What kind of person to choose to marry?

If you can accept not living with the person you love, then choose a person who loves you, but don't treat him too badly, people don't have to be you, the person who doesn't love you will make you feel frustrated, because he doesn't love you, many details will reflect that he doesn't care about you very much, not the kind that holds you in the palm of his hand, if you are the type of little woman who needs care, it is better to choose a person who loves you, and cultivate your feelings when you get married.

Men, to choose a career, if there is no career, to choose a willing to learn, self-motivated, ambitious, responsible, honest and confident, honest and brave, frank and strong man, this kind of man looks more honest, but not lack of masculinity, they know how to behave. It's a pleasure to live a life with them.

Men are not bad and women are not loved, but husbands should be good husbands, people should be honest and honest. Honest. And motivated, motivated, motivated.

Suppose the person you like marries you, he doesn't like you very much, your needs are obtained, he she doesn't get them; Marry someone who likes you, you don't like him very much, she is, you will feel sorry or something after marriage, in short, you can't have the best of both worlds, it's hard to choose...

Love is not a safe for marriage, many people who love to be old will still divide after a certain period of time after marriage, and those who get married without falling in love can also grow old together, so it mainly depends on the person of the marriage object, there is no absolute.

Of course, who wouldn't want to marry someone they love?

Very simple. Friends...Love is costly. Marriage is about finding money and saving money!In marriage, love is in the minority, and most of them have become family affection.

Can love be eaten as a meal? Marriage is about living together!

Marriage should be chosen by the person.

Find a shrewd and capable person to marry.

When falling in love, two people don't have to take into account each other's family status gaps, but when they enter married life, they must find a shrewd and capable person. If you are self-motivated enough in your career, whether you are a woman or a man, you will first see if the other party has a stable economic foundation. The economic basis is the only indicator to measure the family status of two people when they get married, and if the party with a poor economic foundation does not have a say in the family status.

Find someone who is responsible and responsible.

The marriage partner you are looking for must look at the qualities that the other party has, whether they can achieve their own liking, and the boy must be filial enough. At the same time, girls should also have the qualities of kindness and filial piety, if the parents are old, the children do not take on the obligation to support the elderly, which will feel that the other party is an unloving person. People who don't know how to be kind are not suitable for marriage, after all, after marriage, husband and wife need to tolerate each other.

What kind of partner should you choose to be happy when you get married? Personally, I think there are 3 points.

The first point: long-term affection, endure the tempering of life.

It is impossible for a person who is not affectionate for a long time to choose marriage.

Only those who have a long love can endure the tempering of life, because people who have a long love know that life is firewood, rice, oil and salt, there is no vigor, only ordinary days.

The second point: love, keep it fresh.

How many marriages have been lost without love?

Although marriage is family affection in the end, isn't the starting point all because of love? If there is no love, it is easy for the maintenance of marriage to be maintained only by family affection.

You see a lot of middle-aged and even elderly people, they also have love between them, but the way they express their love is more tactful and subtle.

Therefore, if you want to keep your marriage fresh, you must learn to keep it fresh.

The third point: choose a man who is comfortable with the three views.

If you want to marry the right person, the last point is very crucial: choose a person who can get along comfortably with the three views.

If your relationship is uncomfortable when you get along, then you can just break up. A state that is tired in love is by no means suitable for entering marriage. There is no love for people, people have feelings, not no feelings.

A good marriage must first fall in love, whether it is the right person or not, you can also feel it. What a person is like to you, your heart is clear.

You also know what to put and what kind of love is worth pursuing.

Whether you can marry the right person or not, premarital choices are very important, and it has always been the case. Don't look for men in the garbage, and don't choose men who are violent and extreme. If a man's own behavior is flawed, you should give up decisively instead of hoping that you can change him.

I think what kind of person should I find when I get married.

1. Personality: Try to find a man who is docile or complementary and docile, who is warmer and easier to communicate; Complementary personalities can make up for the lack of their own personalities, such as short-tempered people, find a gentle personality, there will be a lot less friction, and the other party will also give a lot of tolerance and help.

2. Three views: We often say that the three views should be consistent. What is the consistency of the three views?

The final result is that two people can retain each other's objections in their lives, but they can always coordinate and agree, and have common life goals and pursuits. When two people get along, they are most afraid that one person has already walked a long way, and the other person is standing still, or walking behind his back. The future you mentioned, he has seriously considered it, and the two of them work together for a common goal, which is the same three views.

3. Character: Find a person with good character and responsibility. Good character is manifested in the fact that this person should be sincere and kind, broad-minded, responsible, responsible, and have standards for doing things.

People with good character are easy to give people a sense of security and can be relied on very well. Whether a person's character is good or not, we must pay attention to his details, and see the real details in the subtleties.

4. Personality: Find someone with a healthy personality, who can't be too extreme in doing things, and has a certain ability to resist pressure. It depends on how he behaves when he encounters bad things, when he has a bad temper, whether he has violent tendencies, etc.

When starting a relationship, two people only experience good things, they will not find these problems, and they have to experience some problems and contradictions to see clearly what the other party is like when they are not good, especially what kind of attitude towards you.

5. Potential: To find a person with potential, the comprehensive ability and development potential of the other party are also very important, which is conducive to improving the living standards of two people in the future. After marriage, it is no longer a simple life of two people, there will be old and young in the future, and there will be many life problems, so you must find a person with potential, and two people must have the ability and determination to face various problems after marriage.

6. Realistic conditions: first of all, it is better to have a house in the city where you settle down or two people have the ability to buy a house together; Bride price, many couples end up breaking up because of the bride price, the bride price is a thing that both parties must agree on, look at it rationally and objectively, not too high, and not want. Marriage is inseparable from these realistic conditions, and they all want to find a good economy that can reduce the pressure of debt, but if not, they must also find a person with matching economic strength, and it is best not to find someone with poor economic strength and poor potential, after all, poor couples mourn.

Dear will be happy to answer your questions. Factors to consider when getting marriedYuer has sorted out the following 12 suggestions for you, I hope it can help you. 1. Confirm that you are in love, this is the premise of marriage, marriage for the sake of marriage, and it is difficult to bury a stable and lasting marriage.

2. The parents of both parties are blessed, and marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families.

3. Have a pre-marital check-up and be in good health.

4. Self-motivated and responsible, and you can work together in your future life.

5. Whether the temper, character, and three views of both sides are compatible.

6. Have unprincipled bad habits and bad emotions.

7. Whether the in-laws are people who have a lot of things, and whether the mother-in-law is strong and loves children.

8. Look at his attitude towards his parents and friends around him, filial piety and love, and being kind to others, he will not be bad to you.

9. Whether the other party has a one-handed personality, has his own concepts and attitudes, and is not easy to be controlled by his parents.

10. Whether you can not avoid problems when quarreling, and have tolerance and patience to run in differences.

11. Whether you have the ability to take on the responsibilities of the new family (sense of responsibility, a certain economic foundation) 12. Regarding the distribution of housework, how to divide family affairs, such as cooking and cleaning, and who will be responsible for ......These seemingly trivial things often turn into the culprit of dissipating feelings.

1.Men who treat women as private property.

Such a man cannot tolerate the slightest impurity on your part, and your present and future, even your past, must be under his control, otherwise he will go crazy. The one-year-old brother can't see you, and even wants to call the police. Such a narrow-minded man, even if your past is really blank, he will inexplicably create some right and wrong.

2.The man who once led to lose you.

Of course, there are many layers to this, such as careless disappointment, or sincere repentance after failing you. For such a man, you also have to think about it from a different angle, for example, you really love him, you don't have the courage to live without him, and you also firmly believe that you have enough charm to let him no longer live up to you, then you can forgive him and accept him again. If this is not the case, you must choose to leave, because, if there is one, there will be two, and if there is two, there will be three, and there is no shortage of good men in this world, so why bother hanging yourself on "a tree"?

3.The man you once betrayed.

No matter how much he loves you, your betrayal will leave a shadow in his heart, because men and women are different and will not really forgive and completely put the past aside. A man will always remember the past in his heart and remind himself, and even when his heart is unbalanced, he will "treat others the way they do". If you have already betrayed him, why should you go back and give him authority?

4.A man who already has a wife.

A married man, no matter how rich, successful, excellent, or personable he is, he can't consider it, because he has already got a family, and no matter how hard he works, he belongs to others. Don't believe how much he loves you with a flamboyant mouth, and even verbally promised to divorce his wife, but at a critical moment, he won't ruin his reputation for love. Are you willing to be a nameless lover who has no name and no points, and has to be scared all day long?

Admit your suspicion and ask yourself, is a man who can't give you all like this worthy of your love? Don't you feel frivolous and self-respecting?

5.A man who abandons his wives after making a fortune.

Most of this kind of man is irresponsible and selfish, and he can abandon his wife as well as you. Of course, it is not denied that there are men who know what true love is after the material conditions are abundant, but do you have enough insight? Can you guarantee that you will not fall into the trap of the former type of man?

Alas, in fact, it is appropriate, how can a marriage partner be suitable once and for all, people's personalities are two-sided, the environment is also changing, the ability will also change, and people's hearts are easier to change. So don't choose a partner with this mindset.

I think I should first look at the person I chose, what can the other party give me during my marriage, for example, the other party has a silver rotten and good looks, at least my next generation will definitely be a good-looking child, high IQ genetics, at least the future of the child can be expected in advance, cultivate character, at least get along with each other will be a decent atmosphere, there is respect for thinking, etc., there is no family genetic disease, at least there is no need to face the expected problems, etc., in short, it depends on what the other party can bring back to themselves.

The first thing to choose is to choose someone who loves you.

In fact, suitability should be viewed from two points, the first is character, if the character can be a complementary, and in the process of getting along, you can also accept some of the other party's behavior, then the model is suitable for the personality, the second point is the concept of treating the problem, judging whether it is consistent, if the installment is very large, and can not be effectively changed, then the two people may not be suitable.

The two of them are not too scum and have no thorny Lu Mingji, usually they have been very dull, and they are still the same after a long time, and there is a harmonious life between husband and wife, and if it is not harmonious, don't be together as soon as possible

It's not easy to choose the right person, as long as you are 60% satisfied.

To be honest, there is no suitable person to marry together at all, and marriage is the grave.

This person must be someone who loves you. Someone who loves you wholeheartedly.

In addition, it is also necessary to pay attention to the consistency of the three views, so that the rotten or envious two people are not hungry and prone to conflicts.

For a married person. I want to say something to girls who are not married. It is said that when a girl gets married, she is reincarnated for the second time.

It doesn't matter if you didn't read the book well. The most important thing is to marry the right person. First of all, be clear in your heart.

The person you want to marry is a person. It's not his family, his family background. Nor is it his personal relationship.

This is the most important point. Marriage is the most important thing in a woman's life. If you marry right, you will be happy for the rest of your life.

Brother Pingqing doesn't have to worry about food and clothing on the day. The old man in the family is kind. His own children are very sensible and well-behaved.

It shows that you are very happy in your married life. Opposite. If you look away, marry a particularly hypocritical.

Particularly lazy, unenterprising people. Then your life will be particularly unsatisfactory. You will feel particularly aggrieved and aggrieved.

Life like this, the more desperate it becomes. There is no hope in this man. There is no future.

That's why girls are looking for boyfriends and looking for marriage partners. Be sure to pay attention. Looking for one.

Come with a kindness. Have a stable job. And one more.

I try to go to the heart on the sail stall. Sunny personality. It's not time to summarize.

And a boy who is particularly responsible. Be a husband. In this way, life will be comfortable.

Find such a husband and live a life. You will be happy and satisfied. It was especially meaningful.

In this way, you will have hope for your future life. This is a married man. Advice for women who are not married, girls.

I hope for those. Girls can find one. People who love themselves, love themselves, and understand themselves.

Happiness to old age.