What should I do if I find out that the guy I have a crush on doesn t like me?

You have a crush on someone, and he doesn't know if you like him, how can he pay attention to you? What you need to do now is to approach him, not that you have to confess now, just to get close to his life, to understand his interests and hobbies, to talk to him more, to shake in front of him once in a while, so that he can notice you.

As long as he starts to pay attention to you slowly, after a long time, you can judge whether she has a good impression of you, and when you are sure that he has a good impression of you, then confess to him, tell him what he thinks, if he can promise you is naturally the best, but if he does not agree to be with you, just simply have a good impression of you, and treat you as a friend, then you have no need to pursue it anymore.

Either make good friends with him, or give up the relationship completely and delete him, or cut off contact with him. And you want to get him to pay attention to you, but you can't make him think you're annoying, you can't dangle in front of him all the time, for example, if he likes to play games, you can say that you want to learn the game.

Then go to the game yourself, and when you have a general understanding of the game, you can play with him, and then let him take you with him, believe me that I can definitely play the game to play the feelings, as for what kind of feelings depends on your own luck. Because there are many couples around me who play games to develop relationships, I hope it will help you too.

In addition to playing games, you can also choose some funny**, chat with him about some different topics, and chat can also talk about feelings. As long as he thinks you are interesting in his heart, then you are equivalent to half the success, at least in his heart he regards you as a friend, and he has a little good impression of you.

But you still have to be prepared, because his good impression of you may just be a friend, or he may want to be a lover with you, so no matter what the result is, you must not be able to let yourself not get out, feelings can not be forced, you have to prepare for the worst, that is, he treats you as a friend, and what kind of attitude should you have to face this matter.

If you find that he has someone he likes, then you must control yourself and don't confess to him, even if you confess, you are just a clown in front of others, maybe you will think that you are also an opportunity to compete, but the decision is in his hands, not in your hands, no matter how hard you try, no matter how good you are to him, it is also a fact that he likes others.

So no matter what the situation is, you should be sensible, there is no shame in having a crush on someone to confess even if you are rejected, at least you have worked hard to win the relationship, and no matter what, at least you have a 50% chance of being able to be with him, so it is enough, it is much better than if you keep having a crush and not confessing and not even have a chance.

When I find out that the guy I have liked for so long doesn't like me, I will have an inferiority complex, and then I will start to doubt myself, grow myself and continue to like it. If this like never gets a chance to be reciprocated, I will give up and continue to like him, is my character not enough you like or my appearance is not left in your mind, I like you so wholeheartedly, even if you don't like it, don't slander my like. <>

I have a crush on the male god for a long time, bury him in my heart, and put my actions first, because when I like it, I am so reserved, and after a long time, I will wonder if he knows what I like. I pretended to be his favorite snacks, wearing tissues, wipes, power bank, for fear that when you can use it, I can't give it to you, I went to carefully ask your friends, our friends, your current situation, pretending to tell you jokingly, I like you. I can't wait to give you everything you like, I know you're unhappy, I'll call you, complain about things, pour out my sadness, in fact, you don't know that I have already collapsed because of those things, I just want to comfort you, put them in my head again, to transpose to tell you, to comfort you.

You are silent, and I don't know if you have received my conscience. <>

Obviously someone told you that my embarrassment and sadness, my collapse, you didn't take out your mobile phone to call me, I barely adjusted my state, pretended not to care, calm and terrible, and I was at a loss to meet you in a second. You asked casually, and I answered casually, but he didn't know how important his comfort was to me, and he always prevaricated with various reasons. Later I realized that our relationship is only enough to be friends, and you don't have feelings for me, just feel guilty because I like you can't respond.

After a long time, this unresponsive feeling is slowly reacted by time, catalyzed by your sluggishness, my crush is stifled, and it is better to forget each other than to be in the rivers and lakes.

Everyone will be very sad when they encounter this kind of thing, after all, the object of their hard work and crush does not like them, which means that they have no chance, but don't be discouraged.

First of all, confirm whether you really like this person, because people's crushes are blind and unstable, if you find that he doesn't like you, or even hates you, it is still quite difficult for you to chase him, so at this time you can choose to let go, there are so many good boys in the neighborhood, don't fall in love with a flower. When I was in high school, the whole class knew that there was a girl who liked me, and I knew it, but I hated her very much from the bottom of my heart, on the one hand, because of her appearance, and on the other hand, because she was really bad, so I ignored her when she talked to me, and she couldn't make me like anything she did. So if you're really annoying this boy, you'd better not waste your time.

It's better to change the other, maybe we'll all be together. <>

And if you like this boy very much, you can't forget it, you must catch it. You still have a chance, if you can figure out why he hates you, and then you can correct or clear up the misunderstanding. For example, the girl I mentioned above, I hate her because she always frames and pits the girl I like, if she can correct it and not harm the girl I like, then I will definitely not reject her in the first place, and she may have a chance to be cute again.

So if there is a problem, change it, and then break into his circle of friends, become his friend, and let him change his opinion of you. That way you have the opportunity to develop further with him.

Even if you don't plan to go public and have a crush, you should clear up the misunderstanding between you, otherwise you won't even be able to be friends.

First of all, contact him more, communicate more, let yourself know him better, maybe after some understanding, you may find that he is not as good as you imagined. Slowly, you don't like him that much.

If you find that you still like him very much, or even like him more and more, you can take the initiative for your feelings, not just passively like them. For example, you can create some opportunities, add him WeChat, add him QQ, chat with him with a dead face, create some chance encounters, dress up beautifully, dress yourself, and show your beautiful side in front of him.

You can slowly become good friends with him without being in a hurry, or even become a confidant, and try to let him know more about your good side. When the time is ripe, you can use some routines on the Internet to test it, such as "Do you like Lao Tzu?" on the Weibo hot search list yesterday. Such routines are not only like jokes between friends, but also can test his mind.

However, I think if you keep flirting with him, and he gradually likes you, he may flirt with you in turn, hahaha, that means you are one step closer to success.

But if he reacts normally and still regards you as a friend, maybe, he really doesn't like you, at this time, you can silently hint to yourself in your heart, everything will go naturally, don't expect too much, and plan for the worst, so that even at this point, you will not be too sad, at least, you should be glad that you haven't pierced that layer of paper, he is not sure whether you like him, you can still be friends with him as if nothing happened. It's nice to be friends with a male god, isn't it?

If you feel that you are not willing to be only his friend, you can be bold and take the initiative to confess to him and take the initiative to pursue him, but remember that even if you like him, you are still equal in personality, don't be low and beg him to be with you. If this is still not successful, then be free and easy, give up, at least you did what you should do together, even if you are not with him, you will not regret it. There's also a forest waiting for you

Don't give up an entire forest for a tree like this. Forget about this boy and start a new life on your own.

Then let yourself stop focusing on the relationship and slowly let it go.