Live your own life, and life is your own

Updated on society 2024-04-19
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are a friend, you will understand your last resort, and it is good that you have not deceived everyone emotionally.

    There is no need to put so much pressure on yourself, you just need to work hard in the company, people's past does not mean your present, and the boss only pays attention to your current work performance, in fact, the recruitment they issued at that time is also following the trend.

    For their wrong premise, the wrong decision you make does not mean that it is your fault.

    To say that they make a mistake that allows you to correct it by denying yourself is a false proposition. It's the monster of this circle, you are looking for a job to survive, your job has not brought losses to the company, everyone is a win-win situation, this is a happy ending, why do you think so tired.

    It's right to adhere to justice and principles, when you don't hurt anyone's interests, don't be so serious, life still needs to be rare and confused.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If they are your friends, they will definitely understand you, no matter what the situation and what kind of life you are, your true self is happier than your disguised self. How long can you disguise yourself? Be your true self!

    Your own thinking, your personality, all up to you decide, to believe in the real self, if you don't even believe in yourself, it means that you have given up on yourself. Go for the life you want, but don't pay for your own personhood. You want to find a good job, right?

    How easy is that? Don't be in a hurry to do anything, take it step by step, take one step at a time, take one step at a time, and absolute self-confidence. Isn't it just to get a good job and live a good life?

    Anyway, let's not talk about it, be confident, persevere, get out of the world that doesn't belong to you, and go to the world where you should be.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, do you have the courage to face your true self, why do you keep lying, after all, you can't face yourself, there is nothing you can't say, there is nothing you can't do, it's whether you have the courage to do it.

    After all, finding someone to talk to is only a temporary relief from stress, but it is not a long-term solution, not to mention that in the long run, it will increase the degree of self-conflict, which will be bad for mental health.

    You are a capable person, I think ability may speak for itself, ability can also make up for the lack of experience, I believe that with your ability, you will have a good future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After I graduated from college, I completely forgot my true self, and I almost disguised everything I had in the face of the pressure of employment, and almost every job now requires work experience and other things, but for me as a student who has just graduated from college, how can I talk about work experience? How easy is it to find a better job?

    When I was interviewed for my first job, I began to disguise my age, work experience, and even say that I was so successful and capable. Time flies, a year has passed, and now I want to live in my old life, but how can I do it! I feel sorry for all my colleagues and friends after graduation I lied to you, but what do you tell me to do now?

    In fact, I really want to say everything I want to say, but I'm afraid that after I say it, you will misunderstand your opinion of me, I think I'm really tired now, I live a hypocritical life all day long, I do things every day, I am more careful when I speak, I am afraid of revealing my identity, now I have enough of this life, I don't want to live it, how can I get out of this predicament? When a friend gave me a birthday, I was 2 years older than my actual age, and after everyone left, I sat quietly in the box alone but didn't want to leave, I felt so lonely!

    I really want to find a stranger to talk to often, tell them some secrets that I can't tell, and find someone to talk to, but I haven't found it for a long time, and at first I looked for it with a good attitude, but in the end I started to panic with them again, I don't know what is wrong with me, maybe I am used to living such a life. It's hard to change for a while!

    The real life is so tiring! I want to find a place where my heart can stop and live my true life. Live the life you want!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's similar to what happened to you, so be happy! Now that there is no one to deceive anyone in this society, you have to understand that people who are scheming in this world can't live, don't often say something to mislead yourself, think seriously about what you would think of yourself if you were someone!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    That's right, there is a mixture of fish and dragons in society, everyone must disguise themselves, and it is impossible to follow their own thoughts in everything. If you want to relax, just show yourself in front of your family during the few days of the Chinese New Year, because home is always a harbor for the soul.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The truth is the most reasonable, and the integrity is the most powerful!

    Everyone starts from scratch, whether it is 0+1 or 0+2, as long as you keep adding every day, you will succeed!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1481537965 Your problem is not to be able to explain it in a few words, make a friend, I have experienced the pressure of just coming out of society, understand you, but you have done it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I want to be friends with you. I also have a lot of sad things in my life. I'd like to hear from you. q820077598

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Each of us did not come into this world by our own choice, and we have no right to choose our birth, and certainly not our death. God left this right to Himself. All we can do is choose how we live.

    Some people say that life is like a journey, you don't care about the place of departure or the destination, you care about the scenery along the way. I think that's a wonderful thing to say.

    But many, many of us seem to have forgotten this, focusing only on goals and results, and not knowing how to enjoy life itself. In order to achieve the so-called goals of life, everything will be done. It took a lifetime of energy, and on the day of death, some people finally achieved their goals, but many more ended in failure.

    If you ask them are happy? I can guarantee that no one who says they are happy will feel very tired and tired, and only when they are old will they realize that they have lived in vain all their lives. Why?

    Because they are so focused on results that they forget that life is actually the most important thing in life. The process of life is actually the most important thing. As long as you live happily every day, it is more important than anything else.

    Take QQ Ask this game as an example, when I really try my best to take other people's questions seriously, I feel like I'm happy, happy. But one day when I wanted to get more points, I wanted to be the first, and I seemed to have grasped the mystery of getting to the first, my happiness was gone, I just felt tired, very tired. Why is this so?

    Because my goal has been detached from the principle of happiness. Because I'm not here to answer questions for pleasure anymore, I'm here to answer questions for the goal that seems to be achievable.

    Remember, friend, if your goal has deviated from the principle of happiness, it means that it is time for you to think about it, is the goal right? file to be modified appropriately?

    In fact, the most important thing in a person's life is to have a healthy body and a happy mood, only this is truly your own, and the rest may be lost at any time. Because these are all things outside the body, the so-called life does not bring it, and death does not take it away. That's what it means.

    The meaning of life is in life itself, to live a wonderful life, to live happily, this is the whole meaning of life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    has a soft spot for the lyrics written by Lin Xi, and the lyrics created by Lin Xi can always make people feel a little philosophical. What I recommend to you today is "Live My Life", the original singer is Mr. Xiao Huangqi.

    When I heard this song by chance, I was faced with a choice, whether to stay in a first-tier city to engage in a job that had gradually become numb, or to return to my hometown to live the life I wanted. Jian He both the lyrics and Mr. Xiao Huangqi's interpretation are just right, and after a few cycles, I decided to go home and live my own life.

    I'm only 26 years old this year, and my life is a long way, just like the lyrics: "The cup of tea that belongs to me, what kind of taste you want, it's best to be just right, you can only have your own mix." In the future, I hope that "I have time is not time to have my announcement, I do what I want to do with affection, and busyness is also a kind of leisure, as long as I want to look forward to it for as long as there is a mood".

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What we hurriedly walked through is the years, what we leave behind is the story, what follows the wind is the memory, and what we look forward to is hope. There is only one life, don't be a supporting role in other people's lives, you must have the courage to be the protagonist in your own life, and "act" every drama in life, so as not to be in vain in this life. For the rest of my life, I hope you and I can live as a beam of light, transparent and bright; Live as a flower, bright and moving; Live like a cloud, free and elegant.

    Keep yourself busy and full, throw away all the miscellaneous thoughts, forget everything that should be forgotten, sleep when you are tired, eat when you are hungry, and do what you think. Life will be fine, the days are slowly moving forward, life is like the sun rising on time every day, warm and bright. Busy but not annoying, busy but not confused.

    No matter how strong the wind is and how wild the rain is, you can't stay in bed; When you are tired, no matter how busy your heart is, don't lose your dreams; No matter how high the mountain is, no matter how long the road is, we must move forward. No matter how busy you are, don't lose your dreams, life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about your original intention and dreams. Fengpei maintains sobriety and self-discipline, knows how to advance and retreat and loves himself, and his ideal life needs a little love and heartbeat.

    Sometimes the world is really small, then run together with dreams, and sometimes the world is big, then with perseverance and hard work, it will be rented for a long time. In short, don't let people live with only a trace of regrets, run to the distance with their dreams, and go on strongly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't follow someone else's life, a worthy life is not to copy someone else's life, but to use your own abilities and useful circumstances to live your own life.

    The value of life is not reflected in the amount of property and the level of status. The essential value of life is not affected by the things in appearance. The criterion for judging the value of life is personality, if you live according to personality, whether you are a ** or a trader, the value is the same.

    All life is precious and valuable. Everyone's life has a unique value that others cannot imitate. The common denominator of those who live meaningful lives is that they do not follow the path of others, but live their lives conscientiously according to their own personality.

    They create values that match their personality and are respected and envied by others.

    Don't use other people's lives as a blueprint for your life, and don't work hard to reach someone else's level. There are no rules for a meaningful, worthwhile life. There is no rule that a certain life is useful and worthwhile and that it is necessary to live that life.

    The principle of life is yourself, and going all out for your life is a meaningful and rewarding life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Pay attention to your own health problems.

    If you want to live your life well, a healthy body is the foundation. Only when you are in good health can you be in the mood to think about work, family, RV, travel, hobbies, and other aspects.

    Usually take your health problems to heart, stay up less late, overdraft your health less, exercise more, develop more good habits, take care of yourself, and lay a good foundation for your health.

    2. Remember to act while being excited.

    Many people encounter one thing, want to do it well, but have been forgetting to act, many people want to ****, but have been sitting still, many people want to improve their professional quality, but have been unwilling to learn, do not let their ideas stay at the level they want forever.

    Only when you start will you achieve the effect you want, and only when you set off will you reach where you want to go.

    3. Active learning doesn't make you suffer.

    Usually set small goals for yourself, reward yourself after the small goals are completed, give yourself the motivation to keep moving forward, find some directions you like, and accumulate energy for yourself through love.

    4. Manage your time well and learn to cherish it.

    If you want to manage your time well, remember to keep one principle in mind: when you spend your time, you gain it. Your time is spent in, and your flowers bloom in.

    5. Treat others the way you want them to treat you.

    When you want someone to be polite to you, remember to see if you are polite to her, and when you want someone to be sincere and trusting to you, remember to see if you have given the other person trust.

    You will meet all kinds of people in life, not everyone will like you, the basic principle: how you treat others, others will treat you. Equally: do unto others as they would have them do unto you.

    6. If you want to live your own life, remember to let go of too much comparison.

    When you compare clothes with others today, bags with others tomorrow, cars with others the day after tomorrow, and houses where you live, you will find that you have been watching the lives of others and losing the happiness of your own life.

    Life is all your own, just live your own, don't show off, and don't always think about what others don't have. Let go of comparing yourself with others too much, spend more time on your own life, and be more comfortable.

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