I occasionally took a look at my girlfriend s chat history

That's just what she wants, because she doesn't have a boyfriend in the countryside, it's normal to be curious about what she hasn't been exposed to, and girls nowadays don't want to get married too early, because people nowadays have their own ideas and opinions, and they don't want to be trapped too early, so it's okay to take it slowly. After all, after being together for a long time, she will understand and live. Don't push her, or it will have a bad effect.

It's hard to say this kind of question, how old is your girlfriend, if you are young, it is a little dangerous, after all, if you are young, you will not be in a hurry to get married, and it is possible to empathize and not fall in love.

If it's better than the older one, you have to communicate with her more to get to know her.

It's hard to say! It depends on how your relationship is, whether there have been any changes recently. If it's okay, just if you don't see it, let's get along well. I suggest you have a good talk with her. I wish you all happiness.

No, I'm a woman, I say bad things about a guy to my girlfriend every day, and say that I like another person, but I actually like him.

Love can't be forced, marriage can't be urgent, you have to agree on both sides What your girlfriend says may not be true and sincere, don't doubt it, and now you should care about her and love her is not a suspicion, you have to remember: Jin Cheng goes, Jin Shi is a good thing

Women sometimes want to vent, not necessarily because they don't love.

It seems that your girlfriend wants to have a stable home, and you are too insecure.

Then you will make your family poor and move to the countryside.

You yourself have an aversion to putting a password on your phone that the other person doesn't know. After all, the phone is private, and you can tell her directly. She still insists, which is unreasonable.

I think you can tell your girlfriend that you don't like this, and you can also take other methods, you can delete the chat history in time, so that she can't read it if she wants to, and you don't have to bother.

Then you should take the initiative to communicate with your girlfriend at this time, and tell her that this behavior makes you very uncomfortable.

A: I suggest that you can refuse her request, for which I feel that the woman's behavior is disrespectful to you and she should apologize to you.

In fact, we can ask our girlfriend not to look at your phone often, and your girlfriend's behavior is also because you don't give her a sense of security.

Here's the thing, for a while, we had a conflict, continued disharmony for several days, and finally compromised ourselves and apologized. After meeting, she still looked at my phone as always, I was fine, by the way with her mobile phone to play, suddenly her WeChat message rang, I clicked on the situation, I found that it was her chat with her best friend, I also looked at their chat history by the way, it doesn't matter if you don't look at it, my lungs are about to explode after reading it. The chat log roughly means that my girlfriend complained and had conflicts with me like her best friend, and continued to have a cold war, but I didn't expect her best friend to be inconvenient and not say anything, and encouraged her to break up with me, and also introduced another handsome guy to my girlfriend.

The point is that my girlfriend is still very cooperative and says, yes.

When I finished reading it, my face suddenly turned bad, and I returned the phone to my girlfriend by the way. My girlfriend also felt that my face was wrong, and she noticed something, so she picked up her phone and found the WeChat content I was reading. I explained to me vigorously, saying that it wasn't what I thought it was, and that it was just joking with my girlfriends.

I didn't say anything to my girlfriend at the time, but I was very uncomfortable and angry.

To be honest, after this incident, I still have a knot, and I have been cold with my girlfriend for a long time. My girlfriend also sensed my abnormality, usually cautious, and never took the initiative to check my mobile phone anymore, and her best friend also knew what was going on, and took the initiative to explain to me that it was a joke, and I just replied with a few words.

From the incident between me and my girlfriend, I am full of emotion, although this incident has not affected the relationship between us, but if I am not cheap, I will not see the news, and I will not ask for trouble, so I recommend that couples still do not look at the object's mobile phone, and beware of girlfriend's girlfriend.

Hello. It may be that you have a subconscious inside you that you want to see your girlfriend's chat history.

That's why there is such a situation.

If you trust the other person, there will be no such situation.

The most basic thing for two people to be together is trust.

Prolonged suspicion makes people suspicious.

will have their own inner fantasies.

So it is advisable to restrain yourself in this situation.

Don't put a mental burden on yourself.

If you feel that two people are not suitable, it is best to separate as soon as possible.

That means your girlfriend is still a bit likable.

At such times, being happy is not unhappy or unhappy.

If you are immersed in your girlfriend all day long, you will not be happy if you will go with others, you will only be suspicious every day.

Facing her all day, you will become neurotic, often suspicious of loving someone, if you don't even have enough trust.

I don't even have the confidence I should have.

Well, you may not love her enough.

You may like her, but only by her appearance.

I see that she looks very good, so I want to take it for myself.

If it's just this kind of mentality, then you must be together only temporarily, not for a long time!

So, think about how deep and strong the love between you is, after all, there are more people who are better than you, the most important thing is, why does she like you? And not someone else?

Ask yourself this question.

Once you have the answer, decide the outcome! If you love, do it and cherish it!

Don't have that mentality of breaking up if it's a big deal.

Will you marry her?

If you haven't thought about it at all, then what are you worried about, sooner or later she will be someone else's!

If you're going to marry her, trust her! After all, it's a lifetime!

In fact, if someone likes their girlfriend, it means that their girlfriend is very good, which is normal, as long as your girlfriend is wholeheartedly devoted to you.