Should I agree to his pursuit or whatever?

I think you can take it.

You don't know if you have love for him.

You didn't hide from him after hearing his confession, you just got along with him as you were.

Then you can know the confession of your heart to him.

I don't like it very much, but I don't dislike it.

This means that more or less you have feelings for him.

It's just that you've been a friend for so long that you can't tell who you really are for him.

Love or friendship.

If you want to know what you think, you can do a simple test.

You take out a piece of paper and a pen.

Write down what you can and can't give up for him.

When there are more that can be given up than what cannot be given up.

That's what you have feelings for him.

It seems to me that he is very sincere with you.

A man can give a woman to his family.

Especially when it comes to showing it to your mother.

Then he treats you as another partner in his life.

As for the age gap between you, I don't think it's a problem.

My dad was 13 years older than my mom.

But they have never had problems with the age gap.

It's not the age that matters, it's just the amount that matters.

Can you respect each other's individuality?

Don't invade another person's little world.

Let's build your little world together.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

Mrs. is too long,. The eyes are glazed. In fact, others can't help you with such a problem, because we don't have contact with the boy you said in reality, so we can't understand his good and bad.

Love has nothing to do with age! But take responsibility for yourself and each other.

Age is not a problem, for him maybe you just have dependence, you can make your feelings clear to him, try to date for a while.

The landlord is very lucky, because your love can not be limited by money or material, but the landlord is very unlucky, because you close the door of your heart tightly.

The injured person should be slowly covered with warm water, and the landlord may wish to give him a chance, after all, the landlord always needs someone to accompany him, otherwise it will be too lonely. But you have to go with the flow, it's not good to be too deliberate.

Another is the issue of age, it is said that boys will be more gentle and considerate when they are older, so this is not a problem, but an advantage.

Give him a chance.

He told his family everything, no matter how credible it is, and how much he believes it once and again.

And, to hear you say that, he's still full.

Finally finished reading.

First: Age is not a problem, after all, he is 9 years older than you, not 9 years older than you, women who have given birth to children and age quickly. Unavoidable.

Second: Refuse it first, the reason can be nonsense, talk about material points, say that he has no money or something, and has no career foundation. Say you're still young, wait, but don't hurt too much. Look at your own mental state and his performance for a month or more.

Third, if he still persists, if he behaves consistently for the rest of the apart, OK, ask him to take you back to his house.

Fourth, I wish you to find your true love.

PS: Just for reference.

It's a bit like ** or an idol drama.

How so? Whether he is sincere or not, no one can make the most accurate judgment based on your words alone.

People's hearts are unpredictable, if he is sincere, you will miss it if you don't accept it, if he is not sincere, you will face harm if you accept it.

But I think that people have to experience their own personal experience in order to grow, people grow the road, no one walks all the way, career love, family and friendship, there are always things that do not go well, there are always things that disappoint you, and even abandonment, betrayal, betrayal...

But you have to go through this to grow, to become brave and strong.

Therefore, I advise you to be brave enough to love, don't miss a love, even if he is not the right person and cannot get love, but you will also get a chance to grow.

Seeing that you have written so much, I have thought about it a lot for you. From a man's point of view, he really likes you and really wants to be nice to you, but you have some values that you don't agree on. As for his values......I don't think that's right, that's just the selfish thoughts of the rich.

But his honesty can be seen in his willingness to be honest with you. To be honest, I think he can measure love and even sex with money, maybe his behavior is more reliable now, but after a long time, this kind of person is unreliable after all. It is not necessarily that there will be no change of mind after marriage.

After all, you can't measure the performance of the moment later, forever, right? Your happiness is in your own hands, and the right to decide what to do is in your hands, I can only give you some advice, and in the end it is up to you. I think the most important thing is to find someone you love and deserve love.

As for the result, it's all fate I hope you can grasp happiness and make a choice that makes you have no regrets! I wish you happiness

Seriously, it's better to stay away from such a man, although he is good to you now, but his character is not good.

I don't understand this, because I only know that there are two kinds of people in the world, either people who are ambitious in love or people who are ambitious in their careers. "Only by understanding can we solve the contradictions in our hearts. "The above is only my opinion and is for reference only. Not necessarily right, because everyone has their own ideas, thank you.

In 03, I went to college from a small town in the southwest to the northeast, and after the military training, I fell in love with the sports committee of the class. The sun is handsome, he plays football well, plays basketball well, sings well, has a straight and straight nose, and looks like Andy Lau. At that time, I was full of acne blown by the wind in the Northeast, and I was fattened by 20 pounds of rice in the Northeast, so I had no confidence in myself, so I kept this love in my heart, silently paid attention to him, and had a crush on him.

Watching him play football, watching him play basketball, listening to him sing, all eyes are on him.

At that time, physical education class"It's all optional, I choose the health ball? He chooses Sanda, and his classes are in the same venue, and every time he passes by our venue, he will give him the brightest smile, and he will also respond politely: The class organizes to go rowing in the park?

Seeing that he took the oar, I also quietly grabbed an oar, and stood silently behind him, making"It just so happened"a boat's chance; My favorite thing is to listen to reports and exams, because the two of us are next to each other, and at this time, Bo Xue? Sequential sitting: Mid-Autumn plucked up the courage to send him a text message"The moon is so round tonight", the roommate also jokingly texted him"Someone wants to ask you out to see the moon", but no response was received.

Later, he fell in love, and a girl who was not very outstanding, saw him give flowers to the girl, and cried sadly and desperately buried in the bed, and after crying he made up his mind to forget him.

Later, he broke up, but at that time, he was too timid and unconfident to take the initiative to fight for it.

Socializing in college. Or through QQ and the school intranet. During the May Day holiday in junior year, it was too boring to stay in the dormitory, coupled with the longing for hot pot, I signed on QQ and sent a "Stool source wants to eat hot pot, who invited me to eat hot pot".

Unexpectedly, it didn't take long for his avatar to flash, appearing on the screen with the words "I invite you to eat hot pot". Wow, suddenly that heart was full of joy, and I was so happy that I pinched myself several times before I dared to believe that this was not a dream. Yes, just one meal, you can make me happy like this, only to find out what to forget about him, just to paralyze himself with a lie, and the meal is in Jinguancheng outside the north gate of the school?

Strings of incense. The meal was a great one. I don't remember what the taste tastes for a long time, but I remember chatting all the time, teaching him the skills of soup hot pot, and constantly serving him good dishes.

After eating, he sent me back to the dormitory, passing by the garden on the way, and while I was admiring the flowers, he suddenly said, "Your eyes are so beautiful." I'll go, my intuition judges that this is a play!

I went back to the pain room at night and updated the log on everyone's Q: I'm very happy today, and I've waited for that day. He replied: I hope you are happy every day. This can be regarded as a mutual expression.

The next day, he went directly downstairs to the bedroom and confessed to me, I didn't even think about it and agreed, and nodded like a chicken pecking ......riceSo, my first love officially started from the May Day holiday of my junior year.

Twelve years have passed, and we have always been together, never separated.