What s it like to live with a roommate who is very picky?

No one can decide what kind of people you will meet, and there is no way to decide what kind of roommates you will have. If the personalities of the people in a dormitory are more compatible, this is a very lucky thing, but if there are annoying people in the dormitory, like the kind of person who picks the door, she will be very annoyed when she sees her every day, but there is no way, the face has to pass.

There are always some people who usually don't buy anything, eat you, drink you, use yours, and dislike this and that. Few people's dormitories are very friendly, and most people's dormitories will be more or less annoying, and it is very common to pick the door and be selfish. So there is no need to care too much about this kind of person in the dormitory, as long as there is no falling out, you can get by on the face.

Just like I'm in college now, this stage is the time to get in the network, and it's not good for anyone to stiffen the relationship, so when you meet someone who makes you more upset, you can pay less attention to it, and don't have more contact.

We have a dormitory with this kind of more picky person, usually in a dormitory, to live together for four years, anyway, every time she is someone else has to buy delicious food, she never asks others to eat, the point is that others buy if she loves to eat, she will eat it all. One day I bought some grapes, just washed them and put them on the table, she took them and ate them, and you said that it was okay to eat a few, and she ate them one by one, and I was shocked at the time, and I didn't keep them for me at all'……

Despite this, I can't make the relationship stiff on the surface, if it does, a dormitory will not be able to look up all day long, and no one will be able to hang on to their face, so I can only say hello less and have less contact with her.

Therefore, most people hate people who are more picky, if you live with a roommate who picks the door, you can have less contact, don't be angry with yourself because of others.

This feeling must be very bad, the roommate who picks the door is stingy, what to do is always small to take advantage of others, think about it will be disgusting, want to stay away, especially in the girl's pile, the girl is already small-bellied, love to be careful, short-sighted, if there is a partner who picks the door, the contradiction will be on the verge of breaking out at any time, planting the seeds of resentment, the boy may be tolerant for a while, I am afraid that it will be exposed after a long time, and it will be embarrassing at that time.

Very picky roommates will want to use your shampoo, shower gel or something from time to time, which can save their own money to the greatest extent, and when they go out to play together, they will rarely have a treat, let alone take the initiative to pay, and sometimes even a sentence can be counted out of a yarn.

For example, when an outsider wants to sneak into our dormitory building to sell something, she can always maximize the benefits, remember, once, a middle-aged woman with a long vanity mirror stood at the door of our dormitory, and asked us if we wanted to install a mirror on the wall, at that time, we didn't quite understand why the school had such a benefit, and it was still possible to install such a large mirror for us, the kind that can take a full-body photo, which looks quite tempting.

Anyway, everyone in the dormitory has their own mirror, I don't care very much, my aunt has been persuading, "This is good, if you want to pretend to be one", she suddenly came up with a sentence "Then pretend." ”

It didn't take long for the aunt to install the mirror, and the roommate also looked at the mirror beautifully, very happy and satisfied, and suddenly the aunt said that it would cost 30 yuan, ah, all of a sudden, the voice just fell, and my roommate's face changed, and said: "Auntie, why didn't you say it earlier, we thought you were a person in the school, and you installed it for us for free, you see that our students don't have so much money, you better remove the mirror."

The aunt was also angry at this time, and said, "Why are you a student like this, this is a brand new mirror, why doesn't it look like it's free." Auntie still wants to fight for it, and if she can get the money, her roommate just doesn't give up, and the rest of us also chimed in: "Auntie, you just asked us if we pretended, right?" ,We're also helpless.,I thought my aunt was kind enough to give us ""We're really embarrassed to ask for free.,Our student party is really poor".。。

Auntie can't help us, and then we can only remove the mirror again, otherwise it will really be given for nothing. We are very puzzled, how can the aunt be let in, this outsider is not allowed to enter casually, not to mention a strange aunt, must have gone through the back door, there is something to do.

Because a few words were not communicated well, the aunt's accent was very special, and we didn't understand it, saying that it was a roommate who picked the door, but in fact, she let us get rid of this sales aunt. Having a capable roommate is really full of joys and sorrows, laughter and tears, so let's start the mode of getting along with friends and enemies.

The one who spent the most time with us in college was our roommate, and what kind of roommate you meet depends on your luck.

You will meet people with bad tempers, you will meet people who love to brag, and I think the most uncomfortable thing is to meet roommates who pick the door.

I had the misfortune of having a roommate in college, first of all, in the embodiment of the small things of daily life, such as his things run out, he can use yours, but your things run out, you want to use his things that are impossible, he will hide it very secretly, and will not give you a chance to use it. Even if you find him, he will say that there is a lot of some and no, which is unbearable.

For example, if we want to go out to dinner together, I pay the money alone, and the other roommates will give you the money when they come back after eating, but for the person who picks it, if you don't ask him to ask for it, he will not take the initiative to transfer the money to you. Every time I ask for this, I feel very uncomfortable, and there will always be times when I forget, but after eating, you want him to pay alone, and we come back and transfer it to him, that is also impossible.

The most unbearable thing for me is that once, we were going to print a material, I went to practice driving, there was no time to print, he was alone in the bedroom, I called ** to him, let him print for me when I helped me bring some, but after coming back still did not print for me, I asked him why he did not give me print, he said I did not give him money, fortunately the material is not in a hurry, since then I have never asked him to help me do things.

There is also a roommate who picks the door, every time he has to pay for something collectively, he is also the most sad, including paying the air conditioning bill, he will find various reasons not to pay, so in the end, we buy collective things are five people pooled money and don't go to him.

I have a deep understanding of this feeling, around us, we will always see a kind of helpless people, that is, very picky friends, when traveling with them or need to spend, you will see their faces in order to avoid paying the bill, which makes people unbearable to look at directly. One of my roommates is such a person, no matter when I am with her, I can always feel her picking, which makes us very helpless for a while.

That's a roommate I met in my last job, because we live in a dormitory, so there will be six girls living together in a room, this roommate is an employee of another department, when I first met her, I felt that she loved to be clean, and people were quite enthusiastic, but over time I found that the door is really an innate habit. Another time we went out to play on the commercial street together, when passing by a food stall, we discussed buying snacks to eat together, and then I volunteered to buy more, everyone ate together, when the boss made the snacks, I began to take out my wallet, just handed the money out, I found that this roommate intentionally or unintentionally stepped back, I saw that the boss was also busy and paid all the money, another roommate was still rushing to pay with me, I finally defeated her.

When eating together, the roommate who picked the door immediately rushed up and grabbed a large portion, and another roommate said that she didn't know how to pay for it, and she was embarrassed to eat so much, of course, it was a very joking thing at the time, but she didn't change her face and said a word without a beat, don't eat in vain. I immediately felt that I had nothing to love, and I felt that my kindness was not appreciated. Later, my other roommates complained to me about her slamming the door, and I realized that she was really picking.

Originally, it has been a long time since the university and I don't want to look at this kind of question anymore, but I still want to ask, you say that she picks the door, is she just "picking" others or "picking" herself? Some people are frugal by nature and do not mean that she picks the door. Counting money clearly is often clearer than the intentions of those who spend money generously.

Because today you seem to have spent someone's money, and you don't know what you have suffered behind your back. So please think about it clearly, she seems to be picking the door, whether she has borrowed and returned. She saves her own money and will never spend more on you.

On the contrary, I would like to ask you, does she know the unwritten rules of your dormitory? Who advocated such a rule? Is your boyfriend in front of you?

Did your boyfriend have a visitor??? Is this rule good for you only or for everyone???

Everyone has encountered a different room.

Friend. I met a few unique roommates, cosmetics, facial cleanser, toothpaste, my own will never be less, a toothpaste can last for a year, facial cleanser, skin cream, can also be used for a long time,I always like to use others to take advantage of this, and it's sneaky, just like being a thief, which is interesting.

Snacks too, I like to eat never seen bought, always like to join in the fun of people's food, ask people to bring breakfast, never bring the payment, except for the first time, always the next time for you.

I like to rub everything, eat and drink. I went out to play together, bought a few catties of fruit, and was very kind enough to help you carry it, and when I got home, there was not much left, and I could really eat it.

And it is especially edible. When I go to the restaurant, I always eat meat and vegetables, for fear that I won't be able to eat, and when I pay the bill, I am either in the toilet or drunk, and every time I do this, my friend's friend is really good to occupy, it is really dead.

Every time he needs to help, he always disappears, grabbing the red envelope is the first, and he leaves after grabbing it, without saying a word, he thinks that others don't know that he can't see him, don't be cheeky, and don't care about the image. The fewer such friends, the better.

When I was working outside, I also saw more strange things, the clothes I wore and the underwear were rotten, and I was reluctant to buy the socks when I was torn, and I went out to take the bus, all of which were handed over to myself, I usually got on the bus, and if I had friends with me, I usually paid together. When I went out to buy mineral water, I bought it myself and drank it, and I never thought of buying a drop of juice for others. Although I have eaten 8 times out of 10 times, I feel at ease, and I never feel guilty.

Some people always steal through other people's drawers when they are not there, and steal food when they see it. When I went back to my hometown, I didn't even have a bag, I stole other people's new packaging things, and left my broken bag to others, I really haven't seen this kind of person.

There is also the fact that she never buys clothes by herself, her mother takes the initiative to buy her clothes, or she wears clothes left by her sisters. Her classmates paid attention to dressing up in college, but she never bought new clothes, let alone cosmetics or other decorations.

I remember one year when I went to Beijing to see her, I came out of the train station and found that she was wearing a pair of sandals that had been torn. I asked her why she didn't buy a new pair and she said it was still wearable. I said that you are already working as a translator in a large company, and it would be a loss of identity to wear such shoes to work, but she just smiled.

Although she is very critical of herself, she is very sincere and generous to her friends. Every time I went to see her, she would take me to eat good food and take me to places I had never been before. Such a girl is very critical of herself, but she is a kind and good girl.

She said, "I gave you two melon seeds last month, when will you give them back to me".

After he ran out of my toothpaste, he directly told me that the toothpaste was gone and asked me to buy a new one.

I guess I don't want to buy sanitary napkins and like to borrow them from others.

If you want to eat snacks, you don't buy them yourself, you can pull other people's drawers one by one, and eat them directly regardless of whether they are or not. Her stuff has never been seen before. One set in front of the face and one behind the other, and an ugly face when eating other people's things. For the first time, I hated the name Tingting.

I think it's me, and 200 a month is enough for food. Basically, I don't buy snacks and fruits, unless a roommate gives it to me, I will count it according to the number of people after a few days and buy it as a rebate. In the cafeteria, there is basically one dish and one meter, and two dishes in a good mood.

No more than 100 ordinary everyday clothes (including winter). However, I don't rub my roommate's things as I said upstairs, I usually take advantage of various discounts to make a lot of money, and the unit price is not high, so I pay for it myself. I don't care about the fraction of a cent when I go out for group activities, after all, everyone takes care of each other every day.

I think I'm probably picking on myself. And I think I'm very territorial.,My roommate takes something like a paper that won't be returned to me when it's used up.,I'm okay with it.。 But if you use my towel, bath towel, facial cleanser, toothpaste, soap, shoes, brush... I'm very upset.,I don't know if it's a pick.,Maybe it's a little cleanliness.。