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This must be angry, it must be conflicting, is it how parents treat their children? Some of them are years old, and the children don't understand how to make trouble, and it is his responsibility to not support the other party, his responsibility.

If children think that their parents are not good to them, it is a moral conflict to treat them in the same way in their old age.

If you beat and scolded you when you were a child, it was called good for you, and hatred was not made of steel, and when you were old, you treated your parents like this, it was called unfilial piety.

If you feel that your parents are not good to you and have resentment, you can go to the Internet to see the ** and introduction of the mother's childbirth process, which is almost a life-for-life process. There are no parents who don't love their children, but some parents may not be able to express their love and let their children not feel it. Repay grievances with virtue, the grace of birth and nurturing, there is nothing to repay, love your parents well, and don't leave regrets for yourself.

The poor growth environment of their parents has caused them to be stupid, ignorant and vicious. We live in an era of peace and prosperity with many opportunities. We can be nice people. When our parents reach their old age, we can treat them well.

The pain they have brought us is hard to forgive, but at least it doesn't have to hurt them. Our benign changes will also be loved by our partners, children, and friends.

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I am now a child's child, but also a child's mother, I think if as a child we can actually give to parents is really little, more often we are asking for parents, and what we can do is only to make our lives better, let parents more feasting and rest assured, and do our best to be able to provide parents with a better old age, and do our best to accompany our parents.

In fact, I also found out that it is really difficult to be a parent after I have a child, the child's words and deeds, eating, drinking, Lazar, parents are responsible, and the child's parents are particularly concerned about what they do, it is really raising children to know the parents' kindness, we owe too much to our parents since childhood, and Yinchang wants to repay it can really only be one ten-thousandth.

Now my parents are getting older and older, saying how to repay in material is only to do their best, and if they have time, they must accompany their parents more, after all, their time is getting less and less, we can accompany them less and less, when they are still very good and energetic, buy more delicious food for them early, take them out to play more, go shopping, and their company is actually the best reward.

Anyway, I now have time to go to see my parents, even when I don't have time, I will also play two days to communicate, because my children are still very young, grandma grandpa must be very fond of little granddaughters, I will often take the children back, so that the old people will be happier, anyway, I think the best way for parents to be older is to accompany them more, so that they can rest assured, and we also have to protect their own happiness Parents will be happier.

A few days ago, I heard my roommates discussing the different parenting styles of my parents, and I realized how democratic my parents were, but at the same time, I was very happy and satisfied.

First of all, when it comes to cooking, my mother never asks me to make this meal for you, or you have to cook it before I come back. But I know very well that when I grow up, I will still take the initiative to cook when my parents need it. So, maybe it's some kind of tacit understanding between parents and children, they don't force me to do something, and I know when to do it.

Secondly, in terms of using money, my parents never gave me living expenses month by month, but just said that they would give it when I thought I ran out, and I myself knew when to use money and when to save. Dad Hood Min Dad has always told me that there is no need to buy some bad quality things in order to save money, so in a sense it is a waste, only what you really like can be cherished. It takes a long time to buy a *** thing, and it is often changed with buying a relatively cheap thing, and I would rather choose the former.

In the end, my parents and I have always been in contact and respect. Frankly speaking, I'm not a very family-loving person, I don't talk to my parents every day, unlike my roommates who call ** every day or a week, I may only call ** my family for a month. Because everyone has their own things to do, whether they are adults or children, they have their own lives.

Also, I think emotions are contagious, I don't want my parents' negative emotions to affect me, and I don't let the trivial things in my life bother my parents. When I grow up, I can solve the things that can be solved by myself, and the suffering that should be suffered is also something that my parents can replace without defeat.

Finally, Mom and Dad are never against meeting with friends or going on a trip. When I get together with friends, they don't urge myself, it is because of this that I become very conscious, I don't stay at my friend's house at night, and I don't go home after ten o'clock, although my parents don't stipulate what time I come back, but I still have a degree in my heart. I also love to travel, and my parents know that I am bored and fun-loving, so they will agree to go out with my friends as long as it is safe to do so.

This is also the aspect where I think parents are more democratic.

I think the respect between parents and children must be mutual, and only when the values are the same can we communicate better, which is the most important lesson that parents have taught me.

In principle, grievances and grievances between parents should be resolved and digested by themselves. Children can only play a soothing and lubricating role.

When the children are older, they can't take action to make things difficult and accountable, because after all, they are husband and wife, and quarrels and fights are also their way of communicating. The purpose is not to distinguish who is right and who is wrong, but to resolve their contradictions. Well, I hope you use your wisdom and talents to succeed.

Doing so hard is also a way to honor the elderly.

After reading your supplementary explanation, I think that no one owes anyone between your parents, it is caused by a lack of communication and accumulation. Imagine, when I was young, I came here, and when I am old, I should give an explanation to my children!

First of all, you have to ask your mother if she is willing to forgive your father, if so, you can persuade your father to take the initiative to apologize to your mother first, and then let them talk alone, after all, it is an old thing, they will see it after they talk, the most important thing is how you create this opportunity for them.

It should be possible, at least let your father know that you owe your mother too much.