Why are more and more boys reluctant to get married now?

There may be a small number of people who do not want to get married, and most of them are still willing to get married, and a few people may have suffered serious setbacks on the issue of marriage, and they have chosen to give up under multiple pressures, and in today's new era where personal privacy is respected, it has also created a good environment for their choice.

Because the married friends around me are under a lot of pressure, and many people overconsume, they are not happy, they can't bear the pressure of getting married and having children, houses, cars, people are sophisticated, old and young, etc., it is better to be at ease alone (unless you really meet someone who wants to get married) is basically afraid to face it before you meet it.

It's not that they don't want to get married, it's that many people can't find a partner at all, and the man must have the ability to support his family in order to start a family, otherwise the woman will suffer and suffer. But they don't know how to be motivated, they are lazy to eat, they want to eat soft rice, and they complain about women's substance. In fact, the most essential reason is that I have no ability, you see those men who have the ability, and the women have to marry.

How many people have ever mistaken hormones for love.

Hormones decide love at first sight, dopamine determines longevity, adrenal glands decide whether to shoot or not, and self-esteem determines who speaks first.

Whether life is good after marriage depends on how much pocket money you get! Discussing married life, I have a monthly salary of 1w, but I only have 500 in my hand. Dude said: Your life is good, and the salary is just a text message to me. Salary, for me, is just a text message.

Because young people nowadays are more and more fond of freedom and do not like to be bound to get married.

Because of the pressure, marriage is money, after marriage is money, there can be no car, there must be a house, each region is different, the bride price is different, a wedding is also money, there is no money, why get married, I guess that's it.

Today's boys are reluctant to get married because they feel free to be single, free and stressed, and do their own thing.

Because of the influence of many emotional TV series and movies, as well as his own personal experience, boys in society now don't believe in love very much.

Why am I reluctant to get married, this is my situation.

One, there are many failures, and there is no enthusiasm.

To say that you don't want to get married is false. Seeing others in pairs, I still have some envy, and I also hope that there will be someone together.

Every time I put a lot of time and effort into it, I failed, and now I start to doubt that I can still get married.

Second, the inferiority complex in the heart.

When I just graduated, with a salary of 2,000, I always felt that 18,000 yuan was a small amount of money.

Now that I'm older, I'm no longer tempered by reality, I've lost my ambitions, and there's no light in my eyes. Looking at such a pitiful salary every day, I feel that it is difficult to support myself, and I have the courage to get married.

Now even if you meet a girl you like, you don't dare to pursue it boldly, for fear of rejection, and for fear that you are not able to take on family responsibilities.

It's still single to save money, nibble on steamed buns, eat a bowl of instant noodles, and the day can pass.

I feel that I have achieved nothing, my income is not high, I have no house or car, not only do I hate it by others, but I hate it.

Third, get used to being single and ascend to this life.

After so many years of being single, I have long been accustomed to living alone. In addition to going to work every day, I basically stay at home, and I usually don't like to talk or communicate with others. It's nice to be alone and quiet.

Once you get married, what you face every day is the woman's chattering and non-stop, and sometimes it's terrible to think about this kind of noisy and unbridled life.

I'm used to being single, it's hard to get along with others, and I don't know how to get along with girls. It's difficult to even communicate, let alone coax girls to be happy.

For my introverted personality. Chasing girls is much more difficult than taking exams.

There is a high probability that no one will want this kind of honest person, this kind of person is very boring, not the type that girls like, so it's good to be alone.

It's not surprising that you change the male character to the female character, and the question is also valid.

I believe that there are many boys around us, who have never been in love or married. Actually, many people know about it.

As boys, they are very eager for love. Because love is happy, it is very beautiful, especially when we meet someone we like, then many boys will be very positive, and they will be very active. They will care for each other with their hearts and love each other.

Because they hope that through their care and love, they can be with the person they like, and they will also be able to have happiness and sweet love.

But we see that there are a lot of boys now. None of them are in love. I don't want to get married. So some people just wonder why there are so many boys now, they don't fall in love and they don't get married.

First of all, because there are many girls now, they are very argumentative of reality, especially in love. They always have all kinds of very high demands on boys, and they demand good families and good jobs. Even when boys and girls are together, they also require boys to be very attentive to the girls.

If the boy can't do this or doesn't treat the girl very well, then the girl definitely doesn't want to be with the boy. So we see that although there are a lot of them. Boys want to be with girls, but because they can't meet or can't meet the girl's requirements and conditions.

So they can only choose to be single.

Of course, we also see that there are some defeated boys because they don't have a good job yet, they know that they are not so good, so they hope that they can put more time and energy into trying to improve themselves, so we see that they are very serious about studying and working hard. Because they hope that through this, they can make themselves better, and ultimately they will be able to have a better future.

So we do see a lot of guys around us who don't fall in love and don't get married. But in fact, for these boys, they also know that love is happy, and it is very beautiful.

So for these boys, if they want to have love, then they themselves have to work very hard first, because only if they work harder. In this way, they will be more excellent, and only when they are more excellent, so that they can find the right girl for themselves, so that the two can get along better together, and finally let the boy have a happy and beautiful love suitable for himself.

There are many reasons why modern young people are reluctant to get married, such as work pressure, housing pressure, life pressure, loan pressure, and support for the elderly.

With the development of the economy, although the standard of living is much higher, modern young people are facing unprecedented pressure, they dare not fall in love, and even their own survival is a problem, let alone dare to think about starting a family. If you have money, no one wants to be single, which is caused by many pressures.

In the past, the carriage and horses were very slow, the mail was very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime. However, modern love comes and goes quickly!

The kinder party paid money and time, but in the end ended up with a "no people and money", the risk cost of marriage has increased, and Qi Kuan has been consumed. Modern young people really don't dare to get married casually, unless they are really very rich and have always had the ability to support their families, otherwise they just raised their husbands (daughters-in-law) for others, and in the end, Gao Yunliang outweighed the loss, there are too many people who are spare tires!

Even if a person finds a second marriage, it is raising children for others, not biological children, no matter what, people will still find their biological parents when they grow up.

The previous marriage was very simple, a cow, a sheep, or even a dustpan of soybeans or a sack of sweet potatoes. Today's love, the three major pieces (house, car, ticket) are all indispensable. In the past, it was all about feelings, but now it's all about silver.

If you have less silver, you don't dare to get married, and if you have more silver, you will have confidence, which can be described as "drought and waterlogging".

Young people, without capital, really dare not step into marriage, just like some girls say: "Your little silver is not as expensive as my box of cosmetics!" ”

Although the young boy has a smile on his face, only he knows the pain and pain in his heart. Others are persuading you to get married, but in fact they can't help.

The garage bride price is introverted.