How to refuse the pursuit of a quiet and reserved boy without embarrassing the other person?

If you don't like a direct rejection, don't let the other person have any thoughts. Not at all, otherwise it will only hurt the other party.

If you don't know how to say no, something like this will happen in the future. Although it is said that you should take care of people's feelings, but your parents have not asked your opinion, in other words, if you refuse directly, you will refuse, and they will not change anything because of your relationship, otherwise it will not be considered a world friend.

Be clear about your attitude, tell him directly the reason why you reject him, and if you encounter a shameless or stalker, you should be in order of your life. I have to be brave and bold, and warn him very seriously, if he doesn't listen to persuasion, I will call the police, and let him bear the consequences. The most important thing is that you must be bold and courageous, and you must have a righteous spirit and mentality.

If you really, intend to say no to a guy, say "no" outright. And very seriously show your attitude, show your opinion of him, show your rejection, deal with it decisively, and leave no room for it.

When I was in school, there was a boy who pursued me, but I only thought about the student, and I didn't mean anything else, I had hinted to him many times, but he was still stalking like that, and there was no way I could only refuse directly, so I felt that the rejection was clean and clean, without delay. Only when your attitude is clear, the other party will give up. If you're vague, it's just a thought.

There is no right or wrong in feelings, but if you like it, you will pursue it, and if you don't like it, you will reject it, which is normal human feelings. Don't have any psychological burden.

Experience has taught you that it's impossible not to hurt people. I didn't directly refuse at the time, but only hinted that it was impossible for him and that he would have a better choice, but he still didn't give up and continued to pursue. I had no choice but to be very cold, and then I didn't reply, and then I was blocked.

I also felt bad about it, but my male friends said it was better to be straight with the guys, or they would always think it was possible.

Be direct, don't drag the mud and water, but don't belittle others or count the shortcomings of others, just explain it, don't think about it.

If you don't want to hurt him, or if you want to keep him as a spare tire, you can tell him about some of his shortcomings that you can't accept, or let him achieve what goals you want to achieve before considering your relationship, if he really wants to be with you, I think he will try to do something. But don't be sarcastic and sarcastic, this shows that you are not educated, and maybe you will be retaliated, and men's revenge psychology is very terrible.

There are thousands of reasons to refuse, and there is only one reason to be together. You can just tell him it's not your thing. If you encounter that kind of stalking, you can deal with it coldly, if it seriously affects your normal life, you can seek help from your parents, and if it is of a bad nature, you can directly call the police.

If you refuse, it's better to be serious, make an appointment to find a quiet place, sit down and make it clear. Don't send a text message and you're done, that's not very respectful, let alone old acquaintances.

1. Don't reject a boy through a friend's message, it's better to say it in person if you refuse. If you don't dare to call, you can try the square shirt style of texting or writing letters. &5532;2. After a tactful refusal, the guy may ask you why.