Feelings Feelings are complicated Hope Pointing 50

Do you know that you will hurt this girl and your girlfriend and the other party's boyfriend, since you broke up, and you have a new relationship, she also has a new relationship should not be like this, you kept ambiguous from the beginning, are you fair to your girlfriend like this, since you think it is inappropriate, you shouldn't do that, she comes back to know herself, you can call someone to pick up together, you obviously have an affair with the other party, in this case, the two people are likely to be uncontrollable, And she is now in conflict with her boyfriend, so she will think how good you are, and she will remember your previous things, if you let your girlfriend know, you said that you may not get any in the end, you hurt three people, you are a man, you have to be able to afford to let go, the relationship is sincere, since you have broken up, if you have a good impression of each other and want to be together, then please break off the current relationship first before starting, you are irresponsible, not only irresponsible to your girlfriend, It's also irresponsible to this girl, you hesitate to blindly give the other party hope, and then you can't give it, it's a greater harm to this girl, if you don't want to hurt more, you have to make it clear to the other party, there can be no vague and vague boundaries, you must make it clear, that's not to hurt her, it's for her good, who hasn't been hurt in the relationship, you can be more mature after the injury, and you know how to do it, the relationship is the most taboo and ambiguous, so for the good of everyone, you must make it clear. You have to know how to give up and choose, it is impossible for all these good things to be yours. Have your own principles.

First of all, according to what you said at the beginning, I think she mentioned your breakup at the beginning, and you kept it, but you didn't keep it, right? I think when I broke up with you at that time, she should have been dating other men, maybe this is her boyfriend now, but after getting along with her current boyfriend, I feel that I am not as good as you, and I want to test whether you are willing to go back to dating her. I think it's really up to you, what do you think in your own heart, do you still care about her previous betrayal or that she abandoned you at that time, if you don't care, okay, then you go back, but no one can guarantee that the same situation will happen in the future, if you care, then don't be together, don't look back, because there is already a shadow in your heart, which will affect your future days.

There must be sadness, because you really have her in your heart. I'll tell you the truth, brother, such a woman is difficult to control, even if she follows you, it is difficult to guarantee your loyalty to your relationship, so you have a girlfriend now, maybe there are some shortcomings, but if the relationship is good, keep the current relationship. Why are you sad, because you are still a little reluctant, man, there is always that thought in my heart - I think that what you can't get is the best.

I hope you have a happy life in the future...

Hello, hope I can help you. Let me break it down for you.

First of all, I want to know how old you are and why you broke up.

If you are a junior high school or high school student, don't worry about it. Because I am too young to understand the obligations and responsibilities of love, I only know that enjoyment will not last long.

People have a different understanding of love at each stage. The reason for your breakup is very important, whether the girl has a new love and you break up (in this case, give up decisively because one day she will break up when she has a new love), or something else, this part is very important.

Secondly, did you have a deep relationship at the beginning? Allow me to say that she won't look for other boys. This one is obvious.

Then, what is her character, it is so easy to live with a man, this behavior is not very good. How long has she been talking to the man, don't tell me it's been less than a year. No three years is too small, and they didn't even think about getting married, so they began to live together.

You must know that cohabitation is still a situation, and it is a situation for two people to talk for a long time and decide to be together in the future, and it is another situation purely for sex.

She wants to get you back in this way when she has a problem with her current boyfriend, just imagine that she will have a problem with you in the future, will she do the same to you. Have you thought about it.

You have a girlfriend now, maybe you don't love her, but you don't have the right to hurt her. You have to understand this, this is what you should consider as a man, after all, the current girlfriend is right, the wrong is the person who wants to come back to you, you can't hurt the current girlfriend with her fault.

I think the most important thing is, is this girl worth looking back at (is she decent by nature), have you thought it through, will you come together with her, can it last long?

Think about these and then follow your heart. If you really can't do it, then go to her. If you don't think she's worth your desperation, talk to her.

Finally, I personally disapprove of you coming back to her, for the reasons I have already told you above.

I hope I can help you, I wish you a smooth * o * (ps: the phone is a little slow and tired).

If you do something immoral without sorting out your relationship, of course you will be entangled, no matter what your relationship with your current girlfriend is, you should have a clear attitude and way of dealing with it. Either break up rationally and don't delay hurting each other, or deal with each other's contradictions well and achieve peaceful coexistence. But you insist on complicating the relationship problem, and you have contact with another girl who has feelings before ending a relationship, which is unfair to your current girlfriend.

At present, you should really calm down and sort out what you want, if you want to be with this girl who has feelings, then break up with your current girlfriend as soon as possible and be a person who is responsible for your feelings. As for how the other party deals with feelings, it is beyond your control, and you can only do it yourself without hurting others.

Eh, a good horse doesn't eat back grass, you have to see your feelings for her, it's been almost a year since you broke up, the relationship should be weak, you have to distinguish whether you are sympathetic or in love with her, if your current girlfriend is very good to you, don't break up with your current girlfriend, it is very difficult to manage a relationship very well.

Let's have a good time with your current girlfriend. Since she chose to leave you and live with other men, maybe giving up is the best option. Even if you still like her, restrain yourself. Less contact with her and struggling to entangle.

Men should be responsible, not to grieve innocent people.

Which one you like is deeper, which one to choose.

You and she won't end up together.

1. Her ex is always a thorn in your heart, and it is also where you feel humble and unconfident. Forget it if her ex doesn't show up, and if she shows up one day, you might break down because of her attitude.

2. According to your description, you feel that your efforts have not been duly rewarded, you want not only her person, but also her heart, but you feel that her heart is not completely on you.

3. Because of the distance, you always choose between your parents and her, although you say that you can ignore it, but I personally feel that you are not so calm in your heart.

If you have begun to doubt this relationship between two people, then you yourself are not so wholeheartedly, think about it, don't just think about her bad, think about the good between her and you, whether it is better than bad, or not much, and then choose.

I don't think this woman is worth your life to wait for, and from what you said, I think you still have an opinion about her, and it will be even more uncomfortable after a long time! Quickly cut through the mess, it is recommended to divide it, I wish you happiness!

I'm sure she doesn't love you, and I think you know that very well in your own heart. But since you love her so much, try for it, don't be stupid and blindly treat her, and show your charm!