How reliable are you? What do you think is reliable ?

In my daily life, I judge whether one is reliable or not, and I look at one point, that is, my relationship with him. The best thing is that the other party is still a sincere person. Of course, this will be more one-sided, as far as my experience is concerned, there are no special interests in my life that need help from others, and some small things that worry me about are usually handed over to people who get along with me on a daily basis.

This is probably closest to the importance of willingness, because being relaxed and happy with each other means that it is easy to talk and discuss, and the other party can understand you better, so as to make reliable decisions from the will. Some people, you get along well but not naturally, and you are embarrassed to show your personality and show your heart, which will be a major obstacle in communication. When you encounter a private matter, you are generally embarrassed to tell this kind of person.

Therefore, people who get along with me in a better state, I can confide in my heart, expose private matters appropriately, and it is better to be a sincere person, whether I can handle "major" incidents well, another matter. However, as long as two people talk about things well, such people will basically do it well, and they don't have to worry too much.

The workplace is a place where interests tend to be stronger, and most people like to be close to capable people, which is reflected in authority, channels, cognition, experience, knowledge, etc. Once you have a need, this kind of person seems to be more reliable to do things for yourself. If the domineering president in the idol drama loves you with all his heart, and he is the kind that loves you very much in the direction of the plot, then he is much more reliable than the poor boy, and he can take care of your emotions and your life many times, because he has a lot of resources, as long as he really wants to, he can solve the problem faster and better.

This is the hardware condition.

In the end, it is still necessary to emphasize that it is reliable, and most of the time it is reflected in the help to you and the satisfaction of your wishes. As small as you ask him to remind you of your wake-up time, to whether the other party can help you when you encounter difficulties. When we look at the other person's feedback on us, it varies from person to person.

Reliable classmates, reliable friends, reliable relatives, reliable lovers, different people can do different boundaries for you. What your relatives can do for you cannot be used to measure whether your classmates are reliable, you must understand the scale.

At work, I will always meet unreliable people, and I always feel uneasy to be with them, and I will always consider whether this person will keep his promises, and I will always be ready for the other party to drop the chain, which is really tiring. In fact, for many people in the workplace who are persuaded to quit by the company, it is not just because they are mavericks, not because they desert at work, not because they can't be trained, but because they have no contract spirit. The spirit of contract is not only important in life, but also in work.

If you don't finish the work you promised with others, it's not only that you're delaying your own progress, but also that the overall progress of the whole team is seriously slowed down.

People who are decisive, have clear ideas, consider the whole situation, and focus on the overall situation are generally more reliable, while people who care about personal gains and losses and always have a small abacus should be evaluated carefully. I have a friend who called me late one night and asked me if I could pick him up at an airport early the next morning, and I said you tell me the flight number, and I will be there on time tomorrow. Put down**, I dialed the unit leader** again, saying that I had something to ask for a day off.

Willingness is a magical thing, and willingness can drive people to do many, many things, which is the motivation for a person's behavior. Some of these wishes are not easily expressed and need to be observed; Some can be obtained through communication. However, the truth and falsehood in this must be well distinguished.

Sometimes you have to look at your position in the other party's heart, and some people act, they must do what they say, and they must do what they do, once they promise someone else's things, even if the relationship is not to a certain extent, it is more reliable. This is the software condition.

People who are organized, summarize from time to time, and reflect immediately are generally more reliable. The things assigned by the leader, without finding reasons, without making requirements, without discounting, unconditionally completed and implemented, such people will be trusted. We all have to strive to be like that.

Action is the ultimate foothold, I used to have a female classmate, said to help me get a courier, I can't take it myself because I have something, the final result is not done. First of all, she is my best friend, and it is not difficult to get the express delivery. However, it was summer, and she came back from outside, saying that the weather was hot and she was a little tired, and she had to take a detour to take the express for an extra mile, so she didn't take it.

For someone like me, who has always been more actionable, he will definitely do it, and once he agrees, he will do it as soon as possible. I thought afterwards that if it was her own delivery, she might not have taken it, she would have postponed it, and some people acted differently. Generally, people with strong mobility will try their best to facilitate things.

Everything has an explanation, everything has a fall, and everything has an echo.

What is reliable, in layman's terms, is to do everything with an explanation, everything has a fall, everything has an echo. At a high level, this is called closed-loop thinking: after you hand over a matter to a person, you don't have to worry about the follow-up at all, because you know that he will definitely be able to implement it, and even if it is not done well, it can give you a feedback in time, which is called reliable.

How to make yourself reliable.

Reliable work, divided into 3 levels: done, done, to the extreme. The reliability of closed-loop thinking is the lowest level of Li defeat with reliable results. Completion is the minimum standard and minimum requirement for doing things.

Long-term insistence on getting things done, and long-term insistence on doing things well, are destined to have a different life.

Doing it is task thinking, and doing it well is goal thinking.

Doing it is a part-time job mentality, and doing a good job is a growth mentality.

After doing it, it is reliable for others, and doing it well is reliable for yourself.

How to do it to the extreme.

The next goal of doing a good job is to do the best, and the reason why you want to do it is because there are too many people who can do things well.

What is the extreme?

Extreme means non-optimisable.

Extreme is irreplaceable.

The ultimate is to create surprises.

Being able to continue to create surprises is the ultimate reliability, and it is a reliability that people can't refuse.

There are three layers of reliable work, finishing is the bottom line, doing a good job is in line with expectations, and achieving the ultimate is exceeding expectations, surprises, and the only way to become an irreplaceable person. Only those who do things to the extreme will have an open life.

On the evening of July 30th, the bridge was transferred.

Many times, we judge whether a person is worthy of working and trusting, and the most basic thing is to see whether he is reliable. In fact, the word "reliable" is simple to say, but complicated to fall; It sounds like a feeling, but it's a principle to do.

Don't delay. Regret The so-called "reliable" is nothing more than that you can rest assured that others will explain to you, and you will not easily delay the front sails. There are some people in life who always promise good things perfunctorily, and the agreed date is always delayed, and they will only shirk when something goes wrong.

There is a saying that goes like this: "Most of the legends in this world are just ordinary people who turn their hearts into actions. Judging whether a person is reliable is not to see whether he has the eloquence to talk rhetorically, but to see whether he can do things well conscientiously.

Reliable people will never be ambiguous about what they promise, even if it is a trivial detail, they will do it in a timely and serious manner.

Keep your word. Keeping one's word is the most basic moral code in a person's dealings with others. If you make an appointment with others, you should be punctual, and you must keep your promises when you make a promise, so that you can stand the test of time and make people feel reliable.

In this life, if you are not sincere, you will lose, and if you have no faith, you will invite trouble. People do not stand without trust, and the most important point in the interaction between people is to be trustworthy and keep promises. This is not only a sign of respect for others, but also a sign of one's own reliability.

Most of the truly reliable people have achieved punctuality, punctuality, and heart. After all, trustworthiness wins people's hearts. Only if you keep your mind, others dare to ask you to do things, and only then do you dare to entrust yourself to you.

Stable mentality. Some people say: "The mentality is particularly important, if the mentality is not good, the state of the whole person is not good."

A person with an unstable mentality will mess up when he encounters a little thing. And people with a good attitude will not be affected by the outside world, no matter what happens, they can face it with a smile.

A person's real reliability is that he is strong in his heart and stable in his mentality. Looking at difficulties, there is a state of mind that is not afraid of hardships and dangers; In the face of the wind, there is a calm and calm attitude. In this way, no matter where you are or what you encounter, you can deal with it calmly and face it positively.

I hope you and I can become reliable people, all the way to the sun, and live up to the time.

Everything has an explanation, everything has a fall, and everything has an echo.

There is a very famous "poisonous chicken soup" in the workplace: "Everything has an explanation, everything has a fall, and everything has an echo".

This sentence is about the "closed-loop signal disturbance thinking" at work, if you take over a thing, no matter how far you end up, you must have an explanation. If it is done, there will be an explanation, and if it is not done, there must be an explanation. It may not sound like a difficult task, but most people can't do it.

Some people are not willing to do it.

Some friends understand this sentence from the perspective of being a person, but this level is a bit too slippery. This kind of reactive approach to life seems to make it easy to make yourself an obedient machine, so as to come to the conclusion that "if you do this, you are an honest person, you have no sense of existence, and the boss will not see it", or "what is this, there is no core competitiveness at all, and it is emotional intelligence that can be played in the workplace". Therefore, many people disdain this sentence when they see it, "It's all used by the boss to fool people, believe you are a big-headed ghost."

Some friends understand this sentence from the perspective of ability, but this level is a little biased. How many people will feel that serious work is for the good of others, and "agreeing to other people's things is like owing someone else's debt". The hard work is done, and sometimes there is no reward; If it doesn't work, and some people feel that they are incompetent, or they want to continue doing it, they must give the other party a big surprise.

This is all arbitrary.

Reliability has nothing to do with ability, and it does not mean that everything can be done, but that you can do things comprehensively within the scope of your ability. At this time, it should be understood that "everything has an explanation, everything has a fall, and everything has an echo", this bowl of poisonous chicken soup still has a lot of nutrients.

Whether it is reliable or not is not necessarily, that is, it varies from person to person.

Now the development of the Internet has provided more opportunities for everyone to make friends with others, through games, through Weibo, through forums, through stickers? Our encounter with a certain person is no longer limited to the real world, there are many people we meet through the Internet, and there are also lovers who have finally become married through the Internet.

Of course, the problems existing in online dating are also clear at a glance, because the security of online dating is really poor, and you don't know if the other party is lying to you, so I often advise the women around me not to meet netizens easily, even if you think you know him, and finally bring friends, because this is the safest.

But it is worth mentioning that in the end, we can come together, and it is not hasty. Few couples who determine their relationship just by looking at ** are not dead by seeing the light.

Extended Materials. Sometimes online dating is also full of the flavor of the full heart, such as people who cheat money and are biased. In the process of online dating, they will be very gentle and virtuous at the beginning, hail or generous and manly.

With the trust of the other party, they will rely on their usual tricks to do things that are indignant to everyone.

The degree of understanding each other should enhance the degree of mutual relationship, and it is not necessary that only a single contact method will make the relationship more reliable. Online dating should also make an appointment to meet at a time, and the age difference should not be too big.

We often say one word, "reliable".

I want to be reliable, and I want the people I want to work with are also reliable.

However, what is "reliable" in Wuda?

Competent? People are nice? Will something happen? High emotional intelligence? High degree of cooperation? These are all important. But it's not reliable.

The real reliability is stability. It's reassuring. In other words, it is reliable in mathematics, which is the standard deviation. In life and work, it is in line with other people's expectations.

A reliable person is not necessarily the most capable and the best, but it must be the most reassuring.

Are the people around you reliable? Are you a reliable person yourself?

Reliable. Chengdu Geely College is a brand new school that has been relocated from the background Geely College as a whole.

1. Dormitory: The hardware facilities of the dormitory are very good, with elevators, quadruple rooms, independent bathrooms, bathroom separation, air conditioning and washing machines, fingerprints, passwords, and card unlocking.

2. Teachers: The teachers are highly educated, basically all of them are graduate students, they are kind, patient, serious and responsible for students.

3. Canteen: At present, there is only one canteen, with three floors, and the first floor has fried chicken, oden, finger cakes, small bowls of vegetables, pancakes and fruits, spicy hot, etc.; On the second floor, there are omelet rice, teppanyaki, bowl chicken, spicy hot, grilled fish burger, etc.; On the third floor, there are soups, buffets, hot pots, etc. The charge is quite normal, it costs about 20 a day normally, and the breakfast is relatively complete, which can meet the basic needs of most students.

4. Other consumption in school: Nashen fruit store is more expensive than outside, which is a common phenomenon in many schools; The taste of the school milk tea shop is also OK, and you can also order the Honey Snow Ice City, Tea Baidao, etc. outside the school; There are students' own takeaway platforms, and they can order takeaway outside of school.

5. Transportation: The traffic is relatively remote, and there are round-trip school buses.

6. Others: Many students may have doubts because of the high cost. Chengdu Geely University is a state-certified undergraduate school, Lutan, which is worth applying.