A person who doesn t love you so much, can it be redeemed?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, unless one party makes a change, but I don't think you need to go back to the past, because your character is like this, you will quarrel because of your concepts, after getting along for a long time, it is easy to find different places, you can talk to him quietly, you talk to him, you talk about your opinions, you love him, two people have friction together is a kind of grinding, if you say that your love is weak because of noise, then what will you do in the future. There will only be more problems, you have to have a better way to get along, true love is mature, it can be tested, you think about it, bless you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course you can, as long as you calm each other down, there is still hope. It's just that both sides are numb and tired of arguing because of the quarrel. Give both sides some time. A quarrel shows that it is still love. But don't keep arguing, there's something to talk about

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is actually not a big problem, probably because there are too many things to encounter when I go home for the New Year, and I have adapted to the life of the city.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I have similar problems with you, hey、、、 someone told me, put aside what you think is the most important, you will live a very easy life, and will not affect your mood because of his preferences, but some people say that you should pay wholeheartedly once in your life and keep it for future memories! I don't know how to decide anyway!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think there is still the possibility of being together, but according to your current situation, sooner or later it will be separated, and you can be separated for a while, so that everyone can calm down, and it is not suitable to plan again.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This situation requires both parties to calm down, and many times they need to be considerate and accommodating to each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The impossible can be retained, but people can't keep their hearts.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the other party doesn't love you anymore, then you must achieve a second attraction to make the other party fall in love with you again, so as to achieve the goal of redemption.

    The metamorphosis of the external image.

    Elegant manners and proper conversation are the core support for your overall image, and if you don't work on these two aspects, even if you dress up brightly and speak with one mouth, your ex will know that you are still the "original recipe and original taste". You need to make good use of your fragments of time to read and think, broaden your horizons, and elevate your inner realm. True charm is always from the inside out.

    2.Improvement of emotional intelligence and love intelligence.

    People with high emotional intelligence and high love intelligence are very attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex, and in the face of two people with comparable personal comprehensive conditions, everyone will choose the person who gets along like a spring breeze, so to absorb a lot of knowledge and love skills about getting along with the sexes is an effective means for you to establish a second attraction.

    3.Personal growth.

    Regarding personal growth, we don't need to mention more, because whether a person is single or in a relationship, he can't stop growing, improve in his studies, and make breakthroughs in his career, which is what you should do, nothing to do in order to save your ex. It's just that you're progressing faster and achieving a little more noticeable, which will impress you when you resume contact with your ex.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't love it, it's hard to get it back. It's like you can't wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, no matter how much you do, the other person will not be moved, and may even be more disgusted. So when you no longer love you, you have to learn to let go and find new happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think there's any need to go back to the Internet to return to a person who no longer loves you, emotional things still need two people to love each other, I don't think I love you anymore, and then the relationship is over, I want to go, because reluctant love will not be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, you have to be very sure whether you really love him, or just get used to the days when he is around, I am afraid that most people don't know their answers, or are they not sure, in fact, there is really a so-called love in the world, I once fell in love with a girl for 3 years, I have seen both parents, and I am one step away from getting married. Later, they were separated because of some things, and I won't go into details.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How can you get back someone who no longer loves you? In fact, he doesn't love you anymore. At all costs? None of you. Come back late. Because he doesn't have you in his heart. I don't love you anymore. So you came back late anyway?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There's no need to redeem him, the twisted melon is not sweet. Spending time with someone who doesn't love you will only add to your annoyance.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since I don't love you anymore, I don't think there's any need to keep it, so let's get together and disperse.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    For someone who no longer loves you, there is no need to redeem it, because there is no need to be together with someone who doesn't love you, and it won't be happy in the future, so it's better to separate.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't love it, there's no need to redeem someone who no longer loves you?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Many people have a little misunderstanding about redemption, that is, they think that if the other party doesn't love you anymore, there is no way to redeem the relationship.

    But in fact, whether the other person loves you or not is not decided by him (or her), but by you and you as a person.

    If he says he doesn't love you at the moment, just because the other party's emotions and thoughts at this moment don't want to be with you, it doesn't mean that he doesn't want to be with you in the future.

    Love is a feeling, and the feeling he feels about you is that you can change your behavior by yourself, so that the other party can have a different feeling for you, you can make the other person dislike you through your own behavior, then you can also make the other person feel that you are in love with you through your own behavior.

    In the first place, the other person fell in love with you because some of your actions turned on his (or her's) attraction switch and made him (or her) feel love for you.

    Now, the other person doesn't want to be with you in the first place, and it's also because of your behavior, the way you treat him (or her) that causes him or her to lose feelings for you.

    Therefore, whether he loves you or not, whether he likes you or not, on the surface, is determined by the other party, but in fact, his (or her) feelings about you are controlled by you, you can change your behavior to make the other person like you, you can also change your behavior to make the other party dislike you. It's just that the way you fall in love and the way you treat him (or her) causes them to lose their feelings for you, and you don't know what to do to re-attract the other person. That's why you think that when the other party doesn't love each other, you can't get your love back.

    It's time for you to take a fresh look at your relationship and re-examine the mistakes you've made in the relationship. In this relationship, you are actually the one in control of your relationship, and you should have led your relationship to a path of happiness, but you have led your relationship to a broken down. So you need to learn how to get along with the other person, what to do to get rid of their negative feelings about you, and what to do to make them feel loving to you again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you want to keep your partner and put an end to doubt and grief, discuss ways to save your relationship. Some people may say that being in a relationship is something that two people do together. How do you get people back who don't love you anymore?

    If one of them falls out of love, is there still a need for such a relationship? It didn't turn out that way. Marriage breakdown, in many cases, is not that the parties will not be moved, but that there are opinions in their hearts that are not suitable for talking, often around the heart, and in the long run, towards a breakup.

    The skills of retaining love, but also take separation as a trend nutrition for future development, generally after retention, your relationship will be more stable and sweet. You don't have to give the other person all the work pressure, keep the work pressure to a minimum, and let the other person get along with you more naturally, so that you can successfully retain the other person. To create common ground is to acknowledge each other's point of view.

    No matter what the other person says, even if it is to blame yourself for your shortcomings, do not refute and argue. Just listen patiently to him and then admit him. While this may not immediately change his opinion of you, our differences have long since been erased and our opposites have been eased.

    At the same time, thanks to your highly qualified fighter career on the online platform, the other side will be attracted to you again, rating and praising your dynamic nature. Maybe she'll reach out to you or want you to reach out to her. As long as the other party responds to you, it is a sign that there will be better submissions in the future.

    After breaking up with another person, there is no need to reach out to him or stick to the other person all the time. Because you still love him very much, but at this stage, it looks like his feelings for you are long gone.

    Everyone from love to marriage, will encounter some small emotional setbacks, when the two parties are not as passionate as when they were in love before, love each other like that, due to the friction of time, both parties become strangers to each other, and they do not have the same feeling as when they were in the past. When the other party doesn't love you, it's a very painful thing.

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