How can we resolve our relationship?

Love, at times, can make people narrow-minded. Actually, you don't need to suffer from such gains and losses, make yourself confident and cheerful, don't let the things around you affect you, but try to keep your distance, you know? Sometimes, pain and conflict are not necessarily a bad thing, you have to understand that this is necessary on the road to growth.

Don't be afraid, people with courage and self-confidence will live happily.

There are many things that you can only understand when you experience them.

Sometimes you have to analyze whether it is worth doing something.

From your question, I know that he "broke up" with you under the "pressure" of other people, but he will still greet you in private. This makes me seem to think that he is trying to save face, on the one hand, he is embarrassed not to give them face under the opposition of many people; On the other hand, I feel that I still want to maintain the previous relationship with you.

I don't think it's better to be friends with this kind of person. Can you still be considered a human being if you abandon the people you care about for the sake of your own face?

In addition, girls who have a past are not necessarily not good things, so please respect them, thank you.

Look at what kind of person a person is.

It's better to look at the friends around him.

He has friends like that around you, do you think it's necessary to be friends with him?

Maybe you don't know him.

Therefore, you should also be cautious when making friends.

If you really have a crush on him.

Then you take the initiative to talk to him.

Don't care what people say.

Sometimes it's much easier for girls to get things done.

So it's better to take the initiative and tell him what you think.

He may still love you very much, that girl, you spend some money to find someone to do it, forget it

Only you are worthy of trust.

Summary. Finally, rely on your face to bring them together. Talk about it. Basically, it will be solved.

First of all, it is necessary to understand where the focus of the contradiction between the two people is.

One with average grades laughs at the other with poor grades, and the one with poor grades kicks the average with average grades.

What are the needs of each of the two people, the personality traits of the two people, and the way they used to interact.

Once you understand all this, you can have a purpose.

Listen to your description, there is a lot of ridicule here.

You can start by splitting up your work. Tell each of them how you understand it. Let them all find their responsibility for the incident.

Finally, rely on your face to bring them together. Talk about it. Basically, it will be solved.

Is there any other way around it.

You still have a chance. I suggest you communicate in the way I shared with you.

Whoever you think is more responsible in this matter, talk to first.

As for the contradictions in life, I believe we have all encountered them, but we should still deal with them reasonablyIn this way, the feelings between each other will not be affected in any way, and it is also conducive to promoting the feelings between two people, and I hope everyone can pay attention to it.

1. Learn to empathize. When we have conflicts with others, we need to learn to empathize and let ourselves think from the other person's point of view, so that we can put ourselves in the shoes of others and shorten the distance. Because the vast majority of people are selfish and like to think only about themselves, we need to look at things outside of our own thinking, so that we can better solve the contradictions between two people, rather than imposing our own ideas on others.

2. Have an inclusive mindset. For each of us, in fact, there will be times when we make mistakes, as long as we can tolerate the size of the matter, and can have a tolerant attitude to deal with it, then any contradiction can be resolved. Because in the past, my temper was not particularly good, but I was particularly able to tolerate it, as long as a thing did not touch my bottom line, then I would choose to forgive, so my popularity has always been very good.

In addition, when we solve conflicts, we also need to have a rational mentality, because not all people can deal with things rationally, but there needs to be a transition process, so rationality is also the key to solving problems. At the same time, after we have a contradiction, we should also solve the problem in a timely manner, instead of choosing the Cold War, otherwise after a long time, the misunderstanding between each other will expand and even reach the point of being out of control, and then it will be too late even if we want to redeem it.

Don't pretentious, don't flaunt, don't be a good teacher.