My husband has a mentally handicapped son with his ex wife, should I give up this marriage?

You can discuss with your husband that the child will be placed in a home for mentally handicapped children. If you can't do it, you will have to divorce, and if you don't leave, you will struggle in pain for the rest of your life.

All normal women have a chance of having a mentally handicapped child What if the child was born to you What if the child was born to me I thought about it for a long time before writing His ex-wife would be very grateful if she could see you now How helpless she was when she was dying Who will help him take care of his beloved husband Who will help him raise this newborn child How much reluctance did she leave the world Maybe she doesn't know that the child is mentally retarded You have done too much for her Don't care about my sister-in-law's words and deeds For the sake of my husband is a good person He is a poor person Don't abandon her If you leave again, the man will lose the reason to continue to work hard to live You have done so many things for others and sacrificed a lot of your own ideals, but what choice is there Think of yourself as great I believe that your husband is also full of gratitude and guilt for you, what else can he do for you.

Did he know before?

If he knows that he is deliberately lying to you, the problem is very serious. If you don't know, then you can only blame your life.

I think if you get divorced, you will blame yourself for a long time, no matter how you choose, it will be a tragedy.

Summary. Dear, glad to answer for you. Most of the men who abandon their girlfriends for their ex-wives are because they love their ex-wives very much, and the key reason is that their ex-wives have lived with men for a long time, and they must still have feelings, especially if both parties still have children, for the sake of children, many men will also choose their ex-wives, after all, the current girlfriend does not know very well, and it is not necessarily whether he can accept his children, in fact, men are very family-oriented.

Dear, glad to answer for you. Men who abandon their girlfriends for their ex-wives are mostly because they love their ex-wives very much, the key reason is because the ex-wives have lived with men for a long time, and they must still have feelings, especially if both parties still have children.

Is it just a matter of letting go?

Dear, I think I can let it go. His attitude was very firm.

Yes, it's not worth nostalgia, and our children don't seem to be that important.

Kiss. If you have children, you have to think twice. After all, it is the children who are hurt separately.

There's no way, if the contradiction continues like this, it will hurt my child even more, and he doesn't think about how to solve the problem, for example, don't contact his ex-wife, let his ex-wife talk to me about the child's problem, let me inform him, I must get my consent to see the child, but he can't, just say that if you go to see me, you will go to Mengzi, and if you contact my ex-wife, I will contact him, let me believe him, you say it's ridiculous.

Dear, it's ridiculous indeed. I don't think you're that important to him.

If it's not important, let it go, he can't bear it.

still peeked at my Douyin, we haven't seen each other for a few days, I was ruthless and decided to let go.

Dear, since he does this, let it go. After all, there are some things that can't be done.

Summary. If you decide to divorce, then you can have rational and mature communication with your husband to solve property, custody and other matters, if you plan to save him, you need to weigh the relationship between you, why he will return to his ex-wife.

If you decide to divorce, then you can have rational and mature communication with your husband to solve property, custody and other matters, if you make a plan to save him, you need to weigh the relationship between you, why he will return to his ex-wife.

If I don't show him him and his ex-wife and children, I'd rather choose to leave me and our children, can I let go.

Kiss. Is your husband still in contact with his ex-wife after living with you for so long?

You must have been at odds all the time.

Yes, he never let me know about the rent loss, and said that they had nothing to do with it, and now I had a choice between them, and he would rather give up me and our children.

Is it a direct abandonment.

Kiss, first of all, there is no problem with him looking at his children, but now the problem is that there is no problem between him and his ex-wife. Even if you get divorced, you and his children will be where they are now.

And I don't recommend that you choose to divorce now.

How long have you been married to him?

We're gone, too.

He wants to get back together. You and she are both ex-wife relationships. Now he wants to get back together with you, but he's entangled with his former wife?

Is this the state?

Kiss. If you want to get back together with him, change the man's mind.

Otherwise, such contradictions will occur after the reunion.

Do you understand?