Bored, wanting to do something, but too lazy to do it, what to do

I've just recovered.

Knowing that you are very decadent, knowing that you are not willing to be decadent, knowing that you can't change this status quo, then, you just let yourself go, don't eat, drink and have fun with the constraints of understanding, when you fall to a certain point, the sense of crisis of survival will be particularly obvious, at this time, look at what your friends are doing, and learn a little, whether you are interested or not, whether you will succeed or not, you have to do it first, because, if you don't take action, you really can't find the value of your own existence. Perhaps, we are really waiting for 2012.

Life is actually quite beautiful, sometimes I play a joke to you, you don't take it seriously, just play it and have fun, and after that, you still have to go crazy to enjoy every minute of this world, you really lose your life, and you don't even have a chance to redeem it. Come on.

Many people encounter this mental obstacle. It's because your life is too empty and you really don't have a lot of pursuits in life. Get by every day.

Therefore, it is necessary to find the root cause. You have to find your true goal anew, or simply put down what you are doing and learn what you want to learn the most, whatever you want, and keep yourself busy.

I'll tell you a way:

Drink a large glass of boiled water, then go to the toilet and squat and wait.

The best way to get rid of decadence is to think about nothing.

Life without heart and lungs.

You'll find that you're a lot more open-minded.

Although there is no change on the surface, there will be sunshine on the inside.

Nowadays, people who are not mixed also have the benefits of mixing.

I think it's the use of reading books, and the more I read, the more empty I become

Well, there's no game you never get tired of playing.

In fact, the most important thing in what to do is to have a few people to talk to.

Someone who can talk to you, or someone you can talk to.

Find someone to talk to After the conversation, you will find that your body and mind are full.

The premise is that you genuinely enjoy talking to him.

You should read more inspirational books, good books can give people strength. Guide you to a healthy life.

You can listen to songs, listen to songs, listen to songs, or whatever.

Maybe you can listen to the song.

I'm here to recommend.

Guo Mei's third disc "I Am Guo Meimei":

Wishing Tree" how.

Playing games or something will get boring.

These are all of these problems. Can you be a little assertive? There's nothing anyone can do for you. It's up to you. Even if I say that I am drunk, it is useless if you don't do it. Think about your shortcomings and make up for them.

There are a lot of questions like you on the Internet, you can check them out.

Decadence: Don't continue to be decadent when you're done.

You have to try to make a change, even if it fails!

After saying that, you may still be decadent.

Mom,It turns out that there are so many buddies in the world.,It's exactly the same as my life.,Game play dota.,Hey, hey, everything else.,It's all like this.,How old is it??

Let's talk to a close friend, talk to me.

When faced with the dilemma of "not wanting to do anything but not wanting to be idle", you can try the following methods.

1. Take it easy

Many times, after overwork and high tension, people feel physically and mentally exhausted, and they don't want to do anything, but they don't want a lot of time to pass in vain, and this sense of contradiction makes them feel very uncomfortable. A bad mood can make people lose motivation. It's a good idea to take this opportunity to relax and organize your mood for the next stage of your mission.

There are many ways to relax, you can use some that you like and get used to, such as:

1) Listen to calming classics**.

Studies have found that listening to some gentle and soothing treatments** can help our body lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol.

2) Go out and sing with your friends.

Going to karaoke with good friends can really make people forget the troubles of the moment.

3) Watch a movie that you've been collecting for a long time but haven't had time to watch.

Getting ready for chips, sodas, and enjoying the long-awaited movie alone on a quiet evening is nothing more than a pleasure.

2. Calm down

Sometimes, we are reluctant to do things not because of physical exhaustion, but because of inner restlessness. The mind is too chaotic and there are too many distractions that make us want to do a lot of things, but we are restless and have no idea where to start. At this time, you might as well calm down your heart and put aside the distractions of the world for a while.

(1) Meditation

The benefits of meditation are many, but one of the most straightforward is to allow yourself to empty your brain, reduce stress, and focus on yourself.

2) Yoga. Yoga calms the body and mind, promotes the function of the immune system, and flushes out the toxins produced in the body due to stress.

3) Read a book of prose

Make a cup of tea, read prose, relax and relax, but also understand the philosophy of truth and learn the author's way of life.

3. Have fun

The so-called fun is the existence that can arouse people's curiosity and make people happy. When you don't want to do those boring things, it is better to look for new things that can make you interested and get rid of the shackles of boring.

(1) Make a very good dish according to the recipe.

Regardless of whether it can be done successfully or not, the process of cooking is always enjoyable.

2) Discover new interests.

Doing something you haven't tried before but really want to do, such as learning calligraphy, learning a new instrument, learning a new sport, etc., is not only fun for yourself, but also adds value to yourself.

What if you don't want to do anything but don't want to be idle?

I believe that most people have this experience: you know that there are many things waiting for you to do, you know that these things are important and you have to do them, but you are not in the mood, you don't want to start, you want to escape, but if you don't do it, you don't know what to do but you don't want to be idle.

OneFirst of all, consider whether you are tired or not, and at this time, you can do something that usually relaxes you

sit alone in front of the window and listen to a few of your favorite songs;

Go out with friends to play ball, take a walk, breathe in the fresh air outside, and refresh your spirits;

Put the ** clean up the room, maybe you'll be in the mood to do it when you're busy;

Shut yourself in your room and get some sleep.

Second, if you still don't want to do anything after doing this, at this time you really need some cruel words or inspirational ** saved in your phone that you haven't seen for a long time to try to force yourself, after all, not everyone is so self-driven:

Your efforts hide the joy of your parents' twilight years and the confidence of your children's future!

Either excel or settle for mediocrity, don't be pretentious and don't want to work hard yet!

While we're hot-headed, we're going to be desperate!

If you run fast, the wind is in your ears, and if you run slowly, there will naturally be gossip around you!

You've done it, and people think it's justified to fart, and if you fail, no matter how reasonable you say, people think it's a fart!

Your intermittent efforts and living in obscurity are all zeroing out your previous efforts!

If you don't work hard, you want everything, you think beautifully!

Self-motivation is useless, everyone is result-oriented!

3. Try to talk to good friends and girlfriends, everyone is the same age, more or less have had similar experiences, you can ask them for some advice or ask them to "wake up" you, after all, "everyone has shame".

That's it? That's all you have? Have you really reached the point where you can't hold out in the last hysteria?

Your ideal is a poem, your ideal is a dream, your ideal is a distant field, it is a trip through the world, but all you can do now is to hold your hands tightly, accumulate thick and thin, you, only pay, pay your time, bet on your dignity, take out your all, your everything!You dance in the middle of the night with tears in your eyes, run in your memories, although life, it will deprive you of your love, trample on your dignity, trample you under your feet and bruise, but how can you fall, behind you are the beloved, those injuries will become your medals, are the best gifts you give to your future self! ”

Even if your life is a bit messy now, don't stop moving forward, keep yourself busy as much as possible, never do nothing all your life, and comfort yourself that it's ordinary and precious!

People, you can't be too idle, idle and idle.

If you are free, you will have more time and more ideas, and your mind will become smaller.

First of all, you can set a small goalThe reason why many people don't want to do it is that to a certain extent, they feel that the goals they set for themselves are too big, so they are reluctant to start, but they will feel that many people have such considerationsWhen you find that you start to slowly achieve some small goals, you will find that you are still willing to act.

Every time we set a small goal for ourselves and achieve a small achievement, it will trigger positive feedback in our hearts, and the next time we encounter something that needs to be dealt with, there will be a reflex mechanism in our mindsSo we need to get out of our subconscious comfort zone.

At this time, we need to be self-disciplined, starting from this problem, to find a certain reference.

We need to overcome this reluctance to actAlthough self-discipline itself is a difficult thing, once you take action, you will have immeasurable action. Start by changing this mindset to reduce your guilt and self-blame, and then start with small tasks.

In addition, if you don't want to do something, you will be willing to do it as long as you start doing it.

This is actually what people usually call overcoming difficultiesIf you want to become a lazy person, if you don't work hard, no one can save you. There's nothing you don't get without effort, you can't want it and do nothing. Don't pin your hopes on others, if you don't work hard to step up, others won't be able to pull you.

The things and directions that everyone strives for will always follow their own hearts, and their hearts will act if they need such things

If you don't want to do it, you definitely don't want to do it, or you can't do these things, so it will also form a situation where you don't want to do it. For these situations, we might as well think differently, find the point we need, and start moving, and in the end we will become a giant in action, rather than a paper in thought.

Think about the purpose of your actions and what your desires are. And set a goal for it, so you know how to do it.