Who said that girls born in the 90s still dare to marry

There is no dare, only willingness, the key problem is that there is a generation gap, their ideas are too alternative If you can accept their alternative ideas, then you can marry.

I'm dizzy, my girlfriend is the post-90s, more conservative than me, in fact, the post-90s are what others say, how and how in fact, people are the same in any era, just find someone who loves you.

I'm also born in the 90s, but I'm a man. I think there are people who don't dare to marry. Too nymphomaniac--

Some of them are still okay. Look at the feeling, what you think is good is really good, and other people don't care.

Nonsense! However, I don't marry a Chinese one! Marry a Japanese! China's hopeless .........I want to study abroad!

I sleep in a row in class, I don't know how to take exams, my grades are basically in the single digits, I smoke and play cards, I never line up for dinner, I skip class in groups, I send text messages to arrears, I spend money on the street, I am drunk when I cross it, I forget my tiredness underground, I dance and break my tambourine, I ask if I close my eyes, I don't retreat from a hundred battles, I am not guilty of slashing people with Warcraft, and long live the garbage school.

Comrades!! This is the post-90s generation!! Do you dare to marry?

According to you, the boys after the 90s are not going to fight singles for the rest of their lives or take old women from the 2nd World War period.

Definitely not thinking differently.

It should not be possible to marry. There are too many gaps.

Because there are not many good men in the 90s. But the good women of the post-90s generation are very demanding. Therefore, good women are married, or waiting to marry good men, so more than 7% of post-90s men who are not very good will not be able to marry wives.

I have a female colleague born after 95 next to me, and I went back on a blind date this May Day holiday. As soon as she graduated, she was dragged on a blind date by her family since she was in college, and now she has at least eight times, and several of her blind dates have finally married girls born in the 80s.

She observed the people around her again and found that more and more post-90s would rather marry the post-80s than the post-95s. Doesn't it say that 80-year-olds or 18-year-olds love 18-year-old girls? Why is it that young men are now more and more accepting of marrying girls who are taller than their age?

Rather than saying that "more and more post-90s would rather marry post-80s than post-95s", it is better to say that now boys are less and less mindful of marrying girls who are a few years older than themselves, and it is also an era of popular sibling love.

Why are some boys more willing to marry girls older than themselves? Most of them are under pressure.

1. Reduce the pressure of life.

In terms of psychological maturity, girls are generally precocious than boys, post-80s girls come out of society early, experienced they can a certain extent to mention the post-90s boys who have not been out of society for a long time, and post-80s girls can guide the post-90s confused boys who have just come out of society not long after their lives or careers, so as to reduce their pressure to cope with society.

In addition, post-80s girls have a certain ability to make money, and they are more attractive to men with independent economic thoughts, and work together to reduce the pressure of life.

2. Female junior, hugging gold bricks.

Now the ratio of men and women is not coordinated, so boys do not refuse to be with girls older than themselves, and now girls generally dress up and maintain, sometimes you can't tell which age is older in a couple. Many boys even bluntly said that they would rather marry a girl who is a few years older and can maintain and dress up than marry a girl who is a few years younger and does not look old.

In addition, young people like to show off their personalities, and immature post-95 girls seem to them to be more contrived and willful, many post-90s who really want to find someone to marry and live find that some post-95 girls are still uncertain and difficult to serve, all kinds of willfulness, they are more willing to marry mature post-80s girls who understand them and mature.

After the girl is not in a hurry to get married.

Nowadays, the age of marriage for young people is getting later and later, and some women advocate getting married later, and a very small number of girls bluntly say that they want not to get married. The reality is that young girls born after 95 don't want to marry early, they feel that they are just babies and don't want to be restrained by their families so early; And older single women are also anxious to find someone to live when the time is right.

There is a long difference between those who are willing to marry and those who are not willing to marry, even if the post-90s boys have the heart to marry the post-95 girls, but the post-95s girls are not necessarily willing to marry, and the post-90s boys certainly choose the girl who has the heart to live with him.

No matter who is older than the man and woman, it is not the point, the two parties run a marriage together, the most important thing is whether there is a heart, whether there is a correct mentality, be responsible for everyone, be responsible for this relationship, the mentality is in place, the person who loves each other runs in successfully, and naturally can work together until he is old.

Because the post-80s generation can talk about marriage immediately, and they are all stable in their jobs and very mature mentally.

Because many people in the post-95s will seem pampered and buried, and when the post-80s generation is concerned, they have become very mature and stable. There won't be too many contradictions in your love life.

Because the post-95 generation is very hypocritical, and their self-care ability is very weak, they lack assertiveness, and they don't have any concept of money, and they can spend it as they want.

It's because Lu Jian is now Zen Some prejudices against the post-95s generation, and maybe some girls born in the 95s are more independent in their thinking than Sun Xichen, and they have higher requirements for the other half.

The situation that the post-90s are unwilling to marry the post-95s does exist, and the situation of preferring to marry the post-80s rather than the post-95s occurs occasionally but is not common, and the more common is that the post-90s would rather be single than marry the post-95s.

Regardless of who the post-90s would prefer to marry, let's take a look at why the post-90s are unwilling to marry the post-95s. According to the conclusions of my friends close to me, there are three main reasons for this kind of thinking.

First, the post-95s generation is immature. For them who are still in college or entering the workforce, it is indeed a bit difficult to demand maturity of thought. And the children of this generation basically grew up in the doting of their parents, and they don't have a clear plan for their lives, and they don't know what they want, and more often they do what they want.

When you enter a marriage when you are not mentally prepared, not only will it be hard for yourself, but it will be even more difficult for the other party to maintain.

Second, willful and stubborn. The children of the post-95 generation grow up in a rapidly developing social environment, and in order not to lose at the starting line, the children of this generation see, use, and think more extensively. Parents are even more responsive to their children's requirements, but they are afraid that their children will not ask for them, so they will develop their children's willful, stubborn, and non-bowing personalities.

Anyway, with the support of his parents, he can do whatever he wants.

Third, there is a lot of pressure on the family. It is precisely because the parents of the post-95 generation invest too much emotion and expectation in their children, so they will also hope to get more returns, and such requirements will also be reflected in the marriage of their children. Choosing a son-in-law has naturally become the most important thing for parents, from hardware to software, from individuals to families.

Who can say that such pressure is easy?

On the contrary around me, the first generation of post-90s would rather find the post-95s than the post-80s, unless a huge sum of money is given. Sister and brother love like a mother with a son.,The boy is already sensible.,You can only have more in common with girls who are younger than yourself.,It's good to be able to play games or something together with a man who is older than yourself.,There's no common language with women older than yourself.。

Because the post-95s have grown up with thousands of favors, they have never suffered, and the post-90s generation will have a hard time living with them.

Because the current post-95 marriage concept is very poor, they require the other half to be excellent, but they are very poor, so they are more willing to marry post-80s girls.

Because some post-95 people's bride price is too high, they always think that it is natural for people to be good to her, and there is no reality for people who are not good after 80s.