Last week, my family knew that I had a boyfriend, and I didn t agree, and I reacted very much, so I

Feel it for yourself! Some first loves are just good memories to keep later.

Either way, your parents want you to be well.

If you really like it, or that the guy is really reliable.

After a long time, your family will naturally agree, after all, you will be with him for the rest of your life.

It's still too early to get married, so let time tell.

Parents say these are also for your own good, you have to ask your heart whether it is worth it, marriage is a big deal after all, think about it more clearly, if you think it is worth it, then stick to your own ideas and do not waver.

Women have always been married. You have to be with her, your family is fine, but you have to think about what to do in case of a breakup in the future.

There's no need to talk about pregnancy for the time being, you say that they will be more disgusted with your boyfriend.

First of all, I can't tell my family about it, my wife has done it before, but she has never told anyone. said it, but it made the family more opposed: 1Your boyfriend is not good; 2.You're not good. So be careful.

Then if you are able, it is better to be closer to his home or to your home, and at the same time have convenient transportation (train station, bus station) in the city to find a good job, so that you and your family can be taken care of a little.

Life is not easy, you still have to rely on yourselves!

Then a foreign woman can't live if she marries into China, right?

Me and my girlfriend, just like your boyfriend and you, this thing can only be fought for, and as a man, you must work hard, let your family know that it is worth it for you to do this, I just see it casually, but I don't need your reward, you can ask people around you who are a little older than you but not too much older, you can listen to their advice, it should be more suitable for your situation.

But you're really far away, and I've now found a job that is far from her, but a lot closer. Think for yourself.

I believe that your parents love you very much, everything they do is for your good, I suggest you have firm beliefs, I think if your feelings are deep enough, no matter how your parents oppose you, in the end they will be moved by your sincerity, there are such examples around me, in the end their parents still choose to agree to their marriage, you must know that your parents are afraid that you will marry out in the future, and be wronged, you must understand your parents' hard work, Even if you may not understand some of their practices now, you must not make them sad, and you must make yourself happy! Finally, I wish you all to come together as soon as possible, and I hope it can help you!

I think your family mainly doesn't want you to suffer after marriage, and you will regret it in the future, which you need to understand, but since you insist on being with your boyfriend, then you can reach an agreement with your boyfriend, that is, the two of you will make some achievements in the future for a period of time, so that your family feels that this young man can be entrusted to you for life.

As for what his family members say, it is not appropriate, because your family may think that he himself does not even have the courage to come to the door to say how to do big things, so this point needs to be cautious, and it is not good for him to come by himself, after all, your family's attitude is more resolute now, and it is best to say it after making achievements, after all, "I promise you a future" and "give you a future" are not the same.

Of course, if you insist on sharing the ups and downs with your boyfriend, you can secretly tell your family after you are with him, but then your family may be very sad and need to be carefully considered, and it will lead to a break between you and your family, so be careful. You may understand that you have watched the movie "2046", Faye Wong's situation in it is quite similar to yours.

Finally, there is the reason why your family is against it, if it is because of the sheer poverty of the family, I think it is quite inhumane to you as an idealistic young man (if your boyfriend has no purpose in life, that's a different matter). I can't say anything about that. Because there is no right or wrong in some things, only positions.

Well, I hope you can find happiness

Refuse to elope. After taking it back to your parents, express your inner thoughts clearly! Pay attention to the tone not to be excited, after that, you are going to the man's house, see what his parents think, if they don't get along, break up, if the man's parents agree, then let the man's parents find a matchmaker to go to your house to talk to the matchmaker.

I'm in the same situation as you, hehe

You can choose to put this problem aside, and after a while, your family will urge you to get married quickly and introduce you to a partner If you still feel that you only want to be with him at that time, then your family's opposition will be smaller. Of course, there is also the possibility that by the time you feel that you are no longer suitable, then there are still many options.

My wife and I are not in harmony, but in the end we are still married, quarreling is a way to deepen the relationship, you have to start from the parents are most worried about the points, from the perspective of parents, do more work, I believe that your father loves you very much, he will not absolutely oppose to the end, I wish you both to receive the red book as soon as possible.

There must be something wrong with a couple who don't quarrel for a year, it's not a fairy tale now, do you think he can give you happiness! I don't want the two of you to end up for financial reasons.

Do you love him? And does he really love you?

If the answer is yes, then you shouldn't be asking that kind of question!

Now it's not a question of what you should do, it's a question of what he should do, to be honest, parents can't resist their children at any time, as long as he wants to be with you, no one can stop him, as long as you have a good relationship, just keep it, after a long time, after a deeper understanding with his parents, they will not object.

I also had the same problem as you, my boyfriend was also very difficult, and now he is also cold to me, he is very sad, and he is not happy.

Now I just want to say to you that if you really like it, you can overcome a lot of things, you have to face it together, not to run away, your parents don't agree and have their position, talk to them well, find out where the problem is, in order to solve the problem, the two of you must face it well. I believe that you can overcome the difficulties, and I wish you happiness.

This is so normal.

Very few are satisfied

Actually, you just have to be good for yourself.

Parents' ideological work can be done slowly.

Actually, it's your boyfriend who lives with you!

And not his family!

As long as your boyfriend is willing to join you!

Show your love in front of his family, it's good that you are a good wife!

Like me, it depends on the two of you individual thoughts, and your parents' opinions are just for reference.

Now, half a year later, my boyfriend's parents are relieved and say it's up to him.

However, one person is right to find out the reasons for the opposition and solve the problem.

If your boyfriend really loves you, he should do the work of their parents.

As a Liaoyuan person, I bless you, you try to do things better, Liaoyuan's parents are not easy to get along, family conflicts are easy to arise, if you are also from the Northeast, it's okay.

It is necessary to refer to the words of parents because they are people who are dedicated to your good.

If you think you're sure, prove it.

Personally, I don't think it's appropriate.

First, is he really quick to manage the situation of your family?

Second, if it is so far away, is your boyfriend rich? I don't think he'll ever slam the door upside down.

Third, if he is very rich, he must not really want to care about you and your family, but there are no absolutes, what do people say.

It's all just speculation, and you have to control your life yourself.

With faith, there is hope! Do you have faith?

It depends on how your boyfriend does his parents' work.

It mainly depends on your boyfriend's attitude.

If your boyfriend has always been more submissive to the family.

You break up early.

Obedient, the girl ,,, grow up, and she shouldn't believe in the fairy tale of love anymore. Love is indeed great, but are you sure that it is true love? Answer?

Even if, in the face of reality, how far can he go. Is the so-called love in his mouth really that great? There is more than a slight difference between rural and urban areas.

When you really live together, from the economy, ideas, concepts, habits, customs, ,,, all the differences, can you reconcile well? It's easy to be together, it's not easy to live together. Feelings??

I can make a girl who has known me for only three days fall in love with me. Dead set on me. She also thinks that we are love.

But is that true,,, you just can't leave it, not without. The earth will continue to rotate without anyone, don't embarrass your parents, they are what you can't live without. Be a friend,,, you're not that great, you can't hold all your feelings.

Let go of this paragraph, and you can start another one for the better.

To add, if he urges you, it means that he is in a hurry, and he wants you to be sure that he is not at a loss. If you are in a hurry, you take a wrong step, and you will regret it for the rest of your life. My uncle was too anxious, so he went to the physical examination with his daughter-in-law, but he went to get the certificate before the results were out.

Later, it was found that the other party had hepatitis B and there was no cure. And contagion, you say how to live in the future. He doesn't give you a clear consideration of the major events in life, and he wants to urge you...

Think for yourself.

Then it's up to you to convince, hehe.

As a person who has come to advise you, life is realistic, it is better to listen to your parents' opinions.

If you really love him, you should share the weal and sorrow

Communicate well and you will understand.

I'm having the same problem as you, my boyfriend and I met in college. Because of my parents' opposition, my parents suggested that I go find a little driver or something, but I never had the courage to stand with him.

In fact, among parents and boyfriends, we need to judge who has a higher status. I am the parent of choice.

If your boyfriend can give you the happiness you want, then stick to it, after all, it's not easy to fall in love with someone. But if you don't see any hope, think about it.

Let your boyfriend behave well in front of your family! Especially when your family needs help, his outstanding performance will surely win the recognition of your family.

The family is afraid that you will have a bad life, in fact, as long as you are happy, which parent will disagree? It's your boyfriend who has lived with you for the rest of your life, so you have to stick to it...

Ask why you don't agree, and then ask your boyfriend to visit you in person.

Why don't you agree It's because his personal or family conditions are not good Personally, it seems that it's okay, or you don't have to work so hard Now that the family has one child, the economic conditions will not be so bad I want you to believe in yourself Time is the best run-in I wish you to fulfill your wishes.

Tell them to find it themselves, all right.

If you insist, your parents can't help it.

Not everyone's relationship is so smooth, and the relationship that can stand the test will be happy.

The point is, how is that man?

Show your sincerity to treat them, if they really can't accept it, it depends on what your heart insists on.

If you really don't want to separate, then stick to the end, no matter who opposes it, you must live happily and prove your choice right with your actions.

If there are disagreements, hesitations, or quarrels between you, maybe don't do it, but don't treat yourself badly and let yourself start over.

Use your heart to let his family recognize you! Their family's traditional thinking is normal. But in the hearts of parents in the world, only their children are happy, and the rest is not important, is it? Got it.

It's not much worse than being 3 years older, and don't people say that female juniors hold gold bricks? Lovers will eventually become married, as long as both of you insist.

Take care of him, and also care for his family. Be cheerful and let his parents know that you are a good daughter-in-law. The elderly love their diligent daughters-in-law, and if they can't communicate, they use actions to show it.

After the wind and rain, you can see the rainbow, look at your own feelings, if you feel that it is worth persevering, then persist, failure is not in vain.

It's up to your boyfriend to convince.

Secondly, it depends on your dedication to him and his family.

If you are the daughter of a rich family or have achieved something in your career, I don't think his family will have any more opinions. His son probably doesn't have much status at home. If you want him to show his family some results, when the family thinks he can be truly independent, it is estimated that they will not interfere with him too much.

Bow first and then soldiers, go and reason first, and ask why you don't want to be together, if it's just because of age, it shouldn't be a problem, haven't you heard of it, female college juniors hug gold bricks. The woman is older and generally knows how to take care of people and is considerate. If there are other deep reasons that have not been spoken, it is necessary to think about them and let them say them, so that they can prescribe the right medicine.

If you really can't do it, it depends on your guts The two of you go out together for a few years and come back with the children. See how they object.

Talk to his parents and go alone. If they still don't agree, maybe they can only let go, and without the support of their parents, the relationship will not last long. You can also choose to be apart for a while and then think about what to do.

Don't get into a fight with his parents, find out what they really care about and solve it. In fact, they are also thinking about their children.