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<> to talk about the relationship between the two, I personally feel that marriage has more weight. That is, if a person achieves success at the expense of marriage, or, in the process of success, harms the marriage or family, it is not a real success.
When I was young, I really wouldn't put marriage in such an important position in my life. I feel that as long as you have a successful career, have money and leisure and are respected, it is a kind of success. With the baptism of the years, there will be more and more mysteries.
Those who are unhappy in their marriages, or who do not hesitate to neglect their marriage or family in order to succeed, often do not end up with great success. There are also those who start to get carried away after success, start to spend all day drinking, and hurt their marriage and family, and the end seems to be similar, that is, the money is scattered and they are sick. Therefore, success that is not based on the success of marriage is just a mirage, a flash in the pan.
True success should be a balance between family, career and health. It's not that you have to be like Bill Gates, like Zalberg, who is rich and wealthy at the same time, but also happily married, after all, there are only a few. Rather, as long as you can put your marriage in the same important position as your career, do not win success at the cost of hurting your marriage and family, and can achieve a rough balance between yourself, your people, your family and your career, it is an ordinary success.
Moreover, what accompanies a person to the end of his life must not be all the fame and fortune after your success, but the partner who has always been with you in that marriage. Therefore, what is the most important and what is most cherished can be seen and carried clearly by wise people. As the saying goes, the last passbook in your life is not your bank card, but your wife.
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In fact, I don't think marriage and success are contradictory. Many people think that their marriage is particularly good and they think that it will not be successful, and they will think that their career must be bad, in fact, I think this kind of thinking is particularly wrong, whether you are focusing on marriage or career, you have to have a lot of energy to do other things. That's how you're a whole person, so I don't think you need to take some responsibility for these two aspects of life and other aspects of life, and some people take this too seriously.
Marriage is a responsibility for one's own family, and it is also a kind of responsibility for oneself. When you find someone you particularly like, you will feel that you will identify him in this life, and you will not consider whether he will affect your career at all if you want to be with him, because you feel that you are happier with him, and you will have more energy to devote to your career, because your life is already very happy, you will make your career more satisfying, and you will become more and more successful, so I think these two things complement each other and are not contradictory at all.
And if you have a favorite person in yourself, you will feel that your whole life is very happy, so when you encounter some difficulties at work, you will also feel that you should use some sunny and healthy attitudes to deal with them, and generally people with such a mentality will be particularly successful.
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I think marriage and success can be both, first of all, we manage our own marriage, even if we stabilize Zhuge their own rear, so that they will no longer have worries when doing things in their careers, but to our partner, will give us double support, so marriage and success are complementary to each other, not contradictory and opposing relationships.
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From a personal point of view, marriage and success may be two words that seem to have nothing to do with each other, but in my opinion, if a person has a prosperous career, but the family is fragmented, he cannot be regarded as a successful person.
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Two people love each other is the most important element of marriage success, in marriage two people help each other, understand each other's difficulties, so that the marriage will be happy.
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The first is that two people have a common topic, a common goal, and a common idea, and then they also belong to the type of match, in a relationship, both people can become a better version of themselves, and they don't complain about each other.
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The most successful marriage is the one in which two people are able to maintain a sense of freshness after entering the marriage, no matter how many years have passed, and the attitude is still the same.
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The husband and wife tolerate each other, understand each other, support each other, do not complain, and carry difficulties together, although they will quarrel, but after the quarrel, they can still reconcile as before, understand each other's difficulties, and can understand each other's difficulties.
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The two people have a common topic and a common goal, and they will not quarrel easily, and they will communicate and communicate often.
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First of all, the relationship between the husband and wife should be handled well and confirmed that they both love each other deeply. The second is to deal with the relationship with the other party's relatives, typical of which is the conflict between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law, etc., which require the joint efforts of both parties. Thirdly, it is also necessary to have a strong career foundation as a guarantee
If the career is successful, the married life will naturally go further; If your career fails, your married life will not go anywhere.
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There is a harmonious family, both parties care about each other and will take into account each other's feelings, and will not make a fuss innocently.
Your parents will also love your little family and will not innocently have some problems with you.
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In a relationship, if you have a pair of children, a happy family, a car and a house, a wife who loves you, and a wife who loves you, and both parents support your relationship, then this is a successful marriage.
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In life, both parties trust each other, each other is not suspicious, the other party thinks about each other all the time, and when encountering difficulties, it is the most beautiful and happiest to face and solve such a love together!
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It is best to find someone who understands oneself, tolerates oneself, believes in oneself, and loves oneself, because feelings are mutual, and only when two people do this, it is a perfect marriage.
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A more happy marriage is a successful marriage, two people feel very happy in the marriage, and both of them are getting better and better, this is a successful marriage.
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What kind of marriage is a successful marriage in a relationship? If you only look at it on the surface, it should be a talented woman. If you look at the essence of marriage, it is to tolerate each other, support each other, and support each other until old age, this is a successful marriage.
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In a relationship, two people are in love, have a common language and topics, and can tolerate each other, and tolerate each other is a successful marriage.
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I think that the kind of marriage that can still be maintained after marriage is like a passionate love, and the relationship between two people is very stable, and the life of two people is also very good, this is called a successful marriage.
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A marriage that is in love with each other and can empathize can be regarded as a successful marriage. Empathy and empathy are all representatives of a successful marriage.
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Marriage, what kind of marriage is successful? Everyone has different goals, but when two people are together, as long as they live well, life will be more meaningful, and their persistence will be more perfect, and they will become happier, and the marriage around them and the people they love will be perfect by their side.
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The marriage between two people should be considered relatively successful, and there is the kind that can urge each other to make progress, which is a very beautiful marriage in the imagination.
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Only such a marriage is successful in the relationship, after marriage, two people care about each other enough, are considerate of each other, trust each other, and they live in harmony and beauty, respecting each other.
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A successful marriage does not necessarily depend on how enthusiastic and unrestrained the two people are, and there are many times when it may be a plain little day, and it is very successful.
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The marriages that can go to the end are all successful marriages, and there is nothing to say about successful marriages, and they don't eat until the end, giving one and giving their children the best future, which is a good drop.
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In fact, I think that two people get along very well, and they think about each other in everything they do, and this kind of life is a perfect life and a happy marriage.
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In the relationship, I think that as long as the marriage is happy, the children are obedient, and the family is harmonious, it should be considered a successful marriage.
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Successful marriages in a relationship have common characteristics, that is, husband and wife pay equally, compete equally, understand each other, and tolerate each other.
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A marriage that supports and cares for each other in the relationship is a successful marriage, and a marriage that only gets married with love is a good marriage that others dream of.
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This can't be measured, only I feel happy marriage and family harmony. I feel happy. It's a happy marriage.
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In a relationship, two people trust each other and spend all kinds of sweet and difficult moments of married life together to be considered a successful marriage.
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This emotionally satisfying marriage and happy marriage is a successful marriage. Such a marriage is based on affection.
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What to think about marriage:
1. One plus one must be greater than two.
There is never an age when you have to get married, only people who can get married, marriage is not a compromise to lower the requirements, nor is it a compromise to compromise, marriage must be a choice that is far better for two people to be together than for one person.
Especially in the era of extreme material development, food and clothing have ceased to pose a threat, both men and women, can support themselves well, and the combination of two people is no longer a need for survival.
If you are willing to enter into marriage, it must be because of the appearance of this person, which makes you full of longing, expectation and imagination for the future.
Originally, I was living a good life alone, but because of your appearance, I saw a better and happier life.
2. The result of the natural development of love.
Marriage is not a compromise, let alone a compromise choice, marriage should be the natural development of love, the fruit of ripening and closing.
A good marriage is based on love, so that two hearts can be closely linked. Because of you, I believe that there is also a person in this state of the world who loves me as much as I love myself.
Marriage is not necessarily the grave of love, but a good marriage must be based on love.
3. Maintain independence and mutual respect.
People are independent individuals, everyone has their own differences, and we can't ask two people to want to blend together perfectly because of a marriage certificate.
Respect your partner's interests and hobbies, and tolerate your partner's thoughts and concepts that are different from your own.
4. You can talk and eat together.
Two people in a marriage must not only have endless topics to talk about, but also be able to eat together.
Life is inseparable from three meals a day, and two people who can eat together can support each other to go on.
It can be talked about because of the three similar views, there are no huge differences between each other, and there are no sharp contradictions.
Eating together means that two people have similar hobbies, and neither of them has to settle for the other.
5. Trust each other and get along comfortably.
The foundation of marriage is trust, and without trust, marriage will only torture two people to the point of exhaustion, and in the end they have to part ways.
Since you have chosen the person in front of you to be your partner, you have to trust that he will be true to himself and your feelings.
Yourself, as the other half of the marriage, must also maintain restraint, do not overstep, do not be curious, and make your partner trust.
Two people in a marriage must start from each other's point of view, think about problems, make choices, try to understand their lovers, and understand each other's difficulties.
Only in this way can the two get along comfortably and never get tired of getting along for a long time.
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I feel that it is normal not to want to get married, because if I don't meet someone I like, the unsuitable person will definitely not get married, so I can only wait until the person I like feels that the other party is the person I am looking for, and he will definitely get married. How do you determine that two people are reliable? It is possible to come together, you can take a look at the following.
First, the three views are the same. This is the most important, because two people are going to live a lifetime, if there is a different concept, then it is inevitable that there will be quarrels in the future, each with his own opinion, which not only affects the mood, but also wants to say, is this day still lived?
Second, whether the other party's character is acceptable to you.
If both of them have good personalities, that's good, and they can live with Hemei in the future. But there are always people with bad personalities, like me, who are prone to tantrums, and my husband understands my character and can always accommodate me and tolerate me, so I always let myself be a little more restrained now and don't let him down.
3. What is the sense of responsibility of the other party?
Both men and women are part of the family and have the responsibility to maintain a home and make their home better. The man must have a certain sense of responsibility and self-motivation, even if the current economic situation is not very ideal, but as long as the two people work together, there is love, and bread will also be there. The woman also has to support the man, and after marriage, she can't complain often, which will make the man lose his fighting spirit.
Fourth, his parents' family.
This mainly depends on the man's family and parents, because after the woman and the man get married, they will mainly face the man's parents, and even live with the man's parents, so it is also important to get along. If the man's parents are good at talking, discussable in everything, reasonable, have a good personality, and have a good family atmosphere, then congratulations, you may have met a good in-law from Sousen.
Fifth, the most important thing is to marry love.
Two people are together, like each other, can live happily and happily, stay together comfortably, grow each other, hold hands together and grow old slowly, that is, Shisheng is the most beautiful couple.
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