Why are boys in society less emotionally active these days?

Boys in society now are not very active emotionally because life is too stressful now. Chasing a girlfriend consumes a lot of energy and financial resources. What young people lack now is financial resources and high work pressure, even if they have to face the pressure of a family of three after participating.

Now in this society, boys are getting more and more tired and can't catch up more and more!

One. I have low self-esteem in my heart and dare not chase girls.

Some boys feel inferior to girls in all aspects because of their poor economic conditions at home, or because girls are too good, and they feel inferior to girls in their hearts, and they dare not confess to the girls they like, for fear of rejection.

Two. There is a lot of financial pressure, and I am worried that I will not be able to give the girl the happiness she wants.

Many boys think that girls are becoming more and more materialistic, their family conditions are not very good, and their wages are not very high, if a girl wants this and that, and they can't satisfy her, not only can they not give her the happiness they want, but they will also be very tired.

Three. Know what you want, and don't settle for it.

In the current information age, the spread of ideas is more extensive, and today's boys know more about what they want, and they also pay attention to their inner feelings.

Boys in society are not very active emotionally for two reasons.

On the one hand, judging from the current social situation, if boys pay too much, sometimes they will fail in the end. Even say that you may have worked hard to manage a relationship, but after being directly given up by the woman, then you will feel very lost. It's that you give everything, but in the end it's empty, so many people are not willing to give too much emotion.

On the other hand, there are changes in society. The development of society, boys gradually develop to femininity, women to masculine development, that is to say, gender differences are becoming more and more comprehensive, then there is no more, the original kind of particularly active attributes but more stable or even passive boys also exist, so it will lead to some boys are not very active emotionally, which is also understandable.

There are many possible reasons for this, but one of the most important is a lack of self-confidence.

Today's children are usually the little emperors of the family, and without the protection of their families outside, they often run into walls, and they encounter many setbacks, so they naturally lack self-confidence.

In addition, there is a problem that the easier it is to get, the more bad it feels, boys are too active, girls are not allowed, at this time boys have encountered setbacks, and they dare not easily approach girls, afraid of failure and afraid of losing.

Girls take the initiative, but it is easier to achieve a relationship.

Nowadays, there are still many boys in society who are emotionally active, and they account for the majority. What you call not very proactive is only a small part. It is not possible to generalize.

Boys in society are not very emotionally active, and the main reason is that they are under pressure. From two aspects: first, from the perspective of the boys themselves, they are under great pressure at work and busy with all kinds of entertainment, so they have limited time to spend on their feelings; There is also the investment in emotions that may be greater than the investment in work (time, money, energy).

Secondly, from the perspective of girls, they have higher and higher requirements for boys, not only to have a good job, but also to have time to spend with and have a solid family ......Wait a minute. All of the above are the reasons that lead to the stress of boys in society.

Nowadays, boys in society are not very active emotionally, and more are not emotional. There are also a lot of boys now, blindly like online games, more are occupied by some things on the Internet, all the thinking space, so they rarely scatter their emotions. There is also no time to delay themselves emotionally, so many of them are addicted to the Internet.

In addition, the standards for this kind of mate selection for girls are very high, and the material requirements are also very high, and many boys will be discouraged. It's more about the fear of rejection, so it's not how to take the initiative? This is also the reason why a boy is reluctant to take the initiative.

Same as I thought, so be it!

Now boys in society are not very active emotionally, the main reason is that today's girls are more material in their emotions, and boys have a correct understanding of themselves, rational treatment of feelings, before the two parties determine the relationship, boys are worried that they will not get a response from the girl's active emotional pay, so now the boys in the society are not very active emotionally.

Boys do not take the initiative to divide into the following:

1.Boys are more introverted, shy, and a little embarrassed to take the initiative, for fear of the embarrassment of your refusal.

2.There will be a lot of boys who take the initiative, but there are many initiatives, such as apologizing or something, it is really difficult to take the initiative to apologize or something in the future, but there are no more than three, but boys may take the initiative to apologize hundreds of times, but they will really not apologize after hundreds of times.

3, I think it's actually good that a boy doesn't take the initiative, he won't force you to do a lot of things, and the possibility of meeting a scumbag will be much smaller.

Boys may be less proactive because of a lack of self-confidence. Because now you girls are becoming more and more independent and getting better and better, which makes boys not very active emotionally, afraid that they are not good enough to be recognized by girls.

As the saying goes, men chase women across the mountain and women chase men across the veil, in this world, men are like mountains, is a symbol of great strength, women are as gentle as water, tender, and feel a little weaker. Usually, it is the boys who pursue the girls, and the girls are more reserved and reserved, and there are far fewer who take the initiative to chase the boys. If a boy is not very active, it means that he is introverted and not good at expressing feelings.

In this way, there is no advantage in love. A manly man, if you love, you must have the courage to express it, so as not to let love slip away from your fingertips.

Not taking the initiative to contact does not necessarily mean that you don't like it, because some men lack self-confidence, are sensitive and suspicious, and dare not take the initiative, some men are experienced and good at static braking, and some men are busy with other things and have no time to take care of their feelings, so it is possible. If you simply ask such a question, it will be too vague, and it will be difficult to analyze what kind of attitude the other person has towards you, and you still have to talk about things on a case-by-case basis.

The main non-initiative has to do with a person's character. The lack of initiative is related to many factors, such as the personality of the man himself. If a man doesn't love you, he won't just take the initiative, he will pull away from your life.

In other words, if you assume that your life won't change without this man, it means that this man can give up. Just because you don't reach out to your man doesn't mean you won't care about you and take care of you where you can't see. Remembering your birthday, knowing when you can't eat cold, including eating together to help yourself pick what you don't like, are all proof of love.

Sometimes, it's just that he's introverted and not very active.

I don't think it's because some straight men feel this way too. It's not that he doesn't want to contact you, it's that there is nothing on a daily basis that doesn't need to be contacted because he has his own things to do, especially in long-distance relationships, which is very common. The boy always doesn't contact his girlfriend, and then the girlfriend is in a hurry and always complains about the boy, and the boy is more aggrieved at this time.

In most cases, it's right to distinguish how men feel about themselves in that way, but there are also many situations where men have you in their hearts, but they may not reach out to you. A man who has you in his heart but doesn't want to take the initiative to contact you, do you know what he thinks? Generally speaking, guys feel sorry for you, but they don't take the initiative to contact you, but because of these reasons.

There are some guys who like you, but aren't sure if you like him too. At this moment, he doesn't dare to contact you rashly. Because he doesn't want to fight a battle that he doesn't have, he's afraid that he will contact you rashly.

Not only can he not get your favor, but he can only lose you all the time because of small losses. So he thought, hesitating to take a look first.

Not all guys, when they meet someone they love, men will never take the initiative to contact you, but they have the courage to approach you. It is true that there are many boys, no matter how much they have feelings for you, they dare not be positive to you and dare not express feelings for you. He is really passive, very shy, and has no idea how to get along with you and how to solve his feelings for you.

In relationships, love is important, but so is opportunity. Approaching someone who knows you at the wrong time usually doesn't end well. Therefore, that person has you in his heart, but he does not take the initiative to contact you.

He may feel that the opportunity is not perfect and wants to wait for you to get to know him better and better, and for you to get to know him better and better.

Yes, of course. Because if a man likes a woman, he will be particularly active, and if the man does not take the initiative, it means that he does not love you at all.

Yes, if two people don't take the initiative to see each other in the process of getting along, the other party doesn't like themselves at all, and they won't have any feelings for themselves.

When they pursue a girl who is in a good relationship, they will have a sense of accomplishment in their hearts. Not every relationship is suitable, so there are so many couples on and off who have not only been in love. If you've been dating Sakura for a while and he doesn't think you're a good fit, then he'll start to distance himself from you and stop looking for you.

The goal is to make you disappointed in the relationship and then break up.

In the eyes of many people, love often requires men to take the initiative and men to pay more, but in fact, true love is the mutual maintenance between you and me, and the enthusiasm of only one party will be exhausted sooner or later. But it is only possible for two people to help each other if they continue to deepen their feelings for each other. More often than not, men are not unwilling to take the initiative, but are afraid of the price they pay after taking the initiative.

If you're genuinely giving and don't get the feedback you want, then your enthusiasm for taking the initiative will wane.

If you have other goals emotionally, it means that you are less attractive to him, or that there is a contradiction or gap in your feelings. This way, others may take advantage of it. You should take the opportunity to communicate with your boyfriend or pay attention to the clues he leaves in his life.

It may be that you have been in a bad mood lately and are not very happy. Of course, it could be that there were some conflicts between you, or that you had a fight before, but after the fight, you didn't solve your problems well, but you ran away from each other. Although you don't mention something, it's still there and won't go away.

The boy also knew that they should have a car, a house, a deposit and a good living condition for the woman. They will live very happily ever after. However, even if I have personality, character, and tolerance, I will still fail as long as I have difficult economic conditions that must be met.

In a relationship, a man will give everything to love someone, but the person who gives everything for love may end up hurting himself. For a person, falling out of love is a complete change in his heart, because after being hurt by a person, he will grow up repeatedly in the pain of falling out of love, and eventually disbelieve in his feelings.

I think Zen shouts because many boys are gradually tired of this feeling in the relationship of the gods, and they can't raise their desire to conquer, so many boys are becoming less and less active.

In the relationship, many boys are becoming less and less active, and I think that there are too many times they may be hurt!

It's because I'm busy at work now, and I don't necessarily get a return for my efforts, so I'm becoming less and less proactive.

Most of the time you spend together, the more boring you will feel, if it is not suitable or not loving enough.

I think this is a sign that men don't want to fall in love, because there is more financial pressure to fall in love now, and they will feel more irritable.

Alas, I think it's normal for girls to be too active nowadays, so boys are becoming less and less active. What could it be? Today's boys sometimes live alone more self-consciously. Mom's people feel unwilling to give.

Many people have been numb to feelings because they have fallen in love again and again, you have to let such a boy take the initiative, he will feel very tired, based on this, many men, including many boys, he has become more and more indifferent to his feelings, life, and finally indifferent to the point that we can't tolerate it. That's what a lot of guys look like.

There are a lot of boys in the relationship, and now they are becoming less and less active, that's because now in fact, boys are more realistic, when he doesn't meet the person he particularly likes, he may not choose to take the initiative and secondly, he feels that he doesn't have the ability to take care of each other, for example, he thinks that the other party is a good girl to eat, but he is very demanding in all aspects, but when he himself has not met that condition, he may not take the initiative to pursue.