What to do when a man wants to give up love when he is facing a career

Updated on society 2024-04-13
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think the two are opposites, talk to your "little child" well, ask her to cooperate with you as much as possible, because you love her very much, and you are reluctant to give her, but in order to make everyone's life happier in the future, you must choose to work hard and work hard now, and then see her reaction, I hope she will understand you and bless you!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How can I love you, my dear?

    Whenever I sit alone on the balcony at night, looking at the stars in the sky and the sea in the dark, there is always a question in my head, my dear, how can I love you?

    She and I are deeply in love with each other, when we start a relationship, I always hope to see her all the time, thinking about her every second, but after a long time, I found that I yearn for more freedom, although she can do it, accompany me all the time after work, but I can't do it all the time with her after work, dear, it's not that I don't love you, maybe it can only be said that I don't love you enough, although I have also tried to stay at home alone, waiting for the other party to come back how lonely and helpless, Although I also know that even if I only have one time in a month, I will feel very lonely, after all, we are both deeply in love with each other, but I really want to be free, although she doesn't say anything to me every time I go out, and gives me freedom, but I know that she is very uncomfortable in her heart, should I change the way I love you?

    Or or. How can I love you, my dear?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take her with you, since you say that she is the other half of your life, are you willing to give up?

    Love can be talked about many times, but the other half is not so easy to find, and you should cherish it if you find it.

    Money can be earned again, career can be worked harder, and people will never come back if they miss it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't talk to me about any career, to put it bluntly, it's just a good income. I think you have the talent to make money, and you can earn it in the future. Making a fortune at the age of 30 is not a shameful thing.

    If true love is lost, it is difficult to find, and it will be abandoned because of a good income, which is shameful and hateful. At the age of 30, you haven't really loved, and you really lack a kind of dignity that life should have. You didn't make any money, you can still make it.

    How can you make up for hurting your love? A lifetime of pain. Money, money, makes people lose their nature.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Career is important, but don't leave your feelings behind, take her with you if possible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I was afraid that she would lose it, so I took her with me. If you have to go far away, can't you take her with you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Take her with you! No matter what, you can't lose your career!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Needless to say, as long as there is a promising career, there should be no hesitation.

    However, if your status is as high as that of the Duke of Windsor in the British Empire, and even if you give up your career, you can still be a dignitary, then it doesn't hurt to give up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You must know clearly what you want, what is more important to you, and know that choosing a person is equivalent to choosing a life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You must develop your own career first, and only with a career can you have the ability to take care of her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Start a business first and then start a family.

    If a man has no country, how can he have the strength to love beauty?

    Or take her with you, and give her up if you can't.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It would be sad to give up all of them, so I recommend taking care of them often outside of work.

    Such men are the best.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's still possible to find a good woman if you lose it, and it's not so easy to find a good woman, and you want to see if she's worth giving up your job?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think love is the most important thing, what else will you cherish if you don't understand love, and will your career still be successful?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do men put their careers first, but if they have a career, they don't have a woman?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Which is important? If you go to a far place, you still have to come back, right?

    Love has to stand the test.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should focus on your career!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think I need to give up something, you think about it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A man who is willing to give up love for the sake of his career may not be a completely good man, but such a choice is also excusable. In fact, if you only focus on your own career, then there is no way to take care of your own life and your family, and such people may not be recognized by more people in real life. <>

    Casual interview with a girl believes that girls are not willing to let their boyfriend or their partner give up their choice of work, although girls do want to make their partner better. But this is based on the joint efforts of two people, not their own partners, and they have to give up themselves to be better. Don't give up love for the sake of your career, and don't give up your career for love, you can take care of both, not choose 1 of 2.

    If you want to get a better career in the process of falling in love, then you can choose to get what you have always wanted through your own efforts, which is a truly meaningful choice. But giving up one's love for the sake of one's own work also makes people feel very irresponsible. It cannot be said that it is very good for a man to give up his partner for his own development, because this behavior seems to be chasing his own future, but in fact, it can be seen that men have no respect for their partners at all.

    A good man will not give up his job, nor will he give up his love, if he casually gives up his love because of work, I believe that this man is not particularly serious about feelings. A person's good or bad is not just to be decided in this way, but to see if a man can balance his feelings and his career.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't think so. Because love is sacred, among hundreds of millions of people, you have encountered love, how difficult it is, and you give up him for the cause, there are many opportunities for the career to rise, not this is an opportunity, give up love for the cause, I think you will regret it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think he's a good man, and although such a man may be successful in his career, he is a very cold-blooded person for his lover and loved ones.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think he's a good man, because this kind of man is irresponsible for his family, is a very selfish person, and only values his career.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Dongfang Hong of "Our Days", gave up his hard-won career for his beloved Wang Xuehua, I think it's not worth it, the cost of giving up his career is too high.

    Because Dongfang is in the rising stage of his career, it shows that he has put in a lot of effort before, and it has begun to pay off. Anyone with a little life experience knows that opportunities are hard to come by in a person's life, and if you give up once, you really don't know when it will appear next time. Therefore, I think no one should give up their career easily, otherwise they will face the following two problems.

    First, giving up your career often makes you lose the right to speak in your family.

    Men are very practical, and they will calculate the value of each other by calculating the degree to which each person pays for the family. And this way of calculation, directly quantifying how much money is provided to the family, when so calculated, he will weaken your value.

    Of course, there are some good men who will consider taking the woman's family contribution into account, such as doing housework, taking care of children, and taking care of the family. But the initiative is in the hands of the man, not in your hands, he can calculate or ignore. Even if he talks wildly, there is no guarantee that he may regret it later.

    Second, Zheng Tang, you don't have a career, and if you don't have a sense of security, you will have serious marital problems.

    Many women who return to the family, if they lack a sense of security and lose their careers, will suffer from gains and losses. At this time, I often use the method of "pure work" and "trouble" to test whether my husband still loves himself. Or because he has no career and his mind is on his family and husband, he will pay special attention to him.

    When we take our partner too seriously and revolve around him, we are extraordinarily sensitive, and his casual words can stab us. And our sensitivity will put great pressure on him, and the relationship will enter a bad cycle, so that the relationship will break down.

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