As a poor person, how do you learn to live gracefully?

During the three years of college, there was a period of time when I was relatively rich, but in normal times, because I didn't want to use my parents' money, my financial situation was still not good, in short, I was poor. Although I am really poor, everyone around me does not think that I am poor, and I myself feel that I live a very elegant life. And how, when his economy is not good, he lives his life elegantly.

I would like to share my experience with you. <>

Whether you have money or no money, if you want to live and study elegantly, the first point is to have self-confidence, take a very simple example, you don't have a penny on yourself, and even eating is so-so. In the second semester of my sophomore year, I was in this situation for about a week, and I lent all the money I had to my own Fa Xiao at that time. So as a result, there is not much money.

And it happened that at that time, a snack bar had just opened near the school, and several of their good friends had met to eat, and I had no money on me, so I definitely couldn't go, and I was embarrassed to borrow from them. So when they asked me to go, I refused like this, my girlfriend has been on fire recently, so I don't want to take her to the barbecue, and I'm going to cook two dishes for him in a few days. I think mine is very elegant, not the kind of pretending to be forced, and I said that I would take her to a big restaurant in a few days.

And he is also very confident, neither humble nor arrogant, although the essential reason is that there is no money, but it feels really different. <>

So how to live elegantly when you have no money, feel simple, and return to plainness is the key. When you don't have money, wouldn't it be better if a friend asks you to go to dinner and says you will do it yourself? I feel more meaningful than going out to eat, what if a friend asks you to travel at this time?

I'm like this, there are too many people in the scenic area, I want to take my girlfriend to a place where there are only two of us. In this way, it feels like to be really alive differently, and it is easier and more elegant than ordinary people. Because in this way, you avoid comparing yourself with others, this one and that.

But I believe that even if you have money, you don't necessarily have a better life than me. Let's take two people, for example. We really had the happiest time during that time!

At that time, some people always said that I was stingy with my girlfriend, mine was also very elegant and very confident, I didn't explain anything, I just said to them, my girlfriend is good! Therefore, to be a poor person elegantly is to live your own life, although you have no money, you must be confident, live a more meaningful life, make yourself happier, face the things and people around you, and face and accept it without being humble or arrogant, this is an elegant life.

Even if I am poor enough to eat steamed buns, I must have pickles, because this is a ritual to show respect for steamed buns. And even if I haven't bought new clothes for several years, my clothes will be washed and clean, and I will tidy up my clothes before going out every time, which is an attitude of respect for life.

I feel that the elegant life does not depend on the amount of money you have, but on your state of mind. It doesn't matter if you're rich, as long as you're able to be passionate about life. I clean myself every day, and my living environment is also very clean.

The first step of elegance has been made. This can also have a lot of tips to help you save money and live a very elegant life. Different classes of people have different ways of living elegantly.

But if you want to live an elegant life with a very low cost, this is also impossible. You can live an elegant life with a ** that you feel you can bear.

First of all, you have to clean everything around you, and only a clean life can be worthy of elegance. You can buy some more affordable small things on a treasure to decorate your room and table. If you have the money, you can buy those real flowers and put them in a room that looks fragrant and elegant.

If you don't have enough money, you can buy some fake flowers, but you have to buy the more realistic fake flowers and keep them at home. You can spray some perfume on these fake flowers and it will also make your room fragrant.

The second is to cultivate your character, you don't want to be a very impatient person, then you will never be able to be a very elegant person. I think the most important thing about an elegant person is his personality, not the life he lives, if you are the kind of person who is very calm and generous in life, you can reveal that elegance in every gesture, but if you are a very impatient person, no matter how you dress yourself, others will not think that you are an elegant person, but will feel that you are very different from the appearance of the image. Only when your heart becomes calm and calm, can others see your inner calmness.

This kind of calmness is elegant and can be recognized by the public.

To maintain a good attitude, to be content and happy, there is no lack of beauty in life, but a lack of eyes to find beauty, as long as you can maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and read more, enrich your mind through reading, and raise flowers, you will find that life is so delicate.

Learn more, enrich your connotation, find some internships, and increase your experience.

I think that whether we are poor or rich, as long as we have a passionate heart about life, then we can live a colorful life.

How can a poor person be chic, if a person wants to live a chic life, then he has no desires, no desires, and doesn't care about anything, which is what people now call the Buddha-nature life. To put it bluntly, the poor are dashing and have to live an extremely negative lifestyle.

Recently, I have been hearing people say that they want to live a poor life, and they want to live an ordinary life. Ordinary life? What is the definition? If it is said that it is to swipe the life of ordinary people with a card that can be swiped without limits, then it is indeed the most beautiful thing in life.

There are constant reports that the wages of college students are not as high as those of peasant workers; a few years ago, peasant workers were always treated as the first accomplices of thieves and as beasts of prey, and now peasant workers are regarded as the first accomplices of the nouveau riche. I really want to ask, migrant worker, what kind of law did he violate, should he be poor or rich, When I told others that my father was a migrant worker, I used to get comfort from other people's mouths and contempt in my heart. Now when my sister tells others that my father is a migrant worker, she gets sarcasm in her mouth and disdain in her heart.

And who did my father provoke, and who did the title of migrant worker provoke. What's wrong with my father, who earns money with his own hands and earns a higher salary than a pampered college student? Which nerve did my father step on that makes you so unforgivable?

When have you ever seen a poor man living in a chic manner? I haven't seen a poor man dashing!