Why is it that it is often a small thing that destroys a marriage?

It is true that in marriage, two people really care about a lot of details, because two people always feel that being able to do perfection is a manifestation of their love, so they will have higher requirements for the other half, and it is precisely because of this that it will affect their feelings for each other.

Because a small thing can turn over old accounts, infinitely magnify the contradictions between each other, and finally destroy the marriage.

In fact, it is not the small things that destroy the marriage, but the small things that are piled up together, and the small thing that leads to the divorce is just the last straw that crushes the camel.

The easiest thing to ruin a marriage is that two people often mention divorce, and they don't consider the problem from each other's point of view.

I think a lot of ruined marriages mainly start with the following three things: first, the two people don't trust this time. I think trust is very important, and if you don't trust each other, it's going to be very difficult to maintain. Second, there is nothing to talk about between the two.

If there is no topic to talk about, the level of communication will decrease, and it will feel more and more boring to be together. Third, the economic pressure is greater. The so-called poor couple mourns, if the financial pressure of the two is greater, it is easy to cause quarrels and the marriage comes to an end.

Not understanding, not communicating, not respecting. Because there is no communication, there are more and more contradictions. didn't respect each other, something happened, just blindly blamed, didn't believe the other party.

Two people don't trust each other, often quarrel over some trivial things, don't pay attention to dressing, are unkempt, and have no mood in life.

Strictly speaking, this is indeed the case, because in married life, there is really no big contradiction, generally speaking, what crushes the marriage is those small details in life, and these small details are more, and the contradictions will accumulate more and moreThese small contradictions may be a small thing individually, but if the small contradictions accumulate too much, once they break out, they may be blown up and there is no way to clean them up.

Let me give you an example, in a family, everyone should be mutual understanding, mutual consideration, mutual dissociation, mutual distress, but there are many people who do not do this after marriage, this example takes the usual housework as an example, men generally in their hearts, housework should be done by women, everyone is also going home from work, women may need to do laundry, cooking, sweeping, mopping, washing dishes, tidying up the house, but men only need to wait for dinner, play with mobile phones and wait for sleep when they return home.

Many people are actually like this, they think that sweeping the floor is a trivial matter, garbage is a trivial matter if you don't pick it up on the ground, socks littering is a trivial matter, taking off your clothes and throwing it casually is a trivial matter, not cleaning up the bathroom after taking a shower is a trivial matter, and not wiping the table after eating is a trivial matter, in short, these are trivial things in their hearts.

They think it's just a matter of doing it casually, but after a long time, women have all the housework at home, and men have never known that it is not easy to be considerate of women, he casually disrupts women at home and finally tidy up their homes, once a woman says a word, he may say, don't you just throw the garbage in the trash can, just pick it up, as for talking about it, annoying or not, yes, women don't feel annoying, but annoying her has to say, because she has already sorted it out, But that man didn't feel sorry for her hard work and triviality every day, and he just threw things away, but let others keep saying and cleaning up every day, there are too many such small things, and after a long time, it will form an incomparably big contradiction, and slowly the woman will be tired, will be cold, and may leave this man in the end.

I think so. In a marriage, the details of ordinary life may not be taken seriously, but once it accumulates over a long period of time, it will explode, and then it will have an impact on the marriage.

Yes, because marriage is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, it is two people living together, and there are no major things to decide, on the contrary, it is easy to quarrel over some small things, and finally break up the relationship.

It is indeed the details of life that ruins the marriage, when two people face big difficulties and setbacks, they will work together to solve them, and when life is stable, some small details will become the fuse in the marriage.

I think what ruined the marriage was the details of life, the disappointment and dissatisfaction with him that we slowly accumulated, and finally exploded because of a fuse.

Details determine success or failure, and the small things in life are very important and trivial, but I personally feel that the most important thing is the lack of communication, and there is nothing that cannot be solved, depending on whether both parties are willing to spend time to solve the problem.