Why is my mom like this, why does my mom keep doing it??

Contentment. My brother is younger than you and needs more care from my mother. In fact, on birthdays, we should not ask for gifts, we should learn to thank our mothers, because on our birthdays, it is the day when our mothers give birth to us, and it is very painful and difficult for us to give birth to a child.

So be sure to thank your mom on your birthday.

A lot of the time I'm in the same mood. I think she still loves you, just a little bit more for her brother. Parents are like this, and they will love a certain child more.

Be the best version of yourself, you may not understand now, but later you will find that you are the only one who is sad and hurt, and the most important thing is to live your own life.

=.In fact. Every mother is good to her child.

Although sometimes they will be beaten and scolded. Think about it from a different perspective. The more gold jewelry your mother buys for your brother.

He went out. And then being targeted. Then it was robbed.

Then kidnapped. It was then amputated. And then you're an only child, aren't you?

My analysis makes sense. I've told you all. This is a superficial phenomenon.

Your mom just wants your brother to dress well. Others think it's a rich boy. So they kidnapped him.

People think you're a poor boy. You won't be in danger. Look how nice your mom is to you.

In fact, you can find a time to talk to your mother about your thoughts, every mother loves her children, but sometimes it's not the right way. Also, if you have grievances, you must not hold it in your heart, you must say it, so that your mother will know that she has hurt you, otherwise she will think you are very good.

Patriarchal girls, love yourself well, it's okay, we don't rely on ourselves.

Be nice to your brother, and then your mother will treat you badly, and your brother will help you.

I have a younger brother, I am 22 years old, my brother is 20, my mother loves my brother very much, but it is okay for me...He's grown up, and he doesn't know what it is. Spoiling him like this now is tantamount to harming him! Wait for him to be sensible.

If it is a normal situation, the elderly feel lonely and cannot be comforted, so they should ask their children to go back and see, if it is a lonely old man, if the situation allows, you can consider finding a wife; If it is pathological, that is, a geriatric mental illness, you can consider going to the local mental illness prevention and control center for hospitalization and comfort**. That will also change.

There is always a reason why old people do it. Or the children are too good to them, but the old people are still not satisfied, and they show more selfishness. Or the elderly pursue their own lives, but the children misunderstand the old man's self as selfish.

Or the elderly will not be suitable for their own lifestyle, ask their children to provide for them, and always learn to change like a person. Or in the good of the children, the nanny hired for them always said that it was not good and was dismissed. Therefore, the work of the elderly should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

The old man will do it, don't I say, how many years can I do it?

In fact, to put it bluntly, the old man still sees who is good to her, and she bullies her, because he knows that this person is reluctant to leave her alone. Another reason is that they are far away and smelly, they always want to always think they are good, and you have done everything by your side, and you are not good, Zhihuai seems to please her, and she still looks down on her.

Let such an old man let him do it, or let her live alone on the side, so that no matter what she does, it will be good slowly.

There has been a deviation in the understanding of the elderly, and my dad was hospitalized 3 times last year and suffered from scleroderma. But he didn't admit that he was sick, and when he asked him to take medicine, he refused, and pressured him to take medicine, so he cursed, took out his medicine, and threw it in the box. Take your medicine where we can't see it.

My mom has been Parkinson's for 5 years, and she has been having difficulty moving at times, and she often needs support. In this way, my mother thought that she was very capable and popular. I'm afraid that I won't see my grandson, my grandson will talk about it, and I want to make zongzi or something like that during the New Year, I broke my hand bone because I took too many things up the stairs this month.

It's really ignorant.

Isn't her uncle's divorce and illness and her own ups and downs her own doing?

You think the old man does, the old man also thinks you do, the emotion is mutual, the living habits are different, the family is used to care, respect, tolerance, mutual respect and love of the family will be happy, only look at the other party's shortcomings and do not think about the other party's starting point to do this is wrong, stand in the other party's perspective to look at the problem, you will know, in fact, the old man is easy to accept your kindness, but also easy to perceive the other party's hypocrisy. In the traditional cultural atmosphere, young people should take the initiative to understand the elders, although there is no need to be as close to absolute obedience as in the previous feudal bureaucratic society, but understanding and respect and appropriate obedience have their existence value and foundation, and "filial piety with socks" as the first of traditional Chinese virtues, which also contains the value orientation of both filial piety and obedience. Therefore, the younger generation should take the initiative to understand that the older generation is the proper meaning of the question.

The elderly's love of "doing" is one of the manifestations of common emotional problems of the elderly, some of whom are not only unhappy, but also often accompanied by physical symptoms such as fatigue, fatigue, dizziness, and insomnia.

As the children of the elderly, we must first understand the specific reasons for the elderly's inner emotions, understand the needs behind their emotions and the unsolved knots, and then give certain support and guidance according to the specific reasons.

Generally speaking, the elderly are because they live a lonely life, feel that they have no sense of worth, have no hope of life, and are worried about their health or overly sensitive to their own burdens, so they will arouse the care and attention of their children through the way of "doing".

As filial sons and daughters, while paying attention to the lives of the elderly, we should also take care of their emotions, not only encourage the elderly to face life strongly, overcome the troubles caused by illness, but also comfort the elderly, divert their attention, and make them open their hearts.

If the problem is serious and cannot be solved, the elderly can be appropriately taken to see a psychiatrist, and through the guidance of experts, the elderly can get out of the shackles of the soul and face their old age again.

The greatest success of a family is that the family style is good, the parents set a good example, and the children work hard, so that the family will become more and more prosperous. The most unsuccessful thing is that someone makes trouble, and if the old man, who is the foundation of the family, takes the lead in making trouble, then the family can easily fall apart.