The child wants to be a writer, how can she give up completely

Updated on educate 2024-04-25
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello parents, don't worry, children are meant to be taught.

    Adolescent children are more rebellious nowadays.

    Therefore, it is even more necessary for parents to show the way.

    You can say this to your child.

    Reading and learning is very important, dreams are good, but not blind pursuit!

    First of all, you must recognize the goal, clarify what you want to do, what you really like to do, and once you make up your mind, it will be a lifetime thing, and does he have such an awareness?

    If you really love literature, please don't ** children's dreams, after all, people now have dreams, only one very good thing, in this society, our dreams have been worn out by this cruel world.

    You can teach your child like this, let him study well, and in the future, he will be admitted to a better university and study Chinese, which is very good!

    Only by relying on good education can dreams be realized, and it is good for people to have dreams, but they will not reach the sky in one step.

    Like to read, try to write by yourself, this is not a good thing, as long as you don't go astray, in fact, you can learn a lot from it, bad writing can be slowly exercised, which takes time to precipitate, life experience ......and so on.

    Write so much, I hope it can help you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think he should just be rebellious, to communicate well, want to be a writer is a good idea, you shouldn't stop him, you can't distrust him, you should support him, genius is really very rare in the world, the day after tomorrow genius is more, when your child submits on the Internet, he is waiting, waiting is a long pain. At this time, he needs your encouragement and your support, and at this time you are standing in opposite directions, maybe you have ruined this child, and you haven't even realized it.

    Of course, he told you that the things about those writers are facts, and he may also be a kind of release of pressure, friends, you can try to communicate with your child, twist his self-righteous truth that is a little biased, you tell him that a good book will be popular even if it doesn't need money and advertising,,, and there are other things you have to listen to him patiently, and then slowly recall what he said, can you accept it? Or it's wrong, and you have to find out the reason for the mistake, enlighten him at the right time, and slowly he will lose the generation gap with you.

    Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, friends hope that your hard-working children can understand as soon as possible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, it is recommended to have a good communication with their teacher, your daughter is very whimsical, and I personally feel a little naïve.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Start by publishing an article online and take your time step by step. Being a writer is hard, but it's possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is also a way to stop him from learning to write, tell him how to have an academic atmosphere in college, how to be romantic, and how to be happy among classmates. The main thing is to make him interested in a certain subject, and he can also study literature in college, and he has a wider horizon, and he can also study biology, mathematics, architecture, etc.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Dwarf oil, my mother supported me to write ,,, be a writer...

    Don't you want to strangle her ...

    Really,,, if you don't support him, it's counterproductive.

    You can also improve her writing skills by supporting him, so why not!!

    Or my mom is more open-minded.

    What's wrong with children's writing?,It's not good.。。。

    I'm happy to take the manuscript fee of the white flowers...

    I advise you not to be so old-fashioned.

    I write a youth literature magazine.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I haven't been a parent, but I've been like this before, the more things that others don't oppose, the more you have to do it, you might as well let him know two points in turn, first, of course, the most important thing is to learn, it's not impossible to be a writer, but writers are knowledgeable, well-versed in ancient and modern times, to do this we must come little by little, all the current must first do a good job of learning, lay a good foundation, only a good foundation, can talk about the future ideals; Second, adjust the mentality, now the child is still young, will not adjust his own heart, this must be the help of parents, parents to let the child know that writing is not to become famous in the future, but to think in his heart, what he sees in front of him with his words to better express. Do not use violence at such times as the child, as the child will feel that his parents are unable to communicate with him. It is very important for parents to guide their children's mentality throughout the process.

    Happiness to you and your children!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Estimated motivation for writing**: 1. Interest, really like or receive some encouragement; 2. Escape from reality, such as not doing well in grades. It is recommended to guide them to take writing as a side hustle and focus on studying.

    Writers all have a certain amount of life experience, and Han Han and others all started by writing about student experiences. Writers are not glamorous, the vast majority are unknown, and even more so are web writers. Children should be allowed to see the situation of online writers and let them know that this road is not easy.

    Finally, it is important to cultivate his confidence to face the reality, and it is important to have the courage to accept and face it if his grades are not good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is not impossible for children to become writers, but writers must have a certain degree of imagination, thinking, patience and rich knowledge. If you want to become a writer, you have to read thousands of books, and it is better to travel thousands of miles.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Children are born different, but every child has the potential to develop.

    Respecting children's interests and needs is the foundation of family education.

    Every child has their own interests and hobbies, and any aspect of the interests and hobbies can bring good results if they are properly guided.

    It turns out that the interests that children develop at an early age can often be the foundation for their lifelong career development. The growth of many celebrities is linked to a certain hobby, and persistent hobbies are not only conducive to the growth of children, but also provide fertile soil for children's future career development. For example, Shakespeare is a world-famous playwright and poet, he was very fond of drama when he was a child, and often invited his friends to his home to play plays, even when he was apprenticed in the slaughterhouse, the young Shakespeare did not give up his hobby.

    His love of theatre led Shakespeare to write some of the world's most famous plays, such as Romeo and Juliet, King Lear, Hamlet and Othello. Parents imposing their own interests and desires on their children, or depriving them of their interests and needs for no reason, can have a negative impact on their children's development.

    For the sake of education.

    You're going to pay a big price.

    But don't complain.

    Because the cost of ignorance is greater

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you support him, help him more.

    If you don't support it, let him submit to the magazine, earn the manuscript fee, hone him, and let him know that writers don't just say they should be! ~

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Agree with the point from upstairs. It's not okay for a child not to suffer a loss.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Happy to support.

    Sincerely be his first reader, and sincerely put forward his own opinions.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can ask him to write some articles first, so that you can also train him. Let him know that being a writer is not that simple. If he really enjoyed writing, he would have stuck with it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Encouragement should be given, but the key is to see how good his level is, whether the article he writes can be published, if not, he should be encouraged to study more, read more books, in short, it is always good to have this spirit, should be encouraged, but to teach children to learn to face reality, learn to face setbacks, only in this way, will they go to the road to success.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't give him money, let him take care of it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can directly participate in the filming of the new drama "Guizhou Ocean World", and there is their official website when you search for "Guizhou Ocean World", and then you go to see it and there is a talent pool, and there are many local actors in Guizhou.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe in the eyes of the average person, writing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, correct your mentality; This is important.

    It doesn't matter if you have ink in your stomach or not; The most important thing is to have the heart to be a writer; As long as LZ is firm in his ideals; own goals; It's going to work.

    As the saying goes, "a tall building rises from the ground"!

    during the creation of the work; Start by conceiving a framework; For example, the names of the characters that will appear in the work; Nature; map name; what kind of expertise you know, etc.; Other words; If I were to write a fantasy essay on otherworldly travel; The first thing to do is to set up a framework; plot, etc.; It's good to create later.

    In the process of creation; You might as well read more of other people's excellent works; to further improve themselves; This is very helpful for your writing.

    I'm not literate; Not too detailed; Please also forgive me; I'm also a writer. Hehe; From the very beginning; Write a dozen words in 2 hours; Later, it can be written in 2 hours and revised to about 3,000 words.

    The first thing a professional writer wants is the quality of his work; The credibility of character.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Learn to feel, learn to think, learn to care about details, learn to ponder the changes in the mind's thinking, learn to record real and imaginary bits and pieces, and then organize these, then, congratulations, you have succeeded

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Write a book yourself, and if it sells well, you are a writer! If you spend most of your time writing books, you're a professional writer!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    My opinion: as long as you work hard, you can succeed without channels and steps.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The so-called professional writer is to sit at home professionally.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't do anything else, I just create at home.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's hard to say.

    You have to have a certain ability to learn and do.

    The second is that you can support yourself by this.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Parents are a child's first teacher and a child's lifelong teacher, so parental education is crucial to a child's growth, especially in the child's teenage years. This is the truth that children are a mirror of parents, but such an important issue is ignored by many parents. Therefore, in order to be responsible for the child's life, it is recommended that parents learn some art of educating their children.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Share your mood with them, recognize your child's thinking, guide them correctly, and grow up with them.

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