Why are delicate girls more likely to be pampered?

Being coquettish is a quick stepping stone. Men are protective animals and will be more likely to be attracted to girls who show weakness.

A man who is strong on the outside and dry in the middle, of course, likes a woman who is delicate and dependent. A woman who is too strong will inevitably make an immature man ashamed of himself. ‍‍

When a man is in the establishment period of his career, they are in the stage of wanting to ask for it, they need female men, because they don't have to worry about themselves, and even some strong women can help themselves, what they want most is to be able to help themselves. But when they are already in a stable period, they will tend to those women who are gentle and simple and need them more, because they are already in a state of fullness, in the stage of wanting to prove their existence, and when a person is in a state of fullness, it is the time to really show themselves.

In the boys' world, once your image as a female man is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, boys will regard your independence, courage and strength as a habit, and will not treat you as a vulnerable group that needs to be taken care of, and will treat you as a man. Then, men don't pamper men. So girls who can be spoiled are of course more likely to be pampered. ‍‍

I'm a delicate girl, those mature, capable, tolerant men will like me more, in their words, they think I'm more gentle, simple, happy and comfortable with me, and sometimes they think I'm a bully, so they want to protect me.

Men are obsessed with not delicate, but gentle, what women lack is this beautiful trait, especially many excellent men, in fact, they have a lot of pressure to fight outside, those things have divided a lot of their energy, of course they don't want to have too much emotional pressure, and they don't want the other party to be too strong, they can't relax at all times, most of them prefer the other half to be gentle and considerate, can soothe the soul, can make people relax.

There is an unwritten value that a woman's value lies in what others think of her, and that a man's value lies in his own ability to help others. From this point of view, it is easier for a delicate woman to help a man and make him feel useful and valuable.

Jiao Didi does not have a special purpose to transmit the behavior of "ah, so lonely, lonely and begging for care", but the way of speaking and doing things is more skillful and gentle, so whether it is beautiful or not, it will make people feel comfortable, not to mention boys, girls will also be willing to approach such girls, okay.

A coquettish woman has the best life. A lot of men like to eat this kind of thing. In the face of many things, many men do what women want, but men prefer women who are spoiled to themselves than women who are strong and demanding.

In fact, if a woman can occasionally be spoiled by a man, there are still many benefits, so take a look below.

Men will make women feel that they are important in a woman's heart.

Many times it is easy for girls to say that they are insecure in their relationships, but in fact, boys may also be insecure in their relationships. If a woman can do everything alone, she can't use the help of a man at all, that is, a woman. A man will make you feel like you don't need him.

He didn't seem to be of any use.

Women's "Secrets**"|Coquettish, always easy to pamper men.

On the contrary, at this time, when a woman occasionally spoils herself and asks herself to do something, the man will reflect his importance in the heart of the woman and feel that he is important to the woman. They also like the people they love to be spoiled by themselves. Because in their hearts, only those who care about the people they love will be coquettish.

A woman's coquettishness to herself is a sign of love.

It is easy to break a man's heart and arouse a man's desire to protect.

A squeamish woman is easy to arouse a man's desire to protect, and a man can't bear to be angry with you. If a female guy is doing the same thing with a coquettish woman, think about it. A woman may think that it is better to apologize for what she has done wrong, and it is not a big deal.

For delicate women, the man's eyes may begin to fill with tears before he says anything. When a man sees this situation, no matter what happens, he will instantly relent, and in turn coax the woman.

So being coquettish is a woman's amazing "**". As long as you take it out, you will kill a man in minutes. I think that while women's coquettishness cherishes men more, it will also arouse men's strong desire to protect, and I feel that we must protect women well and not let women suffer a little grievance.

First of all, because boys are relatively a bit macho and are also very protective. They see that the weak girl will be more gentle and pamper her more.

Men are like this, they like to be coquettish, they are very cowardly, they know how to show weakness, and they need their own protection.

It's because these girls can stimulate men's desire to protect, and they know how to be coquettish, so they can get what they want.

Because delicate girls can make men feel more protective. A man who is strong on the outside and dry in the middle, of course, likes a woman who is delicate and dependent. A woman who is too strong will inevitably make an immature man ashamed of himself.

And the beautiful qualities they have cultivated in their rich experience are not appreciated by men who are shallow and immature. When a man is not strong enough, mature enough, and broad-minded enough, he will be obsessed with the relationship between strong men and weak women.

He will like women to be gentle and charming, and he will like girls to be coquettish with him. That kind of relationship has a sense of conquest, and you can't really appreciate each other from the bottom of your heart. The most important foundation of a truly beautiful relationship is appreciation, not possession, domination and suppression.

It was like a seesaw that weighed equally on both sides, and there was a wonderful balance of a feast. The two are like traveling companions, but the relationship is faint but there is a tacit understanding that does not need words. A confidant is a mirror that reflects the most elegant side of our nature.

I still remember that someone said that for girls, Jiao Didi is of course not a problem, relying on Sapo and no self pseudo Jiao Didi. No matter what kind of personality a girl is, she should first have an independent personality to talk about self-esteem. Girl, if you are beautiful, gentle, wise, independent, and brave, but no one likes you, it can only mean that the men around you are not as strong as you, so you don't need to be blindly obsessed with the feeling of being delicate.

Delicate girls will be more pampered by people who are resistant to trembling silver, but you can also choose not to be delicate.

Appreciation requires competence. Good women are often mature and lovely, and that is like a book full of connotation, no matter how many times you read it, you will make new discoveries, which makes people want to stop. Like an aged wine, the moment you touch the tip of your tongue, you can't tell whether it's sour, sweet or spicy, but you just feel that all kinds of flavors are mellow and intertwined, and the aftertaste is endless.

And if you think that most men in this world like that kind of "pseudo-delicate" girls, then maybe our society is facing a male crisis.

First of all, it should be pointed out that not all men like delicate girls, everyone has their own preferences and preferences. However, some men may prefer delicate girls for a variety of reasons:

Softness: Delicate sail socks girls usually give a soft feeling, which will make some men feel comfortable and relaxed.

Romantic: Some men may find delicate girls to be more romantic and amorous, which will make them feel more interesting and meaningful.

Traditional beliefs: In some cultures, women are seen as more soft, delicate, and in need of protection, which also influences the aesthetic perceptions and preferences of some men.

It is important to note that these reasons do not apply to all men, and everyone's preferences are different. In addition, women should not be simply categorized into two categories: delicate and strong, each of whom is a unique individual with a variety of different personalities and characteristics.

No. A delicate girl may be able to arouse a boy's desire to protect, but a boy will still want his girlfriend to be independent and strong. After all, excellent quality not only does not have to worry about it, but also makes them appreciate it.

Maybe we always thought that boys like delicate girls like Daiyu. Yes, the weak willow supports the wind, the tears are a little bit, and there is a desire to protect at a glance! It's just enough to show the heroism of the man.

But most of this is just **, the girlfriend image in the TV series. In real life, excellent people, whether girls or boys, are appreciated.

I have a friend who has been beautiful since she was a child, and people have praised her for her good looks everywhere. Instead of being complacent, she studied hard and got excellent grades. After graduating, I worked very hard to get it, and I was a department manager at a young age.

She was so strong, and she didn't scare the boys away, but gathered a group of high-quality men. Not only do they think she is beautiful, but they are also attracted by her ability to work. No matter how big the difficulty is, you can overcome it, don't shout tired, don't slip and always shout bitterness, and try not to ask others for help.

It's just strong!

What about some girls? The ability is mediocre, and he doesn't know how to make progress. When I encounter something, I look for help everywhere, and I can't do anything at all.

Once a group of us went mountaineering, and there was a girl in the same group, and along the way, we would cry out tired, and we would cry bitterly, and the backpack was also helped by gay men. But who doesn't carry a heavy bag on their backs? At first, I liked her, but then I didn't have a good impression of her.

A few gay men were also impatient with her, and when they went back, they said they wouldn't take her to play in the future.

So girl, you work hard and are independent, are you afraid that there will be no high-quality boys chasing you? A woman who is positive, optimistic, positive, hard-working, and lives a good life feels very sunny to others, and men will certainly like it. After all, you are so happy, and he also wants to be influenced by you and become a happy person!

Seeing, valuable, especially popular is that the talkative eight-faced girl looks smart, and the man says that such a child is smart.

Because delicate girls look gentle and amorous, it is also easy to arouse boys' desire to protect.

We often hear such compliments for girls: the birds are very cute; There are also boys who often talk about the criteria for choosing a mate, saying that they like gentle, well-behaved girls.

Such girls are more in line with social and cultural expectations, and because they meet social expectations, they are naturally more likely to be recognized by everyone, and be noticed and praised by everyone.

Someone once sighed: "If the women on the street are all special women, then the men on the street are more men." This sounds a little reasonable, but when I think about it, I can't help but cry out for girls, as if whether a man is a man or not, is it directly decided by a woman?

Now that women are becoming more and more manly, who should take the blame?

Girls need to be vigilant, you look delicate, look like birds, look delicate, and it will really stimulate everyone's desire to protect and take care of you. But be careful, just "look" oh.

The kind of girl who is soft on the inside and strong on the outside, independent and flexible can be respected, helped and pampered by everyone. If you are a little strawberry and look weak, but your heart is really weak, everyone will pity you and spoil you, but they will not put you on an equal footing, love you and respect you.

It is not difficult to understand that in this world, no one can fully afford the whole of another person, such as his happiness, his life, his pursuits, his goals.

Even young children, as they grow up, their parents have to admit the fact that no matter how hard they try, they will not be able to fully meet their children's needs and expectations, and they need to face and bear the burden on their own.

For example, if a child doesn't like to play with him, how can he try to win everyone's acceptance; Another example is the pressure from studying, how he needs to work hard to meet the school's requirements; For another example, the child realizes that no matter how hard he tries, he can't be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University, and he needs to adjust his mentality and accept his true self.

For another example, two people who love each other have no fate, flowers and fruits, how do they put each other in their hearts and start a new life ......All these things need to be faced by everyone, not that you can solve it by hiding behind your parents, arguing and hiding behind relatives and friends, and hiding behind your partner.

At this time, no matter how delicate you are, it is useless to cry the pear blossoms with rain, only not to escape or avoid, to face your own vulnerability, to face your own limitations, to act, to move forward one small step at a time.

Therefore, it seems that boys like delicate girls, but in fact, it is just the appearance, in the minds of boys, they also desire their other half to be a good woman who is both rigid and soft, and can keep pace with themselves.

Not all guys like this type of girl.