Is there any need to care about the feelings that can be saved?

The feelings that are kept, that is the feelings you want to come, if you don't care, then is there any need to continue?

When he wanted to separate, you didn't want to, you still loved, so you went to keep, let go of your own to keep this feeling, said good things over and over again, and finally moved him, he stayed, and at this time, you belong to the passive side in this relationship, you need to keep to please the lover you retained, you need to keep trying to make him happy with you again, but you are really tired.

Because you kept it, of course you care more about this relationship than him, and pay more than him in this relationship, because when people wanted to leave, you didn't let him go, he just gave alms to stay and accompany you.

If this relationship is what you kept, and now you feel tired, don't want to try to work hard, don't want to care, then small is supportive, because your love is no longer equal from the day you keep him, the status in love is no longer equal, the pay is no longer equal, and even the love you get is no longer equal, so there is no need to continue.

If a person in a relationship does not love and chooses to separate to end the relationship, then no matter how the other party keeps it, this relationship can not go back to the past, even if the person is retained through retention, but he can't keep this love, because the person who decides to leave, his heart has no love for the person who keeps him, he stays only for pity or unbearable, not because he still loves this person.

So this love that comes back through retention, no matter how far it goes, will end in tragedy in the end, because the person who doesn't love, the person who chose to leave in the first place, he will meet the person he likes again, and when he does, he will not hesitate to choose to leave the person who keeps him.

So if this relationship is saved by you, Xiao Ke thinks you don't need to care about the person who has left you.

I think it is necessary to care about the feelings that are retained, in fact, many people think that the feelings that can be saved are the feelings that are easy to get, and then there is no need to care, I think this kind of thinking is very wrong, because you think, only two people really love each other, really care about each other, this relationship can be salvageable, if you want one party does not care about the other party, this relationship can not be redeemed at all<>

I think it is necessary to care about the feelings that are retained, because I think it is not easy to get a sincere relationship in this world, and it is even more difficult for two people who love each other if they can be together, because there are many classmates around me who have left each other after graduation and have broken up, and some of them have been in school for four years, or have been in high school for seven or eight years, and then have been in college for seven or eight years, and then because they are not working in the same city, and then they are all in different places in the future. And then maybe there are some disagreements in the family or something, and they separate, in fact, I think this kind of relationship is very regrettable. If a relationship separates because of some contradictions or something, if the relationship is very deep, I feel sorry for the damage.

So I think if you can save it, then you must use all new strength to save this relationship, and after you get it back, you must treat the person you care about very well. Because in fact, many things are not very big at all, and there is no need to cause two people to separate, so if you really have a chance to save a relationship, you must treat it sincerely. In fact, many people don't care about the other party, and then a lot of feelings are simply broken, cracks, how to repair in the future can not be repaired, in fact, if you have a relationship that can be repaired like this, it is really a very happy thing.

The feelings that can be saved are even more concerned, after all, the person who can be successfully retained by you still cares about your person, no matter who you have before, because of something, and what problems you have encountered, as long as he will come back in your retention, it means that you are a very important person in his mind.

In fact, you should think about it, why did you want to keep him back at that time, isn't it because you care about him, since you have wasted a long time and successfully retained others, why don't you care about him, if you kept him back at that time, you don't want to care about him anymore, then why did you do it at that time, then what you did before was meaningless.

Besides, since you can keep him back after you are separated. That means that he still cares about you very much, and he is also very in your thoughts, and he made an awkward quarrel before, maybe because of disagreement over something, most of the quarrels between couples are because of small things, and the two of them have already made a fuss, and may even be angry at some point, and they have said something like breaking up, but the husband and wife are quarreling at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, and there is no contradiction that cannot be solved, as long as you believe that he does still have you in his heart. <>

Of course, you also have to be careful not to get too hurt in this relationship. Since you keep him, it means that he has the initiative in this relationship, and you, what you do is to cater to his mind, or you care more about this relationship than him, and care more about each other, so it is recommended that you don't invest too much and love yourself more, so it's good for yourself and your feelings.

That's what I'm thinking, I just hope you don't let yourself get hurt too much, but since you've got it back, you have to care.

Personally, I think it is necessary to care about the feelings that are retained, since you keep them, it means that you still care about him, and since you keep them, it means that he still has you in his heart, such feelings, I think it is still necessary to care.

There is no need to care about the feelings that need to be retained, and the feelings that need to be retained mean that the relationship is about to be lost. So, for a relationship that is about to be lost, the first thing we have to consider is whether there is a need for this relationship to be saved. Then think about whether there is no need to care about the relationship that has been redeemed.

There is a very popular sentence in "Left Ear": We all want the love that can be married after holding hands, but we live in an era where there is no result when we go to bed. The most powerless thing for a man is to "meet the girl who wants to take care of her most at the age when she has no material ability", and the most regrettable thing for a woman is to "meet someone who can't afford to wait at the best age".

People will always do a lot of things in their lives that they regret not being able to do, and after many years, when they recall, if they were not so willful back then, they would have persevered a little longer, if they had given him one more chance, if they had listened to each other's voices more, perhaps, now it is another scene.

In fact, there are many examples of being the most familiar strangers after a breakup, and there are many people who don't get along with each other after breaking up, and finally forget each other in the rivers and lakes, but there are always some people who feel that it's a pity to break up, and they can't see the future if they don't break up, so they talked about a few relationships without being salty, and the final result was a hasty ending.

When I was in love with him, I always felt that he was everything to me and my future. If I break up with him, it will definitely be difficult to meet someone who understands me so well, but if I don't break up, I feel that the two of us have no future and can't see hope.

We have said so much earlier, just to want everyone to understand what they want and whether they still love it. Time is so big, it is not easy to meet, if you are still in love, let go of all your worries, be together, and cherish it.

Of course, you have to care, since you have tried your best to keep it, it means that you were and even now are reluctant to this relationship, you have worked hard for this relationship, and you have obtained a satisfactory result, at least he has changed his mind, why should he suddenly say that he wants to give up when he is only one step away from success? Are you willing to let a relationship go with the flow?

You once chose to separate because of something, but under your hard pursuit, your other half changed his mind, and now you suddenly tell him that you don't care about the relationship that you have both worked hard for, what you make your other half think, he will feel that he has been fooled, he will question your character, question the person he once loved, and your word of not caring will cause great harm to the person you love and the person who loves you.

I think when you once chose to separate, you were also discouraged in your heart, but you still chose to muster up the courage to keep each other, then you must have loved him miserably, so you will not be willing to let him go. But now that he is back with you, you don't want to cherish this relationship because you feel that the relationship you have retained is flawed, isn't it stupid?

The relationship that you keep is not necessarily bad, after all, you once had a strong emotional foundation, otherwise you would not have retained it, so as long as you solve the previous contradictions, you are still you, love is still love. Falling in love is a simple thing, don't think about it too complicated.

Don't say goodbye to a relationship you once cherished, because turning around is a lifetime, and goodbye is never seeing you again. Feelings are a journey of two people, when one person gets off the bus first, for the other person, the long journey suddenly has no end.

Since you have retained it, it means that you still have nostalgia for this relationship and are still reluctant. Since there are still feelings, there is a need to care. And you also need to distinguish between the following two situations.

If your object is a child's temper, he always says that he will break up and have a little temper with you. Then you have to figure it out, it's just a small means for him to get your eye and his goal to get there. Maybe you think you're trying to keep him, and you're still feeling very uncomfortable.

Then I am very responsible to tell you, don't feel bad. Because it shows that you are really good to your object and make him like a child. He is also messing with you because he has you in his heart, so of course you have to care about this relationship.

If it's because one of the parties made a mistake or if both parties are serious about something, there is a problem, and the relationship is on the edge. At this time, you should think about whether you can solve the problems that arise between you, or whether you can work together to get through the difficulties. For example, if the other party is mom and his mom happens to be against you being together.

In this case, if you don't work together to resist your mother, or you make an effort to get your mother to accept you. It basically ended with the two separating. Now that you have retained it, it means that the other party has the idea of continuing with you, and since both people are reluctant to give up on this relationship, then sit down and talk about the problems that arise between the two.

Discuss the solution to the problem together, instead of thinking about whether you need to care, and if you don't care, why keep it? The beauty of the relationship lies in its purity, if you have a mind that you don't plan to take seriously, it's not beautiful, it's better not to keep it.

In short, since you have retained it, it means that there are still feelings between you, and since there are feelings, you must cherish them, take them seriously, and it is necessary to care about them.

I don't think you should be trying to keep him, because he doesn't care about you in the first place, you try to keep him, he just feels that you can't do without him, and he doesn't cherish your feelings.

You shouldn't try to keep it, because such people will never care about you and will never care about your feelings.