Choose between the one you love or the one who loves you???

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Is there no equilibrium.

    Don't you have someone who loves you and loves yourself?

    I know that I should choose to love my own person who is good to myself, but I am always looking forward to that kind of thrilling story, choose the person I love, he also chooses himself and he will not have too hard life, why not, choose the person who loves himself, he will cherish him and let him live happily, why not, the person who appears at the right time is what you can want, the person you want to afford, the person who will pass through together, who appears at the right time is the most important,

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Find someone you love to be a lover and someone who loves you to marry.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it were me, I would choose someone who loves me, so that I don't get tired and maybe be happy. If I choose the person I love, he will be tired and tired. Why not make your life easier?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When love is sweet, it is like honey, which can make you die happily. When it is bitter, it is like wine, it can burn your internal organs and abdomen, and make you feel painful. Therefore, when choosing a lover, you must choose the one who loves you, not the one you love. Because to love is pain, to be loved is happiness!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The person I love, this kind of love is valuable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Someone who loves me

    Feelings can be cultivated slowly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Someone who loves you!! Someone who loves you!! Someone who loves you!! Someone who loves you!! Someone who loves you!! Someone who loves you!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I have a certain understanding of this. Now I have a job, it's not bad, and my marriage is relatively happy, at first my wife was not the kind I loved, but she did love me very much, and as time passed, I gradually got to know her, and she was the person I loved the most, because she could give me a lot.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Someone who loves you, of course.

    But the most important thing is that both parties love each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, I will choose a job, in fact, I will choose marriage, marriage, as long as there is no dislike for the person who loves me, it doesn't hurt to choose the person who loves me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I will choose the person I love, because that's how I will be happy!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If the person who loves me is not the person I love, then I will not choose her, and living with someone I don't love is also a burden for myself!

    If the person I love is not the one who loves me, then I still won't choose the person who loves me, for the same reason! I'd rather live alone, bless the people I love!

    Of course, if the person I love is also the person who loves me, that's the best thing!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's like the song that sings, "Those who love me have no regrets about me, but I cry for those I love." "Whether it's someone who loves you and you don't love, or someone you love and doesn't love you, it will be painful for you to be with either of them.

    The perfect ending is to find someone who loves you and you to spend time with, now see if you can turn one party into a person who both loves you through time and your own efforts, if you can, then of course it's best, if you can't, give up, don't leave the pain for later. If it's the latter, give yourself some more time. Go find the right person.

    You may think that it is cruel to refuse to love, but long pain is better than short pain. And if the person you love will not fall in love with you, with him, you will be very miserable in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This has to ask you what you think, some people are willing to choose the person they love, because he feels that loving someone is to pay without regrets, he is very willing to pay for the person he likes, he feels very happy! Giving without expecting anything in return. Choose someone who loves you, too.

    will not bear unnecessary psychological damage, but you should think like this, others will pay for you at the same time, someone will pay for him, since he chose to love you, not the person who loves her, it means that he is willing to pay for you, he will feel happy. Feelings are cultivated by two people, when a person has paid a lot for you without regrets, you will inevitably be moved, of course, you will accept him, isn't this very good, although there is a saying that pay is not necessarily returned, but the so-called human warmth, the inevitable pay will be inevitably rewarded. So it's up to you how you choose.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is best when both of them like each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    These are the two directions of emotion, and there is no right or wrong.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I've said this question before, because there is only one time in a person's life when they can go crazy about themselves. So I will choose what I love, even if it hurts in the end, I don't regret that I loved.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hehe!!! Some people say that people have to fall in love three times in their lives!! Once is to find someone you love, once is to find someone who loves you, and the last time is to find someone you like and other people who also like you to marry,,,hehe!!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

    We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Nowadays, many people say that when you fall in love, you choose the person you love, and when you get married, you choose the person who loves you, I think it makes sense, after all, marriage is not a family, it is a lifelong thing, and two people will spend their lives together from now on. Even if the love is vigorous, after the baptism of firewood, rice, oil and salt of the family, it will become dull. In real life, sometimes love alone is not enough, and we sometimes ask me to think about reality.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

    Even if you go on like this.

    Not to mention that there will be no good results.

    Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

    Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

    At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.

    To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

    Maybe it's easier said than done.

    But all I can say is.

    If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

    Maybe I was like you in the past.

    Time really can change everything.

    Learn to be strong.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Choose to love you. It can be tiring to love someone who doesn't love yourself. And it's a very unfair situation.

    He doesn't care what you give. On the other hand, someone who loves you will care about you everywhere. Don't say anything you don't feel for him.

    Without love, eventually you will understand that the so-called love is really ethereal and illusory. Slowly you will know what life is. The so-called love will become extremely fragile in the face of real life.

    Being alone is good to you. Everywhere for your sake. As long as you don't really hate him.

    Like him a little bit, then there will be a good life between you

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless ...... well

    No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is unconditionally for each other, do anything.

    Do something meaningful! Even one person is not lonely.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I will choose someone I love.

    Because I feel like being with someone who loves me.

    But in his heart he thinks of others.

    It's so unfair to him.

    It's also up to you what you think.

    In fact, it is not bad to choose someone who loves you.

    He will be nice to you.

    In fact, the best answer is to choose someone you love and love you.

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