Why am I always so timid, why am I always so timid?

It doesn't matter if you're timid, I'm also very timid, so what does it matter? Who says that being able to fight is bold? Some psychologists say that those who act in extremes are using those appearances to cover up their psychological fear and timidity.

So you don't think so much. Just open your mind.

As for work, I'm the same as you, I graduated in July this year, and now I've been working for 2 months, don't you know, the new jobs start from small things, and they are all called upon. And one of the things that people told me the most in the past was "come out to work, you have to stand the scolding", so if you think about it, everyone comes out like this, so it's not for you alone. Don't think so extremely, if the job is what you like, then the ones you receive are worth it, don't be like them.

You think of them as if they were jealous of your youth, your very good years, you know? If you don't like that job, then instead of being so unhappy, you might as well change to a job you like. People should be kind to themselves, and there is no need to wronged themselves to do unhappy things.

Regarding interacting with people, in fact, not everyone is a friend all over the world, although the plum blossom is fragrant, three or two branches can be. So you can choose to make a friend who you feel is worth dating. You have to know that your life circle will change at any time, don't think about being good to everyone, then you will be very tired.

You know, your friends who had a good time when you were studying are now out to work, and your relationship is still the same?

Finally, I hope you can live and work happily. Friend!!

The root cause of cowardice and timidity is the fear of failure, and when you do something that often fails, you develop a fear of the experience and create some obstacles.

I don't dare to say it in front of some people, I like to say it in front of some people, mainly because you can successfully show your ideas in front of this person, some people have a strong personality and are not easy to be persuaded, you may fail, so you are afraid to say, on the contrary, for those who are easy to accept other people's opinions, you successfully express your ideas and get approval, you love to speak.

The solution to the problem is always to face it, not to run away from it. First of all, don't feel inferior, imagine that you can persuade others to do something, and it is necessary to start expressing your opinions in front of everyone and being ridiculed, but you still have to say that as long as you feel that what you say is reasonable, you believe that others will also be infected, it is only a matter of time, you have to change There must be a process, from being ridiculed to being accustomed to it and then to successful persuasion. You must have the spirit of not being afraid of blows, and even if others ridicule you, you must be brave enough to express what you want to say.

You are too cautious to do things, as if you are afraid of things!

First of all, you need to cultivate your self-confidence, and when you have self-confidence, you have great hopes for everything. You won't always feel like people are laughing at you.

Secondly, exercise your guts. Create opportunities for yourself to exercise and participate in group activities with a large number of people.

Third, we must cultivate our own good psychology and be assertive in doing things. Don't do what others say or do, do what you think is right, no matter what others say, don't care about him, let him say what he says, what he does is good, what others say is good, and what others say is good, and don't listen to him if it's bad.

Fourth, participate in some physical exercise to impress others.

Fifth, don't look at other people's faces when you do things, do what you want, don't be so weak, try to do what you have the confidence to do, don't be afraid, and believe that you will always do the best!

Other people's faces are just superficial, and you have the ability to do it yourself.

Because of introversion? Maybe it's because of the fear of something.

Because、、Some people are timid, they are afraid of the loneliness of the night。 Some people are timid and cranky.

Some people are timid and just have low self-esteem, while some people are timid and are afraid.

Because they know a lot and think a lot, the so-called ignorant are fearless!

Maybe the personality is not cheerful enough, try to deal with others more, and subtly it will be better.