What if I don t get a job according to my parents will, they say I m selfish?

If you don't look for a job according to your parents' wishes, they say that you are selfish, and I think you should explain your point of view to them, only the job that you are interested in or the job that you are good at is the best, no, just follow your parents' advice.

Communicate well, after all, work is your own business, you have to understand the good intentions of your parents, but also let your parents know what job you need, and also think about what kind of difficulties you will face in the job you are looking for, as long as you come out to work, it is a good child for parents.

Take a long time to talk to your parents, tell your parents about your thoughts and characteristics, communicate more with your parents, and your parents will slowly understand you.

If your parents feel that your work is too far away to take care of your home, you can tell them how you feel, your plan, and see if they can understand it, if you still have morality to kidnap you or have too much control, don't care so much.

It's normal for this to happen now. Children have their own opinions. But.

You have to show the results. Have a good job performance and income. Do your parents still say about you?

In fact, they are also thinking about your future work and life. It's just that your ideas and views are not quite consistent, so. Contradictions arise.

Parents have their life experiences and lessons, and their opinions can be used as references, but they cannot rob you of your right to choose your life path. The so-called generation gap is that two generations have different perceptions of things and different ideas. Parents should respect the wishes of their adult children and should not impose or morally kidnap them.

Life is your own, and it is up to you to choose to complete it. Good parents will eventually understand and support you.

Hello, you can work hard and prove to your parents that your choice is right with your strength.

When your parents say that you are selfish, they are actually selfish, they just rely on their experience to think about your good, but whether it is good for you or not, only you know.

They're not selfish either. Interfering in your life.

To be more detailed, this thing has to be viewed dialectically, you don't understand the situation, and you feel that no one can help you.

Hello, I see your question, this is the answer for you, many parents because they have not received a good education, or the living environment will be more selfish, then for this kind of parents, we should communicate more, when parents only think about themselves, regardless of the feelings of their children, I will communicate with them, directly tell them that you should not do this, and then tell them what I want them to do, what they should actually do. After communication, they may encounter similar things next time, they are still self-centered, so it is better to let them read more books, so that they can know from the bottom of their hearts that they have done wrong. Selfish people, always think about whether they are happy most of the time, how they can make money, sometimes we can't stand it, if parents really can't change, let them properly try how difficult we are now, this is a good way.

I hope mine is helpful to you!