Do you have someone you miss often, but are afraid of contact, afraid of having nothing to say?

Yes, former friends. There is no big conflict between us, but we are gradually estranged because of time, distance and so on. I often miss and want to connect, but I am afraid that there will be no dialogue between two people.

Yes, my ex, because he was a junior high school classmate, now the two are friends, but they are basically rarely in contact, I want to contact him, but I am afraid that he will be annoyed, after all, I am just a dispensable person in his world, I am afraid that he will think I am annoying, and I am even more afraid that the two of them have nothing to say, so they can only say awkwardly that they have time to talk!

Yes, my former girlfriend. In the past, there was nothing to say, and now there is nothing to say, we have tried our best, but we will also want to contact you and are afraid that I don't know what to say.

Yes. There are a lot of friends who have played since childhood, but because the social paths chosen by the two people are different, the two people have fewer and fewer common topics, and they are afraid that they will have nothing to say after contacting.

Yes, it was my former friend, who had a good time at the beginning, but I don't know why the two gradually drifted apart, and I didn't have the courage to get close to her.

I have a person who I miss a lot but am afraid to contact and have nothing to say, we are in an awkward state, missing him, but unable to contact without a proper identity to contact him.

The answer is yes, of course, I have also experienced, for example, people who used to like but now miss them, such as people who used to have a particularly good relationship with them, but have not had much contact with recently.

I have a person who is afraid of contact and afraid of having nothing to say, afraid of contact because we have had a bad argument between us, want to contact, and are afraid of interruption.

I have people who I miss a lot but am afraid to contact and have nothing to say, I like him very much, but I am afraid that he will not like me.

I miss it a lot but I have nothing to say, it's a strange feeling.

This can make people feel more and more distant from each other.

I can't even recognize who the other person is.

There have been before. But as I get older, I slowly forget about it.

Happiness is actually all around us, but we often ignore the happiness that is within reach and take it for granted. When I didn't get into college, I thought that I would be happy if I was admitted, and when I was really admitted, I found out that it was the same thing. When I was in school, I thought that I would be able to get rid of my worries after graduation, but when I graduated, I found that I couldn't even find a job.

When I didn't have a job, I thought that everything would be fine if I got a job, but when I worked, I found that life was still so boring. When I didn't make money, I thought that if I could have 2,000 yuan a month, I would be satisfied, and I didn't feel very happy when I got a job of 3,000 yuan. Half of each month's salary is used to pay off the loan.

When you're not in love, you feel good to have someone by your side; When I'm in love, I don't seem to be so free. I want to get married, I want to get married, everything is stable, it's good; Get married, it turns out that marriage is just life. Life was originally firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

So, if you want to feel happy, you will feel happy. Happiness is subjective, and happiness is to be felt. Cherish the happiness in front of you.

What you thought you couldn't lose is not something you can't lose.

You shed dry tears, you have another person to make you laugh, you are heartbroken, and then you find that the person who doesn't love you is not worth your sadness at all, looking back today, isn't it a comedy?

When the love is over, there is a new realm, and all the sorrow is just history.

Then take advantage of the holiday to send a greeting text message to try it!

Then I have to ask you if he loves you.

Do you miss someone every day, but don't contact someone who feels this way? Yes, that's how I feel.

It's always easy to fall in love, but it's too difficult to get along. When you find out that you love someone very much, true love strikes, and at the same time, you also find that you are a person with a family, or the other person has a family. They are all past the age of being single. Reality doesn't allow love anymore.

On one side is love, and on the other side is responsibility and pressure. Mixed days, let yourself not be happy. But love, how can you let go.

Often, this kind of love will not be understood, nor will it be blessed, only to torment one's heart day by day. In the end, I had to break up because of responsibility, leaving a bunch of thoughts to love, to think, to speak, and not to meet.

2. Don't bother, don't contact, it has become the last tacit understanding.

The space of the mind is occupied by love, but love is so far away. You have to accept it. Even if it is bitter, you have to carry it.

For the sake of each other's happiness, or for the sake of fulfilling each other, you let go, but you won't be reassured. Only promise, don't bother, don't contact, no matter what the situation, don't contact.

When you think about each other, turn on your mobile phone, take a look at the former **, or quietly go to see the news of the circle of friends, silently pay attention to each other, bless each other, let the pain of missing come to your heart, as long as you know that the other party is good, you will be relieved a little bit.

In the end, it became a habit to endure and endure, perhaps, both of them were like this, they loved for a while, and suffered for a lifetime.

Yes. Especially the older ones, and the original friends can't be together for various reasons, but after a long time, there is not much to say, so I can only find a silent miss in my heart.

If you miss someone every day, but don't get in touch, I think such a person is a very introverted, not good at socializing, and unwilling to tell others what is on your mind, if you miss someone a lot, I think what you should do is to find one.

I think many people have this phenomenon, miss someone, but don't contact him because they are afraid of disturbing him.

A friend of mine has this experience, she especially likes a boy, but the background of the two is very different, and it is not the type that boys like, that is, a person thinks about him silently, but never bother.

I feel like you miss someone every day and don't connect with them, so many people will have this feeling of yours.

This feeling is shared by everyone, and sometimes I miss someone but don't want to connect with them. Because two people are inseparable, although both parties have love in their hearts, they are unwilling to destroy each other's lives and affect each other's quietness.

Some! I feel like that's how I am now, I usually miss someone very much because she betrayed me, but I don't want to contact her, I don't want to talk to her.

This situation for you is actually happening to everyone, and this feeling is like unrequited love, wanting to find the other person but afraid to disturb the other person.

I miss someone every day, but I don't get in touch.

There will be times when I feel this way.

But it's all very short.

It's the case of a crush.

You love the person you miss very much, since you love him, you have to confess it, even if it doesn't work, you have made an effort for your love, and you won't regret it.

Yes, the main reason is that they are afraid of disturbing others, and they don't know what others think. Generally, if you are sure of the relationship, it will not be like this, and if you miss her, you will contact her.

Why don't you contact someone if you miss someone, so she may not know if she misses her or her illness. But it may not be suitable to bother her anymore.

Yes. Like not to bother, it may be a secret crush, or it may be that you and that person can't be together for various reasons, but you have him in your heart. will miss, but not contact.

Why don't you miss it, why do you want to make yourself miserable if there is no result?

It is very normal for young people to miss someone. But I don't think we should just think about it, we should take action.

I think everyone is in a situation where they think about a person but don't dare to contact them.

This feeling is unrequited love, it is a very painful torment, and if you love someone, you must boldly chase it, confess your psychological feelings to the other party, and love clearly, which will have a better effect.

Why torture yourself like this? I want to be alone and don't get in touch. Do you think it's bad to keep it in your heart?

If you don't say it, the other party won't know. Strive for your own happiness. You like him to prove that he is good, but can you guarantee that others will not like him?

I like her (him), but I don't want to contact him, and I am on the verge of struggling!

I miss someone but don't dare to contact them.

It's a very bad performance. However, there are times when we are like that, and there is no way around it, because we know we don't have a position to reach out to each other.

I've tried to miss someone, but I didn't dare to take the initiative to contact them. This was when I broke up with my boyfriend. At that time, I had an argument with him over a little thing, and finally proposed to break up.

Because he took the initiative to break up, and he was indeed making trouble unreasonably at that time, he didn't dare to contact the other party. Afraid of contacting the other party, you will be ridiculed by the other party. I'm afraid that I'm just missing each other by myself.

I'm afraid that the other party doesn't want to get back together at all.

Obviously, they miss each other all the time, but they don't dare to tell each other what they miss, and they don't even have the courage to say hello to each other. This feeling is really painful, and I feel panicked in my heart. Fortunately, that time he took the initiative to contact me, so we were together again.

I'm glad he loves me a little more than I love him. Since that time, I won't break up easily, because I don't want to go through the feeling of missing someone but not daring to contact the other person again.

In any case, feelings are a very sacred thing, and they deserve to be treated with our hearts. So if you really miss someone, then be brave and face your heart and don't let yourself have regrets. Maybe you take the initiative to reach out to each other and you have a chance to get back together?

Of course, if you are afraid to contact the other party because of other circumstances, then you will have to make another plan. For example, when we like someone we shouldn't like, even if we miss the other person, we shouldn't bother the other person. Because no matter what, we still have to have a certain bottom line and principles in life.

Maybe it's because I'm born with such a character, and I don't want to take the initiative to communicate with others, and I always feel that if I take the initiative to contact him, I won't be very faceless, or I feel that I'm too frivolous.

In fact, when I was a child, I liked to talk to my father, but now I don't know why I really want him to be healthy now but I don't dare to take the initiative to contact him, I may feel that this way is too abrupt, we are not good at expressing love children, this kind of care is too abrupt and a bit deliberate.

But in fact, there is a big reason that no news is the best news, I am afraid that when I contact him, I will find out that something is wrong with him, maybe this kind of thinking will be more self-defeating, if I don't contact him, it will happen or it will happen, but I don't know.

I remember when I was in high school, I could only go home once a month because of the reason I lived in the school, and there was only a very small Nokia at that time, and I rarely played **, and once when I went home, my aunt told me that my dad was in a car accident and is still in the hospital, and I only knew that my dad had been in the hospital for more than half a month. So I'm really scared of the bad news that will happen after I contact him, so this feeling is really tangled.

Probably when you are bored to pick up the phone, find that the message you want to see has not been received, look at the familiar name of the friend list, click on it and type a lot of words, when you want to send it, you find that the last chat is the end of your knot, and then delete it word by word, and finally close the phone again.

Many people are not young, and the conditions are not bad, but they are still single, and they probably have an impossible person in their hearts. When I just broke up, there was not much emotional fluctuation in my heart, maybe there was a slight delay, because I was worried that I wouldn't be able to accept it for a while, she would still send me a message as usual, we didn't break up, everything was still so familiar, so natural. About a week later, suddenly I woke up one night, I felt that I had broken up with her in a dream, and I just picked up my phone to remember that we had already broken up, a kind of sadness welled up, and tears flowed down spontaneously, and the feeling of a large empty piece in my heart was very uncomfortable.

I realized that I wasn't that strong, at least not strong enough to be okay without her.

Later, I slowly accepted this fact, but sometimes I always think of sharing things with her when I encounter happy or unhappy things, but when I pick up my phone and see that the previous record is what I said, "You want to be happy", think about it or don't bother, in case someone misunderstands it, it's not good. Sometimes I dream of her, she is quite far away from me, maybe she doesn't want to be too close to me, even in my dreams. Finally I became a passerby in her life, and she slowly faded into my memory, and the memory of that time was like a dream.

When I wake up from a dream, I still have to live a good life, I still miss you, but I won't let you know, maybe I'm afraid that you'll say I'm stupid.

The experience of holding back to suffocate to death. No one could understand my feelings, they didn't know why I didn't dare to contact that person. For me, my feelings are clear and thorough.

I welcome those who should come, I will not keep those who should go, and I will no longer entangle and disturb those who have left, which is my last respect and dignity. Even if I encounter it by chance in the future, I will laugh it off, maybe it will be heartache after laughing, but I will not let anyone know that my heart hurts.

I have a friend who is very important to me, and we talk about our ideals in life, even if there is nothing to talk about, we can talk nonsense for hours. Such a person left me, admittedly I felt a pity, during this time I also wanted to go to him countless times, contact him, but I held back. I will not forget the night ** I cried and said to him

If I die, don't even think about it for the rest of your life.

At this age, I also became more and more mature, and I tend to be very considerate of my friends' feelings and not say anything to hurt them. But he brought me back to that state of no brains and emotional intelligence again, and I was eager to say anything that could pierce his heart to hurt him, and I said to him: I will not lose when it comes to hurting each other.

Carried away by grief and anger, I told myself that if I had any more contact with him, I would commit suicide by jumping off a building.

So what can I do? Even though I wanted to contact him, I had to hold back. Because I have a commitment to myself, and I know that there is no way for us to go back to the past, I am no longer the person who matters to him.

I remember that after a long time of arguing, I sent him a text message on impulse, and what I got was an instant call, and he said that because I contacted him, he was so happy that he wanted to run out and yell a few times at once. But then we hurt each other and tortured each other. He was happy and suddenly put it down, without giving me a chance to react.

I naively thought we could go back to the past, but he told me he couldn't. It was really a heartache that I couldn't breathe and couldn't help myself, so even if I tried to contact him again, I would hold it until I died.