An ignorant teenager who meets a girl who confesses to him, what should he do?

We understand it in two layers, the first is to confess like a boy, and the second is that the boy is still an ignorant teenager.

Since it can be called a teenager, I don't know if I have watched the youth journey or some more girly dramas, most of them are ignorant romances.

The subject claims to be ignorant.,I'm a manager who has almost never had a girl confess to him and rarely communicates with a girl.,After all, I can't ask this question when I often communicate with girls.,And the subject is also interested in this girl.,The basis for reasoning is that since the subject has asked this question.,Then it must be interesting to her.。

Since it's all interesting to her, just promise her directly, I'm wondering if the subject is hesitant because of ignorance, less contact with girls, I don't know if my original life will be disrupted after two people live together, whether I will quarrel with other couples, and whether I will be subject to some obstructions like family, society, and school like other couples. I was a little scared about the changes in my life later on. If there are these, I want to tell the subject that sooner or later ignorance will experience changes and become mature, which must be experienced, and everyone cannot change, so I hope the subject will try to try, maybe the future life will be better.

The two of them face the future life together, and I can see from the subject's question that this ignorant teenager is an honest person who wants to live a good life, and attaches great importance to feelings. So it will be very prudent to make your own decisions, so I still recommend trying to accept the life of two people, eating together, watching movies together, traveling together, and facing difficulties together, which are all another attempt that is completely different from a person's life.

There is also a defendant who hesitates after the confession is that he has a good impression of her, but he doesn't like it too much, he is afraid that he doesn't like it enough, he wants to accept it but he doesn't feel that he likes the other party too much, no matter how hurt the other party is, even if he is not very willing, then he recommends the subject, tell the other party bluntly, and tell the other party your worries, but if the subject is really not like giving up this opportunity, you can also tell the other party that the two of you are not very familiar at the moment, I like you, but I don't think I like it enough, I think the two of us can try it first. This is also a good solution to this.

Ignorance matures sooner or later.

When you are a teenager, don't be ignorant, accept or refuse calmly, and don't take it for granted to solve the problem by evading.

When I was ignorant, I once encountered a similar situation, my junior high school classmate expressed to me that she had a good impression of her, and I didn't want to ruin the relationship between the two because of this incident, so I used the excuse of being a good friend to focus on studying first to escape the whole thing.

In the following years, she did a lot of things for me, after hearing that I was injured, she hurriedly ran to the door of our class to care about my injury, heard that I was going to sign up for independent enrollment, took the initiative to inquire about the location of the school, and wanted to take the college entrance examination to the same city, and has been active by my side for four years since I confessed, I have been pretending not to understand her intentions and pretending to be buried in my studies.

On her freshman birthday, she called me and cried and said, I'm tired, goodbye, and won't waste time on me anymore.

I'm sorry, it's been four years, and I still feel guilty when I think of it, although I don't know how to love and hate, but I know that if I can't be a lover, I will lose this friend, and I try to ease the relationship between the two people by escaping, but the clumsy escape is an excuse after all, and I can't open my mouth to let the other party die from the beginning will only make the other party hurt more. Now that I've also liked someone and lost her, I understand the humility of putting someone in the bottom of my heart but not being taken seriously. What's more, I understood her intentions, but I didn't tell her what I thought earlier, and now that I have lost her good friend, I think it would have been better if I had accepted her or rejected her.

Ignorance will never be an excuse for this, there is just the wrong way to deal with it and my selfishness, and frankly tell the other party, no matter what, I wish you a better life.

I think the main thing is to look at himself, if he wants to accept the other party very much, he will accept it directly and get along well, but if he doesn't want to, he can politely refuse the other party, after all, the relationship is barely coming.

Generally speaking, boys are much later than girls in terms of physical development and psychological maturity. Then the germination of love feelings will be a long time later, so we are often at a loss in our ignorant youth, let alone boys. It's normal and understandable to have such thoughts in such a time of being overwhelmed.

Then ignorant boys who often encounter this kind of problem will still have many ways to deal with it. The first way to deal with it is generally suitable for well-behaved boys, who generally only want to learn games and animations in their pre-adolescent years, and their minds are still a mess of mud for girls' pursuits. Therefore, these boys generally resort to refusal or non-response.

This depends on how the girl responds, and how deep the degree of "stalking" he is. Then there is the second kind of boy, that is, he actually still has this idea of budding first love in his heart, but he is not sure of his inner thoughts at the beginning, and he doesn't know how to express his inner thoughts, so he is stranded. There is also a reason why you are too shy to express yourself, and you dare not admit your inner thoughts out of your own self-esteem.

We may think that it is beautiful to have a pure love at an ignorant age, so what can we do in the face of such a situation? First of all, I think that if we really don't have this heart, then we should put aside distractions and study hard, after all, studying hard at this age is the key. So, if you have this idea, you should first ensure that your academic performance does not decline, and you can try to socialize with girls at an appropriate distance.

Breaking the little shyness and prudence in one's heart can develop the relationship between two people into a close "learning and development partner", after all, development and progress at this age are fundamental. In short, it is understandable not to indulge in proper "wasted schoolwork".

If you don't like that girl, you have to reject her tactfully, you can say that you have someone you like, or that you have no plans to fall in love now, and try to maintain the girl's self-esteem. But if you like that girl, try to be with that girl, after all, initiative has a story.

You should show favor to girls tactfully and gradually, and have a good relationship with girls.

You can't be in too much of a hurry.

Maybe she's too small.

Don't you also say she's a little girl.

It takes a while to accept things.