Why does it feel like he s putting up with me, is he putting up with me or loves me?

First of all, I think that it is you who need to change, it is a good thing to have a character, and it is also worthy of an alternative appreciation, but people's thoughts are not the same as your thoughts alone, so your temper should be changed, not necessarily a person with a sharp mouth is a bad person. Maybe it's another way of humor, but you have to really understand what kind of person he is.

And I think that your language is a bit contradictory, or your emotions are a little tangled, he can't stand you, but he doesn't feel very good about you, which is also his direct reaction to you, and the reaction is related to your temper.

Also, if you are afraid of him, then how can you be afraid of him? Both of them are afraid of each other, so this thinking is not a difference, but a weirdness.

Finally, in 2 sentences, you mentioned [boring] 2 times in a row, which means that you don't care about this person at all, in other words, you should have no feelings for him, and even if you do, it's just boring!

The answer, taken together, is simple.

Since he tolerates you, you have a bad temper, so it should be necessary to change your temper.

Since you find it boring, then he is just a passerby. So this answer may only be able to be annotated by yourself.

Is he someone who is important to you? Otherwise, how could you think of hoping that he trusts you. If you haven't started yet, then be kind to him, try to restrain yourself as much as possible, and don't let your shortcomings explode in front of him all at once, because the relationship that has not started and is about to start is difficult to test, only a deeper understanding, and then he can tolerate you.

Note: Tolerance and tolerance are not the same, one is active and the other is passive, that is, it represents whether he loves you or just likes you on the surface.

You don't have to please him, sometimes you deliberately cater to him but lose your own nature, it is better to be your true self to be more attractive.

I don't think you have cultivated common interests and hobbies, and you don't have the channels to learn more about both sides! This is important! If you like him, then you should also take the initiative!

Don't always care about your own face, men also care about face! In fact, there is nothing wrong with an extroverted man, it depends on how you hurt him! I wish you all happiness!

How do you trust or please an extrovert?

Why please?

Trust is built up over time.

If both parties don't have enough trust, the breakup is over.

Your suspicion comes from your lack of self-confidence, there is nothing wrong with an extrovert, if you want to blame yourself, you are not confident, women, you must first learn to be confident, only then can you have the capital to talk about others.

Why do you want to please others, as long as you feel that it is right, why do you need others to agree, how can thousands of people in the world talk to you?

They are all bullying the soft and afraid of the hard.

He loves you so much that he puts up with you all the time.

But everyone has a bottom line to endure.

In other words, he has been trying to accept what you give him, but until he can't bear it anymore, his natural love for you will turn into a boredom of your feelings.

He chose to break up during the summer vacation, perhaps because he was afraid that he would not be ruthless in person, or he was afraid that you would not be able to accept it.

But no matter what, his mentality should be too tired by your feelings. (Otherwise, he has something else to love, but depending on what you say, it probably won't).

You still have room to redeem, but you have to sincerely apologize to him. Make him feel that being with you will no longer be just about enduring feelings.

However, it is useless to say this now, and it is recommended that you keep in touch with him for now and talk about it when we meet.

He is more repulsive now, and his mood must be very chaotic, if you beg him or persuade him now, you may not be able to listen.

Moreover, ** or online communication, in fact, is not as sincere and practical as real meeting and communication.

I think your story is similar to mine, and in the end I broke up with him because he had someone else. In fact, if you don't force yourself to let go of him, you are forcing her to leave, it is not good for you and him, I can't say that he doesn't love you, he loves you, but he finds that he can't love that, and he doesn't even dare to love you, he can't pay more for you, bless him and bless you yourself. In fact, there is nothing that you can't let go, you are irrational now, and the good is still to come.

You can let both of you calm down first, and you can also take a step back and give him some freedom in the future relationship, so that he knows that you can also be very considerate. The relationship between two people needs to be run-in, if he still can't accept it, then I still advise you to give up, because he loves you obviously not enough, you are not the most important thing for him, and there are many factors above you. So it's better to give up, after all, if the person you love doesn't love and he suffers, you won't feel good!

If a person wants to leave, he will have a thousand reasons.

If a person wants to go, what's the use of keeping him, he's a smart person and chooses the short pain, do you want to choose the stupid long pain?

It seems that you are obviously too young, and your life seems to be climbing a mountain, and the higher you climb, the wider your horizon becomes. When you look at today's doubts in a few years, you will feel that today is really stupid.

If he insists on separating, why bother with it, the scenery behind will be better.

Are you sure he loved you? Hehe.

If he insists on breaking up with you, then he has to let go, and the twisted melon is not sweet.