Should such a woman and man pay like this forever?

Love never needs to care about who pays more and who pays less, if you start to care about who you pay more but get little in return, then it means that your feelings for her have begun to waver. But you also have to think from the other side, although you get very little in return, but you at least still have her, some people pay a lot, but they can only hide in the corner and watch her silently.

Don't you think it's balanced? It depends on how much you love her. If you love her deep in your bones, then you can't do too much for her.

It's just that since you have asked, whether you should pay or not, it means that you love her not so deeply. Worthiness and unworthiness are just a personal matter. No one says anything different.

It's up to you.

Asking questions like this proves that you don't love her anymore.

You need to have a good talk with her and flank her aggressiveness!

Disperse, you don't love her so much anymore, or you haven't loved her much, you can't tolerate her, even if she does well elsewhere, you will still find fault, you should know whether to find you to live, or find someone you love, there is no fish and bear's paws.

If you love her, you can try to communicate with her well, ask her if she wants to go on like this, after patient communication, or there is no change in her words, then there is no need to continue, you must be in love for the purpose of marriage, if it goes on, what will you do in the future, the family is run by two people, otherwise you will not be able to stand her sooner or later.

It's unbalanced.

Silly, who told you to spoil her too much at first.

It gives me the feeling that you are not looking for a wife. You're looking for the Queen Mother.

Women are often blind in love. They give blindly, love blindly, blindly appreciate what they do for love, and even get used to being touched by themselves. Women crave the favor of a man in love.

They always think that love is also a point of hard work and gain. If I love you a little more, you will repay me a little more.

I don't know that a truly long-lasting relationship must be based on reciprocity. Including giving the same also requires a considerable balance, and true love is not blindly giving. Psychology believes that women give desperately to men because they don't know what love is.

Love is actually an equal exchange. Feelings without feedback are doomed to be futile.

Men from Mars, Women from Venus" writes that women often give too much, do not get equal returns, feel neglected, so establish their own limits. If there is no unconditional love in the world, there is no unconditional love, and do not expect unconditional love. Love is not giving, not receiving, but the most comfortable feeling.

The most comfortable state of love is "ceremonial exchange".

That is, our giving can be happy because of the feedback of others. This kind of love is more meaningful. The love that parents give to their children will become happy because of the growth of their children, and the same is true for their lovers, because their dedication can get feedback from the other party, so they will be happy.

Many women are often accustomed to desperate love. They think that the great love is enough to love each other. But women have to make it clear that feelings are a double game, desperate love and devotion.

The reason why women like to give desperately to men, they don't understand what emotional love is, too self-oriented, too good at self-moving, hiding feelings, if a certain relationship can't make you happy, you have to understand that the other person is not necessarily the right person. In addition, women who like to give don't understand men's thoughts and hearts, and habitually look at things from a woman's point of view, but they must not think "I think" about feelings.

No amount of skill is more important than your own attractiveness. The most important thing for a woman is to know self-development. Only the constant perfection of oneself can create a constant sense of freshness.

Knowing how to invest in oneself is the most important skill for a wise woman to maintain her feelings, expand the scope of herself, create her own space and career, and let an excellent woman be the true love of a man. This kind of love is based on respect. Therefore, before a woman gives desperately, she must know what the true meaning of love is and what kind of love is needed.

Because most women are relatively irrational, when they like someone, they will care about each other very much, and if they want to give each other the best, they will only blindly give everything they have to please each other.

Mainly because women are particularly sensual, once they fall in love with someone, they will plunge into it and are willing to give everything for each other, so usually such women are more likely to suffer.

Many women like to pay desperately to men, because they want to please men, and they really like this man, so they are willing to pay like this, otherwise no one is stupid.

Because these women are more in love, she feels that if she likes each other, she has to pay for each other, and this kind of woman will not end well in the end.

I don't think it makes a difference between men and women, because when you meet someone you like, you are willing to give and want to give each other all the good things in the world.

Many women like to give desperately to a man, it may be that she loves this man too much, wants to give him everything she has, and is willing to give everything she has.

In fact, the main reason is that women are very emotional about feelings, and once they fall in love with each other, they will really give without reservation, so women are really stupid.

Because these women think that as long as they are sincere in their efforts, they can also get the other party's sincere efforts, but the reality is not like this.

This is because women like men very much, and they don't care about giving in return, which is what it looks like to like a person.

Because once a woman identifies a person, she will always be good to him, and always want to live with each other for the rest of her life.

Because they like this man, they give desperately to catch this man.

Many sisters hope that their beloved man can always love themselves, be good to themselves, or always pay for themselves, but often the results are completely different after a long time, and the result is that they keep paying more and more to love men, and men don't take him seriously anymore. So how can you get men to continue to pay for you?

First, replace being good to him with being good to yourself, making yourself more and more valuable, people like good things, if you blindly treat him, then in exchange for you becoming less and less important in his eyes. Only when you are well, he will have a sense of crisis, he will feel that you are important, and he will want to pay for you.

Second, replace the sticky he wants to be with him for a sharp smile and a sense of distance, because distance produces beauty, if you want to stick to him every day, then after a long time, he will feel bored, think about it, if you eat cabbage every day, will you feel strange?

Third, instead of making him treat you well, it is better to be cold to him, because a man is actually very smart, and you only do it because you care about him, and he knows it very well in his heart, so when you do it, he knows that you can't do without him. So if you feel insecure, or when he doesn't care about you at first, don't make trouble, don't sell him coldly, let him doubt himself, and he will love you more.

The mouth must be very sweet, but the heart must be hard, and if it touches your principles, there must be your bottom line.

Summary. In my personal opinion, it is not that a man will love you more the more he gives for you, because giving cannot be used to measure love, and some men may give more, but he may be out of guilt rather than love.

A woman who can make a man pay is not liked.

In my personal opinion, it is not that a man will love you more the more he gives for you, because giving cannot be used to measure love, and some men may give more, but he may be out of guilt rather than love.

1. Giving is not used to measure loveSome girls will think that a man's dedication to himself is equal to love, so they will think that to know whether a man loves himself or not, he only needs to see how much he can pay for himself. But you have to understand that everyone's situation is different, some people may have a good life, but some people may have a poor life, in this case, the pay they can give is essentially different, after all, the cost they need to spend when they pay is not equivalent, if they use the same standard to measure their love for their lover, it is very unfair to them, and there is no way to be prepared to tell how much a man loves himself. So in my opinion, giving is not a measure of love, nor can it be used to measure love.

Second, the payment may be out of guilt If a man has done something sorry for his lover, when he is still deeply in love with his lover, he will try his best to compensate her, such as buying her bags and clothes, taking her on a trip, accompanying her to do what she wants, etc., but this kind of giving is largely out of the man's guilt for his lover, not love. In other words, a man gives this way just to be able to make himself feel at ease, not out of sincerity, and once a man no longer feels guilty, then he is likely not to continue to give unconditionally as before, and may even become cold. Therefore, if a girl uses a man's contribution to measure whether a man loves herself, it is very likely that she will get a wrong answer and let the girl fall into a more passive situation, so it cannot be said that the more a man gives to himself, the more he loves himself.

To sum up, I think that the more a man gives, it does not mean that he loves himself more, because giving is not a measure of love, and sometimes a man's giving may be out of guilt.

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