Why do men change after being in love for a long time?

It's because he already treats you as his person, so he doesn't have to worry so much. When he doesn't feel like he's getting you, he's going to be very attentive, man. When he knows that you will not leave him again and sees you as a part of him, he will no longer care about you.

He must be a machismo, this kind of man is such an animal, there is no way, bullying his loved ones. When you get married in the future, it is not him who takes care of you, but you have to take care of him more. If you fall in love with such a man, you just accept your fate.

Be a good wife and mother.

Because you have been together for a long time, you no longer have the freshness you used to have in his eyes, so as time goes by, he will gradually fade his affection for you; But because of the long time together, he did not forget you, but replaced your love with family affection. Let go, since you don't love it, why force it? But at least you loved, and you'll be good friends.

May you be happy!!

To paraphrase a TV station word.

Today's women have to know how to appreciate men.

Men are not a placebo for women when they are vulnerable.

Two people who love each other are not harnessing each other.

It's about accommodating each other.

Because of love for a long time, everyone is used to each other.

If you have been in love for a long time, you must learn to live.

The trivial life always smooths out the romance of love.

Troublesome work always forgets that love exists.

Although love still exists, life and work have made each other anxious.

I don't have the heart to feel the love of integrating each other into life and work.

Love is no longer isolated, but integrated into life.

We are used to caring for each other and greeting each other.

I can't feel each other's love anymore.

Isn't it?

And the man has his career, his ambitions, he has been busy all day, and he only hopes that the person he loves can give him a warm home.

Instead of complaining and puzzled all day long.

Isn't he working so hard so that the people he loves can live a good life?

So in fact, it's not that love has faded, but that our hearts have become numb.

Feel life with your heart, and feel each other's love with your heart.

You will suddenly find that love is everywhere.

Wishing you happiness!

Man, his kind of possession is very strong. Every man is like this, even me, this is the nature of men, it can't be changed, but the severity can be adjusted, in fact, people are the same, women also have it, it's just slight. So a few exhalations are not felt.

Isn't it enough for two people to be happy when they are together? As long as you feel that the man loves you, and you love him, then do you need these? No one has given you an answer to this, you have to rely on yourself.

If you think about it, you will understand.

You have to remember that love changes with time Time can change everything Today he said he loves you for a lifetime, tomorrow he won't say this to others Pull in saying that you have to remember that before you get married, you are her heaven and his earth, once you get married, he is your heaven and your land You will ask him for everything And he will not do anything for you, what you do for him He will also feel that it is due, if you want to be with him forever, you must first consider whether you have the ability to keep his heart in you forever No matter who it is, it will be the fact of evolution Hehe, but don't listen to me so sad, sometimes you still have to rely on yourself to fight for every bit of life you have to grasp slowly

Every man has a desire to conquer, but when there is no challenge, he loses confidence.

So what a woman has to do is how to maintain his desire to conquer, the longer he maintains, the longer the love.

When the desire to conquer is about to disappear, you have to know how to recreate, so that you can not only control your man, but also maintain everything, and I am controlled by my wife like this, all the time.

Visual fatigue (ah......Ah......Don't flatten me, landlord).

Have you ever thought about getting married?

If you want to get married, you can't expect your husband to always imagine that he will take care of you like a baby.

Let's put it this way, if I marry a wife, then she must be a wise girl who knows how to express love at the right time and in the right way, and not blindly ask for love from me;

If I marry a wife, she will definitely cook delicious meals for me, so that I will feel at home after a hard day's work.

If I marry a wife, then she must be a well-informed girl, and she will never let me prove my love for her all day long.

Eternal "love" is deceiving, no matter how good things are, there are times when they get bored, and "visual fatigue" is the truth :)

The secret of two people growing old together is to help each other in the same boat.

"Love" becomes "family affection" It takes two people to work together, you pay for her, and you will naturally be rewarded, after all, people's hearts are flesh and blood.

In fact, love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have, have you started grinding? Many people think that because the relationship is weak, people will become lazy. In fact, it is people who are conquered by inertia first, so the feelings will fade.

Because men always like new things, no matter how bad this thing is, as long as it is new, then he must like it, and the usual situation is that when you have this thing for a while, you will naturally get a little tired of it, and the song "Semi-Saccharism" is very well written, and you will find the answer from it.

He may not have changed his mind.

Imagine your parents, they are rarely romantic, but they still care about each other and take care of each other, not change their minds.

After a long time, he will really become your other half, a part of the body, and they won't care too much about these details with each other.

Maybe he's busy with something else, wouldn't it be okay to be more considerate? As long as they love each other, why do they have to be so complicated? Being with someone you love is the happiest thing in your life, I wish you happiness!

Can't you hold your own umbrella? Don't rely on others, learn to be independent! Just because he doesn't hold an umbrella for you doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Don't doubt too much, love when you love.

Have you ever seen a movie on a mobile phone, and one of the lines reads: "In twenty years, the aesthetics are a little tired".

In fact, in reality, you can also take this as an example, if you don't give him freshness, let him find a way to be good to you every day, then he will be tired after a long time.

It's normal, people are not good for a thousand days, and flowers are not red in the day. There is absolutely no eternity in this world.

Your protagonist is yourself, and he appears only because you chose him. If he leaves, you still have to play your own drama ceremoniously, what you lack is just a supporting actor who is the icing on the cake. There is no shortage of applause from the depths of his own life.

He forgot to buy an umbrella.

In fact, love depends on your attitude, you think he is sweet, even if he is bitter and tired, he will not feel bitter.

If you think it's bitter, no matter how beautiful and sweet it is, you won't feel happy.

Cherish it, and you will find that sweet love.

For this question, I would like to use a **mediocre sentence to you.

Love is inexplicable, it is like a basin of bath water, the water will get cold after a long time, even if you don't care about the water temperature, after soaking for a long time, ** will become wrinkled.

After a long time, love has become family.

Since ancient times: what you can't get is the best.

Constantly enrich yourself and renew yourself, then you will always be new in his eyes.

Let's listen to SHE's song "Love", the lyrics are: I know that the world is very fickle, but I didn't expect even you to change.

It's not him or you who changes, it's the environment and mood that change.

Agree with the statement of the first floor, love is disappearing little by little, and family affection is increasing.

People change, not just men.

This is also normal. Slave to general.

People are always full of longing for what they don't have, and they look forward to it.

When the opportunity arises and the first time I come into contact with this thing, I feel full of freshness and excitement.

But after a long time, the novelty of this thing will slowly fade, and people will start to get bored.

This is just like love, a man has never had you, and when he pursues you, he will definitely do his best.

However, after being with you, the man's attitude towards you will change and be less positive than before.

You don't have to be distancing.

It's just to expand the circle of boys.

I have more time with boys and less time with girls.

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In fact, there are many things that are only understood after falling in love. For example, after falling in love, I know that a guy will go from being full of you to not caring in the end. When you just start to fall in love, the boy may be very active, always shushing you, always caring about the trivial things around you, just when you think that two people can always be together, the boy is already annoyed with this relationship, maybe you have not been able to figure out why people change?

Why did the person who loved you so much become what he is today? But that's the way it is, that's how the human heart is.

For example, after falling in love, you may understand that even if you don't love him, you will pretend to love him very much. You'll be noisily checking his phone, and you'll always ask him if he loves you or not. Create an illusion that you have fallen in love with him, but in fact, you have not been tempted at all, you are just going through some normal love processes, some boys will feel that you can't leave him anymore when they see you like this, but in fact, they are just playing on the spot.

Of course, after falling in love, you may also understand that two people together can't always let one party pay Qingshan and the other party enjoy, love is mutual, when he invites you to watch a movie, you have to buy him popcorn, you must not owe the other party too much, otherwise it will be too miserable when it comes to breaking up. Because there is a girl next to me who always spends her boyfriend's money when she is in love, and on the day of the real breakup, her boyfriend brings his mother to the girl's house and asks the girl to return all the red envelopes she has sent to him before, how embarrassing it is! Rather than being unsatisfactory in the end, it is better to pay attention when you are in love.

Of course, love is still beautiful. If you can meet a reliable boy, then your love will be very happy and happy, so you must keep your eyes open when you are in love, and don't be carried away by love.

<> "The establishment of a love relationship is the starting point of a long journey in the eyes of girls, and a victory in the eyes of boys.

So girls always look forward to confirming their love with a man Guan Lu Jin, he will become more and more enthusiastic, at least he can't go back to accompany the stupid guy, but most girls are disappointed in this issue, because they don't realize one thing: the state of boys when they are pursuing them is inherently short-term and unsustainable!

Therefore, many men are more addicted to study or work or games than before after the honeymoon period of love, because they feel that "I don't need to worry about my relationship, so I can worry about other things".

That is to say, the enthusiasm shown by boys for a girl in the pursuit stage is itself a behavior with a clear purpose, once the purpose is achieved, they naturally lose the motivation and enthusiasm to continue to do it, so it is very normal for girls to have a psychological gap between the pursuit stage and the love stage, because this matter is not sustainable.

Most of them are because they are tired of talking, and they want to break up and are embarrassed to say it, so they force you to mention it coldly and violently, or you are too active in this relationship, which makes him have a sense of superiority, just like will you go to read a book again after the exam.

Because I can't chase it, the cost is too high, the boy wants a result, the girl is to see the boy's attitude and enjoy the process, and the boy confesses at the beginning that he wants to see if the girl likes the boy.