How to erase the previous personality and reshape it

Understanding changes mentality, mentality forms habits, habits create character, and character determines fate.

Guide the innate disposition and shape the perfect character.

Cultivate personality charm and enjoy freehand life.

Break free from the cage of personality and forge a new self.

There is no reset button in life, everyone wants to become the person they want to be, but who can really do it. In fact, the problem of personality will not change much after a person's three views on the outside world are basically established, unless the influence of the outside world on him is really too great, in this case he will be forced to change his original personality, but it is generally for the worse, and no one wants to. If you feel that your character is really too bad, there is no need to deny yourself completely, after all, not everyone is good, not everyone is bad, you must have your own good, as for your badness, you will slowly correct it after you realize it, and you will improve it if you know your mistakes!

It's hard to erase the previous character. The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. I can only cultivate it slowly, attend more gatherings of friends and classmates, read more books on speeches and eloquence, master various scientific and cultural knowledge, and let myself know more knowledge.

I usually watch more news events at home and abroad. In this way, you can have a common language with others wherever you go. This will be a popular one.

Develop a cheerful personality, and it will be good after a long time.

This should depend on your mindset. If you have a good attitude, everything will be good. I wonder what kind of personality you used to be?

Re-shape, re-shape what kind of character. Depends on your heart. It's up to you whether you want to or not.

Did. There's nothing you can't do if you want to. Character is honed little by little.

When you get along with people, being kind to them will definitely have good results. There is no more kindness to a person in this world than this.

If you are still studying, then read well, after all, the time spent reading is the most beautiful for people. I don't know if you are studying in college, if so, I suggest you read Mr. Qin Biaoxi's "What to Read in College", I think this book is very well written, you can take a look at it, maybe you can get some inspiration from it. If you want to learn a skill, it means that you are still self-motivated, just be self-motivated, don't be too inferior.

Sometimes the role of a positive and enterprising attitude is very large, if the same two salesmen, one holds a product that makes people look not very high-end but is full of confidence, positive and eloquent, and the other is holding a high-end and noble product but makes people look unconfident and depressed, whose product will you choose to buy?I would definitely buy the former, because first of all, this person makes people feel different, self-confident and self-motivated, as long as this person makes people feel positive, who cares if his product is flawless and the packaging is bright?I suggest that you choose which technology you want to use based on your interests, and I hope it can help you.

1. Self-improvement The main factor influencing interpersonal relationships is not one's words and skills, but the integrity of one's own personality and having a good moral foundation. Think about how respectful, polite, friendly, honest, caring, and keeping your promises you treat your classmates and friends. If you are playing a pretentious role, then your relationships are bound to be strained, because no one wants to deal with a hypocritical, cold, irresponsible person.

A person's connotations affect relationships more than words. No matter how clever the skills are in the world, no matter how beautiful the words are, there is no full connotation, and it is difficult to gain people's trust, just like expecting to reap without sowing seeds. 2. Look at things from the other person's point of view We often like to guide others based on our own experience and think that others have the same needs.

When dealing with people, it is more about focusing on the shortcomings of others and the environment that causes their own unhappiness, rather than looking for reasons from themselves. 3. Sincerity is the key to opening the heart Sincerity is the basis for establishing trust between people, and sincere apology is also a manifestation of sincerity when you do something wrong or cause inconvenience or trouble to others. It's easy to say, but if you're a leader, it might take a lot of courage to do it.

Also, the same mistake should not be repeated, otherwise your apology will also be seen as insincere. Sincerity also embodies the unity of personality, i.e., treating all people with the same principles. Fourth, the emergence of problems is an opportunity for relationship improvement We habitually feel impatient and unhappy in dealing with some troubles, but what if we look at the problem from a different angle?

For example, if an employee gives advice to the leader, the leader should not be annoyed, but should show a positive problem-solving attitude and behavior, which will not only close the relationship with the employee, but also the other employees will get a sense of security and trust from it. Finally, I would like to remind you that it is not an overnight task to build good relationships or improve the current unsatisfactory interpersonal situation.

Breaking out of the thought patterns that have been formed over the years may be painful, but if you are brave enough to try, over time, you will find that a new self and a new kind of relationship will emerge.

In my opinion, it is not about reshaping, but about changing, changing the way you think about your surroundings, yes, it is yourself who should be changed. Reading books changes temperament, thoughts, and that's good, if there's really a book that makes you go deep and make you feel the same way, then you have to cherish this book. It's the same around you, you don't need too many friends, it's quite lively to have a few friends or something.

Regarding self-reliance, what you have to do is not to be afraid, to think about what your own shortcomings are, which of your actions are incompatible with others, and self-reliance is not rebellious or arbitrary, but has your own independent thoughts. Hope you are happy.

Character is destined and cannot be changed. Give it up. Just change your mind.

Why care what you think in other people's minds. In this case, it is better to be confident. Confident girls are the most beautiful.

Pay attention to the way you speak, and don't be too introverted and lively.

As long as you are willing to pay perseverance in exercising, it is definitely possible, first of all, you must change your opinion, and then gradually increase the exercise of horror scenes, and when you break through, you will be relieved!

In fact, you don't have to deny yourself completely, you can first recognize your strengths and weaknesses, and then shape your character appropriately.

Good character is closely related to psychological tolerance, social environment, family education (childhood) and other factors. As the old saying goes: three years old looks old. Personality is set when I was a child, and it won't change much if I don't encounter big fluctuations in my life.

If you want to build your character, I have a little suggestion.

Respect yourself first, and respect others second. That's the basics. Don't look too seriously, don't drill the horns.

Exercise more and stay healthy. There is also erudition, not necessarily knowing everything very well, as long as you know some, but it must be erudite. Because the prerequisite for true humor is knowledge.

Peace of mind is important.

In fact, everyone's personality is different, and personality is very important. There is no such thing as a perfect character. Dissociation is not absolute, it can only be said that there is no disharmony with this group. There are two sides to everything.

It depends on what kind of person you are, try to demand yourself in reverse, and maybe you will reinvent yourself.

Look at what kind of character you want to become, and then look at the principles of this kind of character, memorize this kind of principle, do everything according to the principles, and make them become things in your bones.

If you want to do it quickly, write down the things you want to build your character and do often, try to do it, force yourself to do it, and maybe you will feel different.