What s the most devastating communication you ve ever experienced?

Divorced family, my mother remarried, I call him uncle. When he went to the mall to eat, he said: Young people nowadays, they really enjoy it.

There were so many things back then. Eating at home, I complained about the unfairness of the unit, and my mother turned to me. He said:

You just can't endure hardship, I just didn't do it yourself when I first went to work, serving tea and pouring water. I said, "Unfairness and suffering are two different things.

He just sneered on the side. When I went out to eat Haidilao, I ordered a shrimp slip, and he said there: The shrimp slides are all made by other people's leftover shrimp, and I don't eat them anyway.

Love to eat or not.

The feeling of not being able to communicate with your parents is powerlessness and pain. said that he was powerless, but after trying to communicate again and again, he finally mustered up the courage to express his feelings, and his parents seemed to understand, but the next day he returned to the original point. Behind the seemingly changed in front of everyone, a habitual sentence inadvertently poked the previous scars, and everything seemed to be in vain.

When it comes to pain, it is a cycle that repeats itself again and again. In the end, I disarmed and did not argue, and the fire on the other side was still unabated. Every sentence is in the ear, and every sentence is in the heart.

Last night, I had my eighteenth birthday, and I chatted with my parents after dinner, because I hadn't mentioned the birthday gift before, so I asked my mother if she could buy me a birthday gift, my mother has always been an impatient attitude, and finally simply said, "If I buy you a gift, I shouldn't give you a red envelope today, do you know how much money I spent this year?" "I suddenly became in a very bad mood, in fact, the birthday gift I mentioned is not an expensive thing, two clothes, a total of 600+, in fact, it is not something that must be bought.

Because of the problem of inviting people to dinner, because of a notebook, I asked why I didn't use the other one, I thought the other one was a little better, she kept saying that she wanted this, I asked why, and I was yelled at a big sentence, saying where did so many why, and then I was said, reading is stupid, I have to ask why, reading the dog's belly, although I know she has paid a lot for us. But I still can't accept that she feels that she has given everything, so once we don't like her, she thinks we are white-eyed wolves, very tired, communicating, I really don't know how to communicate.

I'm too lazy to despair, maybe there was too much despair now, but now I'm a little calm, I don't bother to communicate if I don't communicate well, I will yell at her when I don't talk about speculation, and she will use crying to accuse me, saying that I am cold, selfish, and have no conscience, I nodded, I am indeed cold and selfish, sorry, inherited from you, by the way, I despise you.

Every time I communicate with them, every conversation turns into a quarrel, they do everything right, if they ignore it, they take out the past and basin and put it on your head, or say which thing hurts you.

When I was in high school, I always giggled when I chatted with my first love, and I was soon discovered by my parents. Now that I'm in college, as long as I smile at my phone when I go home, my parents will come over, and after I lock the screen, my parents will talk about it, are you still afraid of people? Although the parents have no malicious intent, this feeling of being "nosy" out of nothing is too embarrassing.

Engaged in the service industry, I met many people who didn't understand anything, asked a lot of things, and patiently explained and answered one by one, you thought he understood, and then went to do things and didn't do it, and in turn you didn't solve the problem for him, I want to say that these people won't think about their own mistakes, they will only rely on others, and feel very helpless.

I live in a fourth-tier city because the level of civilization in this city is not very high. In this city, there are some people who are not so easy to communicate with, even if they are teachers at the university. Once, when I was doing finance, the teacher couldn't understand what I was saying.

Once, we went to do a social practice and wanted to help someone's house and clean their house again, but they seemed to be very afraid of meeting bad people, so they kept rejecting us, and I really felt very sad. The most important reason is that we don't understand the language with them, so it is very difficult to communicate, which really makes our heads hurt.

Naturally, it's Tony, the barber.

Me: Master, please cut my hair a little shorter, just a little bit.

Barber: Okay.

Then I began to take a nap, close my eyes and wait for the results, looking forward to the super beautiful me in the mirror.

As a result, when I woke up, my waist-length hair became ear-length short, which may be the "shorter" in the barber's mind.

There was a boy in my class who had a strange temper and was very difficult to communicate, and once we were in a group to participate in some activities, during which I talked to him and he ignored me, I thought he was very disrespectful and difficult to communicate effectively with him.

There is a colleague in my unit, who is a person who is very difficult to communicate, and reasoning with him is simply playing the piano to the cow, which is obviously very simple, but he just can't understand it, or he pretends not to understand it. I feel that every time I communicate with him, I will go crazy, and I really can't stand this kind of person.

When I went to the countryside three times during the summer vacation, we went to a relatively remote village, because I was in the research team, so I needed to go out to communicate with the people in the village, although I usually listen to the vernacular, but the dialect they speak is too difficult to understand, I can hardly make this progress, I can only ask my companions for help.

I really met the most difficult person to communicate, that was my former colleague in the unit, is a forty-year-old eldest sister, believes in Buddhism and is unmarried, I always feel that she is too rigid and conservative, many things to communicate with her are very difficult, it feels like it doesn't make sense, I can't understand. For example, sometimes I discussed with the little sister of the unit how to regulate and care for women's physiology, she would frown and walk away after hearing it, as if we had said something immoral, I communicated with her and said, this is the normal physiology of people, the junior high school teacher has also taught, what is difficult to say, this is physiological science, she shook her head and walked away, as if we are unbearable and indecent, it is really difficult to communicate with her!

My roommate, a girl she particularly hates, thinks she has a character, sometimes "with character" and "uneducated" is actually just a thin line.

I like Peng Yuyan, but she said a lot of bad things about Peng Yuyan, and said that his character was not good, as if the two of them knew each other.

Every time I refute, she always has ten words waiting for me, and I can't talk about her stupidly, so I can only consider myself unlucky.