A man called Father took away my virginity, and now I am afraid to pursue my own happiness

It's good to love your loved ones!

Why is your father like this?

Good and bad things outsiders can't be determined, often sinister intentions are wrapped in beautiful things, don't teach people here**Oh!!

Don't think about the past, even if it's to repay your father.

Friend, your story is really beautiful.

Did you tell your mom?

Damn'Isn't that your father? Labour.

It's hard for me to imagine such a thing!! Not very realistic!

You're a**copying**.

Depressed. I've seen it a long time ago.

Is such a person also called a father?

Why do you keep asking this question.

It depends on what kind of person he is, his culture is very high, but his love for you is not necessarily the best, please don't tell her those things, but at a certain time you can choose the appropriate time and occasion to tell him, you can tell him about this thing that has been haunting you, and I don't know why he divorced? Have you thought about it? His culture is so high, his quality should also be very high, in front of these people I think it is better to be straightforward, otherwise in the future it may be you who will suffer, it will leave a scar on your heart, you can't be hurt, please consider it carefully, properly deal with it!

Eh, after reading this paragraph, I feel deeply, in fact, God is very fair, give you this, will take away your one, your childhood is indeed more painful, I understand, and this text is the best gift God has given you, has made up for the pain of your childhood, you have to cherish it, don't live up to God's gift to you because of this pain, if this text really loves you, will he care about your past? Is that right?

It's complicated, but if he really loves you, you should tell him about that childhood.

If you say it's a big deal, you will lose a lifetime if you don't say it. And it's not your fault. Who can hide from natural and man-made disasters.

He's bigger than you, and he'll go before you. No one can be with you forever. So you have to learn to be mentally self-reliant.

What has passed, be vigilant in the future, and forgive those who hurt you.

Don't be burdened, the victim is you, you're not the one who hurt others, you're not at fault, so you have to be happy. Please forgive those who have hurt you.

No matter what his conditions, he is sincere to you, and that's it. The rest of the questions are not discussed.

I wish you peace and happiness. Peace be upon you all as a family.

The second question alone is annoying enough, he is too much older than you, even if you are a girl who has had a good life, you should be wary of this kind of thing. After getting married, attending various occasions together, your friends and you are the same age, you can still go crazy with your friends, is he willing to "pretend to be crazy" with you? His friend is of the same age as him, and it's just a matter of being a student next to you, and being a lady, you have to pretend to be very mature, and everyone doesn't know whether you should be a junior or a peer, and it's embarrassing.

Also, he will die earlier than you when he is old, but you rely on a person with good economic conditions at a young age, and you don't know how to live independently mentally and financially at that time, but at that time you are also middle-aged, and you will learn these skills late, so it will be very miserable. From this point of view, he doesn't think about you, which is a bit selfish anyway.

If you love him, tell him everything about you, and it's more comforting to confess than to hide, isn't it? If he can't accept it, prove that he loves you deep enough.

If he's someone who makes you feel safe, don't miss it.

Seize the happiness of the moment, there is no need to take up your precious time today with memories of the past.

If he is single, you can marry him, but please take a good time for a year or two and get married after fully understanding him.

Some people will beat women after marriage. -- that is, the nature is revealed.

Don't think about the past anymore and forgive those who are sorry for you. Why should people live forever in the memories of the past--- the past as a vigilance, and face the future. The future is still long...

People should look to the future, not endlessly reminisce about the past.

Hey, everyone has it now, it's really sentimental to see you, try to forget that past, live your life well, if your text is really good to you, try to accept him, I wish you happiness

Since love is to choose bravery! There's nothing wrong with being brave enough to pursue your own happiness! I'm sticking with you! What about the age gap, as long as you are in love! A life of love is happiness! Wishing you happiness!

I still care about what I do. At least that's what I think.

But your "father" is really not human!

The pain is what He gives you.

Happiness is given to you by God.

Why mix it up?

Be brave enough to accept your happiness, and you will no longer be miserable.

Invulnerable people.

Pull it out and shoot it.

Maybe you can understand your mood, first of all, to express sadness for your previous hardship, and secondly, to express your blessing to the love you have now, I think the first thing to see how you feel about him, this feeling must be very objective, very rational, in order to help you make a good decision, if you really love him in your heart, then you don't have to think so much, if he is a little bit of a calculating person, you don't have to tell him, if he is a very cheerful and open person can also tell him, But I think it's better not to tell it, because everyone has to have something in their hearts that they need to bear, and your father will still be his father-in-law in the future, and they will always get along together.

Maybe I'm standing and talking without back pain, and I don't understand more of your suffering, if that thing lingers in your heart, you really can't afford it, then tell him, and it is just right to test his feelings for you.

For reference only, it is up to you to choose Good luck along the way.

Don't think about unpleasant things; It's better not to associate with the man you're talking about, it's critical, and nothing good will come of it; Don't talk about it to anyone in the future, it's not a matter of loyalty or disloyalty, it's a responsibility for your own life; Hope you are happy!

Think maybe God is compensating you for your misfortune, be brave and hold on to your happiness.

Is there such a thing? It's like a story! The thoughts of a person who has been through the world are not something that young people can understand, it depends on what you know about him!

I think if he understands you, I think it's okay to marry him, but if he can't understand it, I think it's a waste of your time to marry him, because some things are waiting for time, and when the time comes, things will become messy.

In fact, you are a person with a father-love complex, so make up for the father's love that has been missing since childhood from this man. As long as you truly love each other, it's fine. If you want him to live peacefully with your father in the future, don't talk about the past.

In fact, it may be more uncomfortable for him to say it than for you. And what has passed cannot be remedied. So, let the past be gone, and don't let the unhappiness of the past affect your happy life in the future.

Wishing you happiness!

Don't say, be careful with that man.

Tomorrow you will be castrated.

You're really unlucky, and you'll have to pay more attention in the future.

Have you ever wondered why Wen likes you?

I think you like that guy to make up for your lack of fatherly love! This is what your heart desires! Let him always protect your weak and wounded heart!

has a career, and has a very mature temperament. If you are sincere, you can't do it.

Well, in fact, many times, age is a test for each other, but beyond this threshold, you will have a real relationship with each other, to be honest, this kind of man is the object of admiration of girls, because excellence in all aspects can always make girls have a good impression, heh, tell your experience, I think he will try to understand, this can also look at his views on dealing with each other's problems, to tell him, if you think it is suitable, you can choose, but it's just my own opinion, but come on.

It's so pathetic, your dad is such a rubbish, how can this be, it's okay! If he really loves you, he won't care about this, but will love you more. Bless you!

I think it's a kind of father-love plot in it, and sometimes people who are self-aware are smart people! Lovely people!

..It's too much.

Father-lover plot?

Understand! The others were speechless.

Listening to you, Wen is a mature and personable man, I think you should tell him, so that you and him will be easier in the future.

Wishing you happiness!

If you love you, you will give you all that you love, if you dislike you, then you really don't love you

Your father is too unhuman, he is not as good as a beast, and getting into a car accident is retribution, and such punishments are light, and he is too despised

If you are sure that the other person truly loves you, and you are willing to live with him for the rest of your life, then marry him.

But never, never uncover your scars again to show him your sincerity. Because first of all, you can't be sure of the other person's reaction after learning about it, whether there will be a change in their attitude towards you, whether they will have a sense of disgust for your family, etc... And even if he is really a very kind and generous person, he is still willing to accept you, love you as before, or even love you more, and you must never tell him, because then you will turn the pain that originally hurt only one person into two people to bear it together, and this kind of burden will not let the pain be relieved of you a little bit, but will only make one pain become two, so that he will live in this deformed ......pain like you from now on

So what you have to do now is to forget about this matter first, because let him pass the past, don't carry this burden and let it continue to hurt you for a lifetime, you should have a happy future, this future does not allow you to bring this pain into it again.

Forget the past, so that you and your loved ones can easily face the happiness of the future!

This is something that very few people have experienced. No one can understand your feelings, you are very unlucky, but since you have been unhappy for so many years, why don't you let go and pursue your own happiness, saying that you are going your own way for others to say, but this road must go through ups and downs. People are in the pursuit of endless periods, hitting walls again and again, slowly growing, and slowly getting what they want.

I hope you can go on strong and stick to your philosophy of life. Grab what you want, and try to make yourself less regretful and less sigh when you recall it later.

You have a father-love complex. It may be that something happened when you were a child caused a lack of your father's love, and you need to find a replacement to fill the gap in this aspect of you.

Generally, when you were a child, you either had a cold sex and hated men for the rest of your life; Either that, as you are now, find a replacement for your father.

If you are happy with him, try to get along, although there are some problems on the part of the parents, it is not the main thing, they will want their daughter to be happy.

If that incident is always a shadow in your heart, and even affects your trust in him, then it is better to be honest, true love will be all-encompassing.

I'm older than you My previous boyfriends were all about the same as your boyfriend Those childhood bad things are gone and it is impossible to come back So I think it's just my last life And if this man really loves you and knows that you are like this He should cherish you more If he is a good man, don't miss it Age is not a problem Happiness together is real.

Girl, take your own path, let those shadows go, and take a look at his character through dating.

Education and career do not mean that he is a good person.

See with your own eyes.

Whether he's that half of yours.

Don't rush it.

Don't be afraid to stand up to him.

Slowly feel his look at you, whether he is reliable or not!

You have to be brave in your pursuit of happiness. I will always have your back.

The voice of the blossom: Believe in yourself and wish you happiness and happiness.

Afraid of what. Is it sinful to love someone.

Go your own way and let someone else ride in the car.

Get rid of worldly ideas and strive for your own happiness.

Go your own way and let others do the talking.

I am a minor in psychology, and my teacher is a psychiatrist who is very skilled in marriage, so I can give some advice.

Like you, I'm a sophomore. I believe that you are in love with him, but this love may really be affected by the lack of fatherly love when you were a child, and you may not even be aware of it, because sometimes our subconscious we are not aware of it. My teacher once told us that she had a friend who was in a similar situation to you, but that friend was much older than you.

If you are really sure of his heart for you, don't tell him about your past. Sometimes sincerity doesn't lead to a more perfect love. If sometimes white lies can make each other happier, why risk ruining your love?

But here, I still have to remind you that you are still too young, and life is too variable, at least two years before you graduate, and in two years, he will be forty-four years old, can you guarantee that his heart will always be the same? Two people living together is not only love is enough, you should think about the problems you will face once you are really married, don't be blinded by love. Calm down and think about what is between you, between you and your parents.

is also a girl, these are just reminders that you should be happy to have such a perfect man in love. If he is really a man who can be relied on for a lifetime, take advantage of it.

I wish you happiness, and I wish all the girls in the world happiness.