How to build good relationships? Psychology of college students

Keep smiling and it will make people feel like you're good to work with. (I also have the trouble of seeing people, as long as they don't really annoy it, they will laugh unconsciously, hey...)To get back to the point, the people who ask this question are either introverts or are very smug and don't like it. So you can listen more on the occasion of someone talking, and make two sentences at the right time, such as Xiao Liu said how today's meal is, you can appropriately say your own opinion (this is for introverts, introverts can listen more, but you must speak, otherwise you will still be like that) and when you are obedient, focus on the other party, try not to look directly into the other person's eyes, you can nod slightly when listening, which will make people feel that you have been listening to him.

Anyway, pay attention to listening more and talking less (here less talk is because more words will be lost, of course, my brother has practiced, and now he is generally the protagonist of small talk).

First of all, in terms of treating people, you have to mingle with them, which is the basis for establishing a good interpersonal relationship, in the process of communicating with others, you should pay attention to your words and deeds, humor is the best, if you are not eloquent, don't talk about the sensitive places of the other party, and secondly, in terms of receiving things, you must know how to be generous, for example, a thing that you can do casually but is a very important thing in the eyes of others, then don't shirk, even if this thing is a little difficult to do, but within your ability, then don't shirk, It's important for others to feel your sincerity, which leads to better relationships.

Sincerity is the most important thing, there is also principle, and there is to be true to yourself, not pretentious.

Play together often, and the relationship will naturally be good.

Score men and women.,A lot of them.,Personally, I think if you want to set it, you have to be able to pretend.,If it's a play, it's okay.。

First, distinguish the priority of the problem, solve the problem first, and reduce the complaint and dissatisfaction.

The university is also the beginning of a collective life, students come from different provinces, everyone has different family backgrounds, and there are great differences in students' ideas, values, lifestyles and habits. The possibility of conflicts between classmates will increase, and there will be more complaints, but Wu Laoyu blindly complaining about others and staring at others' faults and shortcomings will not solve the problem, not only does not improve the interpersonal relationship of classmates, but will reduce your motivation to actively improve the relationship, so we should spend time on how to actively solve the problem of contradictions and improve the relationship, and less complain and dissatisfaction.

2. Adjust your mentality in time and do a good job of self-psychological adjustment.

Students come from all over the country, all over the world, each person's living habits and values are different, since they are destined to become classmates, become roommates, and live together, we must understand his (her) lifestyle and habits. When someone else's lifestyle has an impact on your life, you can offer your own opinions or suggestions, but it is more important to make appropriate self-adjustments. It is important to pay attention to the methods and skills when giving advice or suggestions to students.

You have to have a good mindset and maintain a positive outlook. The vast majority of students do not deliberately want to have conflicts with themselves, and they must not give advice to others in front of everyone, so as not to embarrass and lose face to the other party. When dealing with interpersonal relationships, learn to respect, tolerate, forbearance, and care, not to take personal likes and dislikes as evaluation standards, let alone impose their own standards on others, and to stand in the perspective of others.

3. Be good at listening, less accusation, more praise.

When talking to classmates, be good at listening to others, which is a sign of respect. Respect for others will invisibly satisfy the needs of the other person's self-esteem, win the favor of the other person, and deepen the relationship between each other. Everyone wants to be appreciated and praised and is afraid of being blamed by others.

Don't always criticize, blame and complain about others in your interactions, give them sincere appreciation and praise; If you must criticize someone, you should also praise them before criticizing them or subtly suggest that the other person is aware of your mistakes, which can win friendships. Being good at asking for help from your classmates and friends and building your own social support system will make your interpersonal relationships more harmonious.

Fourth, pay attention to the "degree" of exchanges, and grasp the direction, depth, and breadth of exchanges.

During the university period, I had more contact with my teachers, classmates and senior brothers and sisters, and asked them more about life and study problems, so that I could integrate into university life faster and better. To maintain a good interpersonal relationship, we must also grasp the direction, depth, and breadth. College students must have principles and standards for making friends, and they must be aware of them.

At the same time, the breadth should also be appropriate, and you must grasp it well.

College life is beautiful, but it's also complicated. When you meet new people during your college years, be more friendly and confident, treat others with sincerity and smiles, and you will definitely be able to create a better and happier university life, and your future life path will be broader and brighter.

1. Improve psychological quality. The interaction between people is the overall role of thought, ability, knowledge and psychology, and the lack of any aspect will affect the quality of interpersonal relationships. Some students have social fear, timidity, shyness, low self-esteem, indifference, loneliness, isolation, suspicion, pride, jealousy and other bad psychology in interpersonal communication, which are not easy to establish good interpersonal relationships.

Therefore, college students should strengthen self-training, improve their psychological quality, and interact with each other with a positive attitude.

2. Improve your interpersonal charm. Ying Zai Wu should say that each individual has its own inherent interpersonal charm, interpersonal charm is the embodiment of a person's comprehensive quality in social life, which requires college students to enrich their inner world, from appearance to conversation, from image to knowledge, to improve themselves in many ways. Psychological research has shown that a good social image will leave a deep impression on the other person in the first relationship, and as the relationship deepens, knowledge becomes more dominant.

In particular, the personality cultivation of university students expands their own connotation.

3. Empathy. This is important for building good relationships.

4.Make good use of praise and criticism. Psychologists believe that praise can release the energy of an individual and mobilize people's enthusiasm.

5.Take the initiative to socialize. Every college student in the prime of life needs to have a rich world of interpersonal relationships, and in this world to help and be helped, sympathize and be sympathized, love and be loved, and share joy and pain.

1. Accept others. Communication is not difficult, and not all of them are big-tailed wolves. Especially on university campuses, I feel that the society is still safer and more tolerant, so accepting others is the first step for college students to establish good interpersonal relationships.

2. Learn to be considerate of others. Everyone is a small public act in the family, but when it comes to collective society, others are not obliged to spoil you as a small public act like your parents. Therefore, at this time, we must learn to be independent, learn to live as an equal individual, and at the same time, learn to think about others, which will make you get along with your peers more harmoniously.

After all, no one wants to be friends with a selfish person.

3. Have your own thoughts. Many people's communication is because there is a collision of ideas. Therefore, read more books, read more newspapers, study hard, make progress every day, enrich your head, and make yourself a person with ideas, so that you can collide with the spark of more state key and more communication in interpersonal communication.

The core part of interpersonal communication is cooperation and communication. To cultivate communication skills, we must first have a positive attitude, understand others, care about others, take the initiative to interact with others in daily communication activities, do not passively avoid, dare to contact, especially dare to face people who are different from ourselves, and also be not afraid of origin, appearance, experience, do not close yourself because of coming from remote areas, bad looks or experience is not as good as others, and secondly, we must start small, pay attention to social etiquette, and accumulate a lot; Again, we must be good at doing, boldly go out of school, eliminate fear, strengthen the accumulation of knowledge in communication, experience in actual communication life, and grasp various methods and skills in interpersonal communication. In addition, we should realize that in the interaction with others, it is sincerity that moves people, making friends with sincerity, doing things with sincerity, sincerity can be exchanged for cooperation and communication with others, and sincerity is always one of the most precious feelings of human beings.

The master of everyone's life is actually themselves, the key is that you have to change, to have a strong desire to succeed, we hope that through the characteristics of interpersonal communication and the understanding of the principles of communication, we can make everyone understand some knowledge of communication. Combining these characteristics and principles, we find ways to develop our interpersonal skills and facilitate our own interpersonal relationships. Let those students who are unwilling to socialize, do not know how to communicate, and are not good at socializing in life, study and work, shape their own image, treat interpersonal communication with a positive attitude and behavior, and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships.

To make a contribution to improving the basic ability of college students.

1. Improve self-awareness and improve bad cognition.

When there is interpersonal conflict, some people will put their emotions on arguing about who is right and who is wrong, and the problem will be intensified, but if you can be aware, constantly know yourself, improve yourself, find possible problems from yourself, and take the initiative to improve it. Then, self-knowledge and interpersonal skills will continue to improve. In the process of interpersonal communication, it is necessary to understand others, start from the perspective of others, learn to empathize with others, and be considerate of others.

2. Master interpersonal skills and improve personal psychological quality.

Learn from your classmates who have strong interpersonal skills and observe how others interact with others. They all do what you like and how you should do it. Learn to praise others, praise is not hypocrisy, but fact-based appreciation, knowing that no one likes to be blamed, and praise may become a motivation for growth, and it will win good relationships.

In interpersonal communication, respect, sincerity, and understanding each other from the perspective of others are the foundation of interpersonal communication, and we need to learn to respect others, treat others with sincerity and put ourselves in the shoes of others.

3. Learn to control your emotions and avoid conflicts.

When there is a conflict with others, you must learn that Yu He does not use emotions to deal with things and call for ruin. When we have emotions, the words we say may be irrational and not what we want to express, so it is important to learn to control our emotions and deal with the present moment rationally, and we need to practice it in our daily life.

Be honest with others: Treating each other with sincerity is a prerequisite for building good interpersonal relationships, and there should be no thoughts of hurting others.

Be tolerant: Only generous people can achieve great things and get good interpersonal relationships.

Praise others: When interacting with others, learn to discover the strengths of the other person and praise them in a timely manner, so as to establish a good interpersonal relationship.

To establish a good interpersonal relationship, we must master some interpersonal communication skills, such as when interacting with others, we must empathize, be kind to others, do not want to answer what we want, do not do to others, but also be broad-minded, able to forgive others for some mistakes, but pure hail friends must pay attention to principles.

How can you build a good interpersonal relationship in college? First of all, you have to unite your classmates and your roommates. It is necessary to have a good degree of state and foci.

Deal with anyone. Look at everything and endure a moment of calm. In this way, you can have good interpersonal relationships.

It is very important to deal with interpersonal relationships in college, especially in the dormitory, and perhaps we should return to reality when we joke about "thank your roommates for not killing", think about society, think about how to enhance the communication and understanding between people and people, and how to establish good interpersonal relationships. In fact, the university is a small social circle, and it is imperative to establish tolerance, understanding and care among people. I hope that Guangwai will always be a big family with love!

Too happy to be shed] [too happy].

As long as you treat people sincerely, don't think about Li Yeduo, just be a good scumbag, what others think is someone else's business, you can't change the eyes of don't disturb people.

The interpersonal relationship in the university is very complicated, and the people are adults, smart and intelligent, and the relationship between Sakura people is very difficult to handle, so it is most important to be sincere.

If you want to build good interpersonal relationships in college, you should first get along with everyone, and you should not worry about everything, so that everyone will gradually accept you.

First of all, you have to learn to respect others, deal with your surroundings in a friendly way, try not to conflict with others, and have a good attitude.

This is easy, as long as you are cheerful, enthusiastic, and sincere to others, you will have a lot of friends.

If you want to build good interpersonal relationships in college, you need to see if your words and deeds are liked and supported by your classmates.