What is it like to live as an emotionally intelligent and experienced person?

A person with high emotional intelligence does a good job in dealing with people, and everyone likes him more, for example, when he sometimes makes mistakes, he will take the initiative to apologize, and his attitude will be very good, everyone will forgive him, his temper is also very good, and the people around him will get along with him very easily, he will have many friends, as a person with high emotional intelligence, it is a good experience.

Everything is easy and calm, and everything is under control. Emotional intelligence and IQ are directly proportional, often calculated, people with high IQ, EQ is also relatively high, the performance of high EQ is to control emotions, like irritable and irritable people are often low EQ and do not know how to advance and retreat.

When you communicate with people around you, you have different feelings about talking to different people or doing things together. At all times, I like to always have a good friend with high emotional intelligence around me, who is not tired of talking, and who is very comfortable in communication, and even has a feeling of spring breeze. Even if two people quarrel, they will feel very enjoyable, because people with high emotional intelligence will know how to tolerate it.

You can mingle with the people around you, and the relationships around you are only handled in an orderly manner, and you can get along with people with different looks. Looking at the infinite scenery, but when I get home, I will feel like I am in a trance when I face myself in the mirror.

In fact, I think sometimes it is quite good to be a person with high emotional intelligence, because emotional intelligence is relatively high, and we will often do a better job in dealing with people, and we will not easily offend people, and often we will have a lot of friends, and many people are willing to be friends with us.

My emotional intelligence is relatively high, once in a company as a supervisor, I attach great importance to the care of my employees, but also very good to them, the company to my reward I buy some small gifts for them, usually often together party, to work when I always give them chicken blood, happy, happy, there is a sense of happiness, there are rich rewards to prompt them to work as if they are children, to make 200 efforts, which makes our company in the industry in front of a certain one, the boss will naturally remember me this person.

Emotional intelligence is not something that can be used for "deep conversation". It is neither knowledge nor truth, but an experience that is carved into life!

That is to say, the vast majority of our emotional intelligence is not because of how much talent we have, how many books we have read, how much education we have received, and how much imagination we have, but because we have all stumbled out of the house, seen the mountains and seas, witnessed the sunrise and sunset, been vulgar in the torrent of the world, baptized in the abyss of human nature, sympathized in the bumpy displacement, felt the coldness of the world and the ups and downs of emotions in the real life, and were truly happy and happy, painful and sad, excited and " I cheated."

All high emotional intelligence is an irresistible natural and comes from experience. Only when people have experienced some things, accumulated some pain, and confronted all kinds of people and all things in the world can they be worthy of real high emotional intelligence.

If there is no experience to support it, no matter how high the so-called emotional intelligence is, it is just sitting in a well and watching the sky, talking on paper and building in the air. Therefore, action is more important than knowledge, practice is more important than truth, and traveling thousands of miles is more important than reading thousands of books.