It s so hard to forget someone, and I m trying to forget him, but I just can t do it

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's even harder to forget a loved one.

    What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......

    There's a saying.

    You don't have to marry someone you love, and you don't have to marry someone you like. "

    To live a life, you have to find a man who can live a life, and a woman does not necessarily have to find someone you like.

    Think for yourself how life would be if tightness is love

    In today's era, everything needs money, happiness, struggle, career, and a happy family

    Maybe you and she are not people of the same world

    Let go of her hand happily and say in a chic manner: I wish you happiness

    The opposite of love is not to hate and forget.

    You still care about ta so you won't forget.

    If you really want to forget, keep yourself busy and arrange a lot of things to do, whether it's work or play. Give yourself no time to think about anything else. Tire your body a little, lie down and fall asleep right away!

    Don't be alone, be sure to be with friends.

    Time will take away your worries.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's hard, so if you can't forget it, bury it in your heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Dear friend, there is an emotion called wanting to forget someone. If a person always has a person in his head, it will affect his emotions and life. And this person can't give you the answer and help you solve it.

    Then we all choose and want to forget about it, it is a painful process at the beginning, the length of time varies from person to person, and it is also up to us to adjust.

    In fact, the real forgetting is not a deliberate effort to tell yourself that I want to forget this person, in the process, you spend more time deepening the impact on you. It's harder to forget. The real forgetting is that you still know that there is this person, and when you think about it again, it is not so important, and it will not affect your mood, but the scenery you pass by along the way.

    First of all, you have to give yourself a period of time, we all understand the law of gain and loss, there are gains and losses, and there are losses and gains, when you put more time into thinking about how to forget a person's contradictions and pains, you can give yourself a careful table of dinner, or read a favorite book, watch a favorite movie, find friends to go shopping, go out for a walk to see the autumn scenery. You may say that some of these details can bring back memories for me, so you try not to drift your mind there, focus on the things at hand, as long as you are serious about it, even if you think about it, it doesn't take so much time, right? Maybe it's just a flash, and you put your head down again and start doing things.

    Take your time like this, and when you gain focus on other aspects of your life, losing you is an unforgettable person.

    Balzac said that pain is the best teacher, all the experience of all this is to make our minds grow, but you happen to come to this point in life, I believe you still have a lot of things you want to do not finish, then let us walk together on the road of life, at the fork in the road bravely say goodbye, because we have each other's distance. Come on.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal to want to forget someone but never forget, after all, people can be ruthless.

    Time is a good thing, believe in time, time can change everything. In fact, some people live forever in our hearts, let alone truly loved? Since you can't forget it, it's not a good thing to bury it deep in your heart and make it an eternal memory.

    Change your mindset to face it. If you can't change others, you can change yourself, if you can't change the environment, you can adapt to the environment, if you can't change things, you can change your attitude towards things, and if you can't change the weather, you can adjust your mood. Mindset is everything.

    There is no such thing as an unwarranted experience in life, and there is no growth that does not come at a cost. No matter what we are experiencing, we should actively face it and solve our own difficulties, so that we can become strong enough to deal with all kinds of difficulties.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't forget, the more you want to forget, the bigger it gets.

    Accept the fact that you can't forget them, and admit that they are part of you who makes you miserable and cowardly.

    Then, what to do and what to continue to do. Change to eat, eat, sleep, go to work, work, work, and refocus your attention.

    You have to know that you don't have to forget about it, you need to get out of it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Some people will always be engraved in their memories, even if they forget him.

    The voice forgot his smile, forgot his face, but the feeling I felt when I thought of him would never change.

    A person always has to walk a strange road, see an unfamiliar scenery, listen to a strange song, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten like this.

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

    If you want to forget someone, maybe he hurt you, maybe there are other reasons, you have to try to find out if you are sad, or other aspects and the reason why you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your mind open, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it once in a while, this is also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you slowly forget, if you really love him, you have to spend your life to forget, if you don't want to forget, please hide love deep in your heart.

    Hope you are happy and happy!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    3. Delete everything related to him, and clean up the ** box, so as not to give yourself a chance to get it back.

    4. Start a new relationship and find someone you love more than he loves you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Actually, it's easy to forget a person It's just that sometimes we don't want to let ourselves forget There has always been a feeling, that is, the thought of another person, the longing Maybe it's just that we don't want to lose this feeling So, we don't want to forget It's afraid that after forgetting, there will be no sense of that life and your heart will be empty After falling out of love, many people tend to ask themselves"Without him/her, how can my life continue? I wanted to forget him, but I couldn't forget him"If you can't forget, then don't forget Why is it so painful to forget a person Just let time wash away slowly If I say to you now, don't think about Guo Jingming You will immediately think of Guo Jingming, and maybe you will also think of "How Much Do You Know About the Flowers in Your Dreams" that once moved you The more we deliberately don't let ourselves think about anything, the more he will enter your mind without hindrance If you really want to forget, then let time help you Perhaps, a few days, a few years later Listen to a familiar song again** Thinking of him, when you see him again, when you think of him again, you say, how did I like him in the first place? At this time, it is forgotten.

    Actually, it's really easy to forget a person, it's just that sometimes, we don't want to let ourselves forget. Really, I don't want to forget.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't deliberately forget, slowly divert your attention, after a long time, when you think about it, there is only such a person, and it will not have much impact on you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love, mainly depends on how you treat it, I think: plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because when you do not protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long!Love someone:

    To trust each other, to love someone, to understand each other. Love someone: Be more attentive to tolerate and love someone:

    Be broad-minded and love someone: respect each other's thoughts and opinionsLove someone: support him (her) behind his or her back, rather than hindering and loving someone:

    When you have to face that he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, say to him (her) with a smile I'm very good, very happy to love someone: hide your inner fragility and grievances, don't let him (her) know to love someone: ...Too much love.

    Maybe it's hard, can't it be done? In fact, it is not difficult to make the most important point is: love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Crazy hits to the head have the potential to cause amnesia.

    I can only help you get here.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Time is the best antidote, keep yourself busy so you don't get cranky.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are two ways to do this. The first is to keep yourself busy.

    The second is to go to the drifting bottle and find someone to tease.

    It'll be fine after a while, time will dilute everything.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Find an alternative! It's like replacing files on a computer is better than deleting files!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Two years ago I was separated from her, and I believe I'll be okay, and I hope you'll be okay too.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After a long time, it is natural to forget.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Although it is said that time can fade everything.

    If you still love him. I can't forget it, if you don't love him anymore. will forget and find a way to stop loving him.

    Or try not to contact and recall the scene of 2 people, don't do what you used to do, often go to play with friends, go crazy together, you can also go out to travel, maybe you will meet the true love of your life, love is everywhere, as long as you don't miss, breaking up will be a new beginning for you!! But if the person you love is the person you love deeply, maybe you have never forgotten him and want to forget someone in your life, maybe it's not so simple to forget someone, you don't want to forget him deliberately, if you deliberately want to forget, then maybe you won't really do it, right? If you want to forget someone, he may have hurt you, maybe there are other reasons, you have to try to find out if you are sad, or other aspects and the reason why you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your heart open, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it occasionally, this is also inevitable, right time will make you slowly forget If you really love him, you have to spend your whole life to forget, if you don't want to forget, please hide love deep in your heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want to forget someone, first of all, you have been thinking about this person in the process, how can you forget?

    So don't deliberately forget, try not to reminisce about the past, look forward to everything, and treat the past as just a mark in life.

    Read more, study, do what you love to do, and distract yourself, so that slowly you will find that those who want to forget become less important. It's hard to forget, but it's easy to forget.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He's only a passerby in your life! Sissy!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then don't forget! Exhaust yourself again. You try not to think about him like that.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you want to forget, then don't force yourself.

    True forgetting doesn't require effort. Maybe you should make more friends. Get to know more of the opposite sex.

    There will always be someone better than him, how to be happy and how to live. ~

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Just let go of your heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Forget. A heartache ...

    In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ... Isn't there a saying that says?

    You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss. Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ...

    Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of TA again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that before you know it, TA has become "that person".

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

    Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

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