Is it true or using How can you tell if it s sincere, or if you just want to use it?

Just the same problem as you. Obviously a very good friend, I thought that if I gave enough, I would definitely get the same amount in return, so I waited for the text message she took the initiative to send and waited for her to be the first to call, but the result made me sad. However, it has now been figured out.

Everybody's growing. Everyone has their own troubles, happy and sad things. Not everyone can get to know each other.

Some people don't know how to reciprocate when they get what others give, just because they don't feel it yet. And the one who pays always thinks that he is being ignored.

Don't be so upset, maybe things aren't what you think. Take a fresh look at yourself. Because we are different people, we can't put ourselves in your shoes, but we can give you advice.

Look at the friends around you, there are a few that you can make friends with. Don't overdo your fraternity, because some people don't deserve it. You can be enthusiastic about everyone, but you can give sincerely, and give to those who can be your good friends.

You're sure to find your own true best friend, don't be discouraged! I also have to find a way to be more cheerful.

You also said that you are an introvert, so I guess you are more sensitive to emotional issues. You see you talking, just a few words with a "I think", too selfish, too serious about yourself, this is not good. You say that you treat them sincerely, but you care too much about giving, and you want to give back as soon as you give, which is not good.

Introversion has the disadvantage of being introverted, so you should be proactive to a certain extent, and be able to take the initiative to text and greet them, which is very good, this is a kind of communication between people, and it is also an exercise for your own personality.

Besides, those friends of yours, in comparison, they are not as good as you, the most basic, ungrateful, do not know how to cherish the help of others, and do not know how to learn about Entu [although it is a small favor]. Such a friend, I suggest that you observe and observe, don't rush to position her, see how she will perform in the future, if she is still like this, don't take people seriously, then I'm sorry, I will pay less attention to you or even ignore you in the future, anyway, you can't feel good to you, what else do I do with this move, I will make a pot of tea for my parents.

In the future, you must know how to recognize people, through her language, expressions, movements, tone of speech, attitude to work, etc., to see if this person is worth your friendship, and the most important thing is to chat with you, that is, the smell is like-minded.

Well, I'd better wish you a happy new year, teenager, I want to open a little hehe.

1. Improve self-confidence. Self-confidence is the most fundamental motivation to eliminate inferiority complex. Don't be afraid of failure, because failure is inevitable, think of "failure is the mother of success"; "Victory or defeat is a common thing in a soldier's life." We should analyze the causes of defeat with a positive attitude, believe in our own ability and perseverance, overcome difficulties, and work hard toward success.

2. Firmly believe in the truth that "I am born to be useful". Correctly understand yourself, see your own strengths, and discover your own value. Give full play to one's own strengths, actively participate in activities conducive to the development of one's strengths, and make use of one's advantages to make more achievements as much as possible, so that one's self-confidence can be continuously consolidated and enhanced.

3. Be clear: diligence is a good training to make up for clumsiness, and a point of hard work is a point of talent. Through diligent study and hard practice, we can completely narrow the gap between ourselves and others, and even catch up with or surpass others.

4. Maintain psychological balance. Students with low self-esteem should praise themselves more and use their own strengths to compare the shortcomings of others. Don't get discouraged when you encounter a setback, don't think "I can't do it", but show a strong sense of confidence: "I can do it." Do it again, and I'll make it."

Fifth, choose the right good method. Everyone's situation is different, and what is effective in others may not be applicable to them, and "Dong Shi Xiao Feng" often achieves twice the result with half the effort, and according to their own special circumstances, they can choose some good and practical methods to get twice the result with half the effort.

6. "Go your own way and let others say go!" Because other people's ridicule and belittlement are often due to jealousy or other reasons, remember: as long as you don't admit that you have an inferiority complex, no one can make you feel inferior!

My arguments, hopefully, did not increase the landlord's uneasiness.

I think landlords should first adjust their inner mentality. There's nothing wrong with being an introvert.

If you send an unsolicited text message that makes you unhappy, then don't send it. If you don't post and you're unhappy, you still want others to care about you.

You try to help them when they are in trouble, you are the giver, but how does the giver feel? You don't know if their reaction and attitude is cold, and now you are emotionally disturbed. Then don't do it again.

If they don't actually respond, don't let yourself be emotionally upset in return. People can't give unconditionally for a long time, which will dry up their lives.

I appreciate how genuinely you treat them, but ultimately know what you really feel inside.

There is no question of sincerity and utilization.

I've had the same problems as you, but I know that no matter what people do to me, I'm going to be sincere, because I can't cheat and hurt someone I think I'm a friend.

If it's a true friend, there will always be a response, and if you don't respond, it doesn't mean that you won't be a real friend.

And everyone has a different attitude and action in dealing with interpersonal relationships, let it be natural, friends will always meet, it is troubles that must be faced, and it is not bad to learn some truths from it.

I'm now in my second year of high school, and in my experience over the years, from ignorance to gradual maturity, I understand this problem very well!

It can be said responsibly

If you do what you call true to them, and they don't do that to you, then you are not a true friend!

Don't listen to those above who "go with the flow" or "don't want to think so much".

This is a very serious question, and it must be clarified!

Otherwise, for the sake of those so-called "friends" in your eyes, you have taken your sincerity in vain, aren't you uncomfortable?

If you feel that what you are giving and getting is not equal now, then please stop!

They don't deserve what you pay for them!

As far as I'm concerned, I have a few people around me who I consider to be my best friends, but they don't see me that way!

They can't do as much as a normal friend of mine!

It's true! I really hope you can make a positive choice!

Exploit. Don't think about it so much, it's all like this. Obviously they don't like you. No one likes an introvert.

I'm also such a character, you don't have to care too much, just have an ordinary relationship with them, after you expand your social circle, you will find that many people will like you, your classmates are like that, you don't need to change yourself, but just put your heart down, don't take them too seriously.

Then, since you really regard them as friends, don't think about these depressing things. You're worthy of your own conscience anyway.

In today's society, people interact with each other like that.

If you don't want to live in unhappiness all the time, don't think too much about it. Sometimes, being simpler is happier.

I ask you a question.

If you are good to others, others must be good to you?

This thing is on both sides, there is no real use, you want to deviate, your best friend is them, and their best friend may be someone else. If they don't come back, or if there are others, they don't care about you, and they can't say they don't care about you.

I don't know too many details, but just texting, it's too presumptuous.

You're too bright, turn yourself off for a few days to stop glowing, and they'll know where you fit in their minds. Although the sun is always bright, not many people care, because people think that it is the way it should be, and only when it is extinguished can they know the reason for its existence

Actually, your introversion leads to this, it's not that they're bad, it's just that you're usually too quiet! Let them ignore you with one

How enthusiastic to contact and get along with friends, you can also make excessive jokes

Just let it go, it will be fine in the future! It is not called to care about personal gains and losses

Have a good talk with them.

You are an introvert, and if you go to date a girl who is more extroverted or a little introverted, that kind of girl is more affectionate and less likely to take advantage of others.

I have a good friend who is introverted, but she is always texting to find me, and she often helps me, she is my classmate and good friend in the same class.

First of all, I want to say for sure that if they don't reply, it doesn't mean that they don't treat you as a good friend, although they don't take the initiative to greet you in this regard, they may give you more help in other aspects. You're thinking too much about it.

If you want them to take the initiative, tell them in a humorous way.

The key is that you are introverted, you have to vote for your friends, and of course, you must combine your hobbies, so that you can play with your classmates, and you will increase friendship, so that the problem will be solved.

It's the same as my personality, for the sake of my friends, I think I can do anything, but they won't do much for me, in fact, if you do it for them, you have to ask them to help you, what is this called, return the favor? Or "yet" is a true friend who doesn't ask for anything in return!!

Let it be, sincerely, and the golden stone is open. Your sincerity will surely win the hearts of others. But on the other hand, if you have no intention of being honest with others,...

How simple your narration is, I see that it is not a use, it's just that your friend doesn't like to take the initiative! Let's talk.

You've been nice to them, they take it for granted, so don't treat others better than yourself.

Remember! Treat people sincerely, and you will never suffer. How others are, don't think much about it, one day, they will understand.

good luck!

Since it's sincere, don't pay attention to it so much, you can send it, why care? But what I want to say is that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, the weight is heavy, there is nothing, grasp the scale, 7 points, leave 3 points for people

If you can't talk about exploitation, you may still be friends.

Whatever it is, you are you, be brave and be yourself and ignore them.

It depends on your state of mind.

Remember that you laugh, the whole world is brilliant.

You cry, you are the only one in the world who is crying.

Wholehearted? Exploit. What about the former? Is it the latter? As long as you're happy!!

I'm the same as you, I sent 7 text messages to my friends during the Chinese New Year this year, and I didn't have 1 back. . .

It's not a big deal in this world at all.

The key depends on how you approach the problem.

How much is the landlord**! Little brother will send you a thousand pieces next year! Make you happy! Ha ha.

True friendsWhen you are in adversity or life has many difficulties, you will find that the people who are with you are the most worthy of your cherishment, because they are willing to be happy with you when you are successful, more willing to accompany you through difficult days when you are unlucky, and willing to pull you when you are stagnant and shouting, and give you the motivation to move forward. Zheng Xingyuan, who is friendly and sincere, turns out to be a win-win situation. Profound truths are often simple; And the simple truth, but it is not simple.

So it's easy to say, but it's a handful of people who really do it for you.

How can you tell if it's genuine, or if it's just trying to take advantage of you? Then you know best whether he is sincere or exploiting, if it is using is false, it will be true, for your dedication, or on your view of things, it is a feeling of impetuousness. If it's sincere, it's telling the truth, digging out the heart to help you, it's true.

Only you can tell if he is sincere, or if he wants to use you, and understand and identify him through things.

If you want to discern, you will be truly used. This situation can only be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. There are people who are sincere about your situation, and he does not ask for anything in return.

But if he does something to ask you when Zhou Ran is good to you, then he can be said to be using you.

If you want to discern, I really want Lib Sail to use your method, which is very simple to make the hole. It's that he's nice to you while seeing if he has any other types of hail requirements. If anything, it's taking advantage of you.

The key depends on whether you have any use value, if there is, it must be to use you, such as Sanzhou fruit does not, good to you is really good.

It also depends on the relationship between you, and when it comes to marriage, you need to distinguish it well. If it's an ordinary friend, it's to help each other, and if it's ugly, it's to use each other's scum, which is understandable.

How can you tell if it's sincere? Or do you just want to take advantage of you? For example, if you have an accident in the big Li Sen shed and need help, she will go to help you borrow Chunling without hesitation, so that you can know that he is sincere, for example, when you need his help, he will not give you help, you will know that he is using you.