After graduating from college, I got a good job and earned money to support my parents to be good to me.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This was my plan and dream when I was in college, and I personally think that I should have achieved it now.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    was slapped hard by reality.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    My original dream was to become a teacher, and after years of hard work, I have become a teacher now. I think it's not enough for people to have dreams, but also to take action for dreams, and in the process of realizing dreams, no matter what happens, you must persevere, even if you fail, you have to get up again, and work hard for your dreams, so that you will get closer and closer to realizing your dreams until you finally realize your dreams. If there is a dream that is not acted, the dream will never be realized, then it becomes a fantasy; If you take action but can't stick to it, your dreams won't come true.

    Therefore, as long as the dream has action and persistence, it is possible to succeed, and the dream depends on hard work. Efforts may not be achieved, but it will certainly not be achieved without effort.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Have your dreams come true? If it is not realized, you have to work hard and struggle again until it is realized, the original dream, without the spirit of hard work, this dream is difficult to achieve, if the dream has been realized, the wish has been realized, it is difficult to start a business, it is even more difficult to keep a business, and you have to continue to move forward.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Everyone has a dream, everyone wants to realize their dreams, but there are very few people who can really realize their dreams and dreams come true, although the dreams may not come true, but we still have to live seriously with hope, work hard in real life, work hard, and strive to make our lives colorful, so that there will be no regrets in life, as long as you live every day seriously, you are the best yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    How many people can realize a once wonderful dream? The dream is very satisfying, but the reality is too cool. The plan does not change fast, if you want to realize your dream, you must seize the opportunity, the right time and place are indispensable, even if you make hard efforts, you may be moving forward in your dream, and Sun Shan is everywhere, constantly surpassing yourself, and moving forward bravely towards the ideal, communism has been realized, and maybe your dream has been realized.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Is it a big dream or a small dream, so far there are really few realizations, it can be said that none of them have been realized, just like my original dream was to go to Yunnan, but in the end I still came to Chongqing, and I was defeated by reality again and again.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's still on the way, but believe in yourself and persevere, and you will definitely succeed. It's never late at any time, as long as you're willing to persevere.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When I was a child, my dream was to be a teacher, and I was also a teacher who went to the mountains to teach. However, I didn't study well, I didn't have a smart brain, and I didn't work hard, so I took a junior college exam and studied logistics management, which is too different from the teaching industry. After graduating, I became the manager of a chain convenience store, which is not compatible with the major I studied.

    When I was at work, I was obsessed with backpackers on the sticker bar for a while, and I wanted to be a backpacker.

    As a result, something happened at home. As for me, I'm married.

    As for my current life, I don't complain because I didn't fulfill my dreams, but I occasionally regret my dreams.

    Therefore, people who can always work hard for their dreams are worthy of our respect, no matter how big or small their dreams are, hard work and perseverance are the best.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    What kind of dreams, when I was a child, I just thought about it casually, and when I grew up, I knew the reality. It's better to make good money.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The dream has not yet come true, so keep trying.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What were your dreams when you were younger? How are you doing now, and have your dreams come true? And the dream has changed.

    At that time, we had many dreams. Welcome the glorious years and hold on to freedom in the wind and rain. After a lifetime of hesitation and struggle, self-confidence can change the future.

    Ask who can do it, time is the most clever thief, inadvertently stole the years, the parents were still very lonely, busy for their livelihood every day, and laughed and played with their partners every day, and they didn't know the difference. How many of us can realize the wishes we made and the dreams we looked forward to.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    We have many dreams, and how many of us can realize the wishes we made and the dreams we looked forward to. Dreams are beautiful. The reality is brutal. If you want to realize your dreams, you have to work hard.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    When we were young, there were always many, many dreams, whether it was a big dream or a small dream, but there are really few of them realized so far, it can be said that none of them have been realized, just like my original dream was to go to Yunnan, but in the end I came to Chongqing, and I was defeated by reality again and again.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The dream is right, I'm afraid it hasn't been realized in the dream.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The original dream? I don't remember anymore. The hardships of life have not polished my edges and corners, and the traces of time have climbed into the corners of my eyes.

    Memories are beautiful, reality is hard. Life still has to live, and life still has to go. Although the dream cannot be realized, life has to go on.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    My dream came true.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you achieve it, you will achieve it if you don't give up on your goal.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    My original dream was to be admitted to university, and it has come true!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    No! It's a pity!

    Now it has been polished and has no fighting spirit!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    One year after graduating from college, it's not particularly suitable for marriage It's not that marriage can't be a big deal It's that the responsibility of marriage is very heavy Once you form a marriage It's far from as simple as you think You want to get married You just want to have a stable life There are people who take care of each other and depend on each other In fact, you need more growth exercise now Not suitable for marriage You also need to accumulate some work experience, experience and capital.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Individuals are different, some people get married after a career, and some people get married first and then have a career, all of which may be said.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's two different things, it's possible that your so-called dreams will come true early when you get married, but when your dreams and family conflict, you have to compromise, unless your other half will support you without hesitation.

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