Why do couples like to quarrel, and why do some couples always like to quarrel?

There are several reasons for quarrels: first, men and women have different ideas in some aspects, men pay more attention to the righteousness of their buddies, while women mainly focus on feelings, and second, although you have the same starting point and end point when dealing with the same thing, but there are differences in the process of dealing with problems, resulting in different opinions and easy quarrels. Third, people are more selfish, always consider from their own point of view, to look at the analysis of problems, will not take into account the feelings of the other party, because the perspective is different.

Fourth, how much they love each other, but sometimes excessive love causes pressure and burden to each other, that is, there is less space for each other to be free, and it is easy to quarrel at this time. In fact, they are all in love with each other. It's just that everyone's way of loving is different.

Sometimes life has to turn a blind eye. Two people will definitely quarrel after a long time, because two people's thoughts cannot always be the same, in different circumstances, if each other insists on their own opinions, they will quarrel, it can only be said that each other takes some effective means or measures to reduce the number of quarrels, try to avoid.

No husband and wife like to quarrel Most of them quarrel because they disagree and don't give in to each other When parents quarrel, as children, try to persuade them. Let both sides deflat. Something to say. Home and everything is prosperous.

Real life is like this. Actually, parental quarrels are not a big deal. You don't have to worry about it, and you don't have to worry too much.

As long as the parents are not excessively quarrelsome, or domestic violence. Or get a divorce. You don't even have to ask.

Quarrels are a way for couples to release stress from each other. A quarrelsome couple is much better than a cold war family.

Why do couples keep quarreling with each other? Husbands and wives often quarrel, which not only affects the relationship between the two people, worsens the family atmosphere, but also affects the physical and mental health of both parties.

When some couples quarrel and contradict, they will easily talk about "divorce" or "breakup", especially women, what kind of psychology does this kind of person come up with at every turn?

Unfortunately, I'm that kind of person myself, so I'm very qualified to come to this question. I am an insecure person, because I am not confident, so I will be desperate when I quarrel, and I will be pessimistic about the worst outcome. As soon as you quarrel, you feel that the other party doesn't love you anymore, and you have become unimportant.

So he offered to break up, and if you don't keep it, then he's sure he's right.

In fact, their hearts are very sensitive, and they can only confirm the stability of this relationship through the thought of "you won't leave her", and he actually cares about you in his heart.

Only by assuring him that "you will never leave me" can he manage this relationship with peace of mind.

It is very tiring to be around insecure people, especially those who are extremely insecure.

He will test you through all kinds of things, small things, and he will be able to heat up to a very high level.

In fact, many times they don't want to do this, but his heart is already like this, and he can't change it easily.

If you really value him, then you usually need to be more thoughtful and take proper care of his small emotions.

As an insecure party, you need to cultivate your own interests and hobbies, once you have your own things and self, you don't need to be so strong to verify your status in the hearts of others.