After the breakup, I couldn t help but ask my ex to meet, she agreed, should I go?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you're a very strange person, you can't help but want to see your ex, you invited her and she agreed, and you're now arguing about whether you should go or not. You should consider whether you should go on a date with her before!

    If she asked you out and you agreed, it was reasonable for her to be entangled in whether she should go or not, as a big man, can you be a man?

    Since she agrees to go with you, anyway, few people can come out quickly after the breakup, she can agree with you, I believe she has not let go of you in her heart, so it is necessary for you to make it clear what you should say after you meet.

    If you can be together, then get back together, which is the best, if you can't be together, then agree not to meet again in the future.

    Anyway, I don't think it is possible or impossible for any relationship to reach the end, and some couples who go to the end also go through ups and downs on this road, constantly dividing and combining.

    So it's normal to break up, if you can't let go of each other like you, if you have anything to say, you should have saved a lot of Rory's wordy words in your heart during this time of separation, so take this opportunity to say it. Maybe you can still have a cry of joy and hug each other and cry!

    If the two of them can go on, they will go on, there are no major problems together, and they can make do with it, anyway, whoever they are with is talking, and there are more or less contradictions with whomever they are with, and no one can completely go along with our wishes.

    Falling in love is not only something that adults should experience, but it is also something that can learn to grow up. Whether you choose to break up after careful consideration, or break up in a fit of anger, in short, I believe that only when you are separated, everyone will reflect on yourself in the future, because you will never know how to cherish it when you get it, and you will think about the good of the other party when you lose.

    I believe that if you get back together, you should cherish each other more, and know that this relationship is not easy to come by. So I hope that you will be able to mature as soon as possible through this lesson.

    If your ex-girlfriend really doesn't have you in her heart, or has a love and hatred for you, she won't agree to meet you, so you need to know her inner thoughts.

    Don't be stupid, hurry up, and stand stupidly, your future wife should be someone else's, so be it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I can only send you two words: sick. Since you've broken up, why do you still have to ask someone, since you have made an appointment with someone, and they have agreed, why do you still struggle with whether to go or not, it's really ridiculous, I especially hate boys like you who have no opinions and no sense of responsibility.

    If after the breakup, you regret and are sad and want to make amends, then you go to chase your ex-girlfriend again, if you break up because of irreconcilable contradictions, then you should no longer disturb other people's lives, you are not her family now, and you have no reason to disturb other people's lives. It's good now, because you are unwilling or reluctant, to contact others, but others agree with you, but you are hesitant here, I can only say that your girlfriend and you broke up with the decision is the right choice. As a boy, you don't even have the most basic responsibilities and responsibilities, twisting and pinching, and entanglement.

    The boy that girls are most afraid of meeting is you, who don't know what responsibility is, and don't know what responsibility is, as if you will always live in your own world, what you like to do, you will never think about what consequences will be brought to others, and for the things you don't like, it is estimated that you will not wronged yourself for anyone. Maybe in your life, you care about your feelings, breaking up is very painful for any girl, maybe people finally let go of you, but you make appointments to meet again and again, and uncover the scars of others again and again, how can you bear it, because of your impulsiveness, to hurt others, and others are still the people you once loved.

    It is reasonable that you should go to see her, sincerely apologize to her and not disturb other people's lives again, or if you are really reluctant, try to be a mature and responsible boy for the last time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you still like your ex, since she agreed to meet you, it means that she is still interesting to you, and if you are still in love with your ex, I suggest you go and chase your ex back.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you took the initiative to bring it up, you should go to the appointment, explain the final implication between the two people, and then decide how to go in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As a boy, you take the initiative to ask the girl, and the girl agrees, why don't you dare to go. You take the initiative to make an appointment to prove that you still have regrets about this relationship, if you still want to continue with this girl, then be brave to express and pursue, if you just want to make a break for your feelings, then make it clear to the girl, and don't disturb the girl's peaceful life in the future, this is the best thing you can do for the girl as an ex-boyfriend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After the breakup, I was able to talk to the sky, but I felt that something was missing when I wanted to meet.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you shouldn't go, now that you've broken up, let's live your life quietly.

    The reason why the ex became the ex is because of all kinds of inappropriateness, you think, the two of you will break up because you have different views on some aspects of him, and because you can't reach an agreement, it leads to the situation that you break up. If you ask you out at this moment, I don't think you should go, people who repeat the mistakes of the past always regret it, but they always can't control their legs.

    Morally, you shouldn't go either. Because former lovers can't be friends. If one of you already has a new other half, then you shouldn't go to the appointment, if you go to the appointment like this, it will cause unnecessary misunderstandings, and if it is serious, it may make your current other half or the other half of the other party's current yellow directly, so ah, don't go.

    I have a classmate who broke up with his ex, and for some reason, went to meet his ex again. They are actually the kind that have no feelings, but the other half of the classmate fell in love with the classmate's green uniform, and they didn't like him at all.

    Later, not long after the breakup, the other half of the classmate came to ask him out again, and then he probably still cared about the classmate, so he went. And then the ones who "lived up to expectations" were together again. The result is a repeat of the same mistakes!

    So, don't go to dinner with your ex or anything, and don't go when you go on an appointment, in order to avoid yourself getting hurt again, and for the sake of your other half's happy life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on what the reason for the appointment, where the appointment is, whether you want to go to the appointment, or whether you can completely let go of your ex, or whether you are single now, etc., in fact, to put it bluntly, it depends on whether you want to go, and how you want to go, you will find a reason for yourself to go.

    If it is for you to attend his wedding, you should go, provided that you broke up peacefully. If you beat you to death before the breakup, then don't go, at this time he still asks you out, it's purely to show off or have nothing to do, just ignore him.

    If it is about you to have dinner together, saying that there is something to tell you, then it depends on whether it is really at the place where you eat, if so, then be generous, you should go, after all, two people have loved together, in case he really needs your help. If you don't go and you find out afterwards that something happened to him, you'll regret it, and you'll wonder if it's okay if you went to see him, and even if you don't know what he's going to say to you, you'll wonder if it's because of yourself. If this were a stranger, you probably wouldn't have thought of it that way, but he's your ex.

    If you can completely let go of your ex, you should go even more, since you let go, it means that you don't feel anything when you see each other again, it won't affect your mood because of him, maybe just treat each other as a friend. After all, multiple friends have many roads, and multiple enemies have multiple walls.

    If you're single now, it doesn't matter, you can't ask the question of whether you should go or not, and you don't have to think about other people's thoughts and moods anyway, but if the other person has a new relationship, then you shouldn't go. It will affect people's feelings.

    In real life, there are always people who are not clear about their ex, causing misunderstandings, in fact, breaking up is breaking up, and they have to break it clean, don't say anything about being friends, there are too few pure friendships between men and women, let alone with their exes. Being a friend is not a sign of your generosity, because you can completely let go, but how many people can really let go. Therefore, it is best not to contact again, so you don't have to think about whether you should go to the appointment or not, and you don't have to worry about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm determined not to go, I've already broken up, don't talk about the embarrassment of meeting again, what can we talk about, anyway, I don't believe it, you can still do such nonsense as friends after breaking up.

    broke up, must feel that each other is not suitable, must have quarreled for each other's differences, until they are inseparable, I feel that there is really no way, will separate, but, because of this, together, we have common good memories, these should be cherished by each other in the depths of memory can not bear to destroy, so what else can we talk about when we meet, talk about work, talk about life, or talk about ideals and future, these don't seem to be appropriate. Isn't it embarrassing that we're all so familiar with each other, but want to be like old friends?

    I have a friend, I and she are high school classmates, he and her ex-boyfriend and I are both from the same school, we have a good relationship with each other, the sophomore year of winter vacation, they were together, at first we were also blessed, and I didn't feel that the two of them were not suitable, but I was so depressed, since then there is one less friend to play, they were admitted to different schools in the college entrance examination, and in different places, they broke up after the freshman year, I also accompanied my friend for many days at that time, and my friend was very sad, I lost fifteen pounds in less than a month, but I gave him a **, and all I got was a sentence like "We are not suitable, you can persuade her more".

    Later, my friend finally let go, but this boy still wants to be friends with my friend, and I don't know what he thinks in his head, he will call my friend ** when he is fine, and report his current life, my friend is very unclear about what he wants to do, in fact, I don't understand, it should be such a frequent **, he still didn't say to my friend to get back together, and when we asked him what he wanted to do, he said, "I'm afraid he'll be sad, chat with her, we can be friends even if we don't get together, "Can this be the same as before, and can I go back?" It feels like the man has been kicked in the head by a donkey.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think after the breakup, it should be decisive, since two people choose to break up, it means that it is not appropriate, don't break the thread, after the breakup, two people can no longer be friends, because two people who love deeply cannot be friends. After the two broke up, they will be fine at the end of the world from now on! In addition, if you break up, you must divide it cleanly, don't contact your ex again, and you are also responsible for the current one.

    I hope everyone will remain loyal to their feelings.

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